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Lauren
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God Parent Question...

My cousin just had a baby and I have a VERY strong feeling they are going to ask me to be the Godmother, tonight...

What are the things that I will need to do for the Christening and thereafter? What is expected?

I have never done this before!

I am Catholic and so are they...

Thanks!

Message edited 11/15/2006 3:27:28 PM.

Posted 11/15/06 3:27 PM
 
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Laura1976

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Re: God Parent Question...

your supposed to help guide the baby in his/her religious upbringing.

Nowadays, its just kind of a title. Usually you'll pay for the christening gown too.

Posted 11/15/06 3:30 PM
 

Lauren
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Re: God Parent Question...

Posted by Laura1976

your supposed to help guide the baby in his/her religious upbringing.

Nowadays, its just kind of a title. Usually you'll pay for the christening gown too.



That's really what I am asking I think - what am I suppose to buy, purchase,?

Posted 11/15/06 3:32 PM
 

McSullivan
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Re: God Parent Question...

You are responsible for the spiritual growth of the child in her faith.

I'm a Godmother and I take it very seriously.

As far as gifts and the like, traditionally the Godmother buys the Christening gown. But traditions vary in every family.

Posted 11/15/06 3:34 PM
 

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I think the christening gown is what Godmother's traditionally buy. But now a days sometimes the grandparents like to do that.

I would think of buying something religious, like a little gold cross for the baby or a saints medal

Posted 11/15/06 3:37 PM
 

Hi-Fi55
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Re: God Parent Question...

Posted by sirk1020

I think the christening gown is what Godmother's traditionally buy. But now a days sometimes the grandparents like to do that.

I would think of buying something religious, like a little gold cross for the baby or a saints medal



My great grandmother bought the christening gown for my Goddaughter so I purchased her first cross for her to wear. I also try to do extra special things for her once and awhile, so that she knows that Godmother is not just a title.

Posted 11/15/06 4:02 PM
 

lvdolphins
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Re: God Parent Question...

You buy the Christening outfit

Posted 11/15/06 4:03 PM
 

Ang-Rich
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Re: God Parent Question...

Once you are asked I would suggest that you find out from the mommy what the plans are for the dress and more specifically if there is a particular dress or style that she wants. The rest will fall into place (meaning if they plan on buying for if someone else will - they'll tell you there and then).

We also got our god children their accessories (booties, etc) and crosses.

Posted 11/15/06 4:09 PM
 

curliegirl
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Re: God Parent Question...

You are meant to act as a guide not only in their religious upbringing, but to be there for them in their everyday life and guide them.

My brother and I are Godparents, I bought the outfit (shopped for it with the mom), and my brother got the cross.

Posted 11/15/06 4:22 PM
 
 

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