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Lichi
what what!?
Member since 5/05 4206 total posts
Name: Lissette
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Have you REALLY thought about the labor process?
I've been taking Birthing classes with DH, and after yesterday's session, I just keep thinking "wow, I can't believe WE (women) have to go through this!" I'm not afraid of labor/pain, but I can't say that I'm looking forward to the pain at all. I wish that I could just fast forward to the point where the baby pops out, and I'm in love!
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Posted 4/13/06 12:03 PM |
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CJC25
I luv My Daughter
Member since 9/05 1192 total posts
Name: Jess
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Re: Have you REALLY thought about the labor process?
It is all I think about...i want the baby here so bad, but not the labor part. I have panic attacks thinking about it. I know it will be one day of pain and in the end worth it. People do it over and over and ovr again so i use that to get through my attacks thinking if they can do it so can i.
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Posted 4/13/06 12:08 PM |
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KittyCat
Happy Summer !
Member since 5/05 2241 total posts
Name: Kathleen
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Re: Have you REALLY thought about the labor process?
I have thought of the labor pain, where I am going to be when it starts, where DH will be, how will I get to hospital, all the pain, what if something goes wrong and I give myself anxiety then I try to talk myself out of it by thinking of all the POSITIVE Things about it and I relax a little.
Do I sound NUTSO ??
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Posted 4/13/06 12:08 PM |
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Lichi
what what!?
Member since 5/05 4206 total posts
Name: Lissette
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Re: Have you REALLY thought about the labor process?
Posted by KittyCat
I have thought of the labor pain, where I am going to be when it starts, where DH will be, how will I get to hospital, all the pain, what if something goes wrong and I give myself anxiety then I try to talk myself out of it by thinking of all the POSITIVE Things about it and I relax a little.
Do I sound NUTSO ?? Nope, you sound like the rest of us pregos!
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Posted 4/13/06 12:19 PM |
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nferrandi
too excited for words
Member since 10/05 18538 total posts
Name: Nicole
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Re: Have you REALLY thought about the labor process?
To be honest, and this probably sounds bad, but both DH and I think the whole labor process is pretty gross. I know I'm supposed to see it as "the miracle of life" but I can't help thinking of all the disgusting parts- the stuff that's going to leak from me, the stretching of my privates, the blood, etc... YUCK!!!! I just want to go to the hospital, get my epidural, push when the DR. tells me to and then have my baby. I don't like to think about the details too much.
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Posted 4/13/06 3:52 PM |
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november12003
Love my boys...
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Name: Jenn
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Re: Have you REALLY thought about the labor process?
My new biggest fear is EPISIOTOMY God, I hope we don't have to go there.
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Posted 4/13/06 3:55 PM |
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preciouslove
I love my DS!!!
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Name: Blank
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Re: Have you REALLY thought about the labor process?
Posted by KittyCat
I have thought of the labor pain, where I am going to be when it starts, where DH will be, how will I get to hospital, all the pain, what if something goes wrong and I give myself anxiety then I try to talk myself out of it by thinking of all the POSITIVE Things about it and I relax a little.
Do I sound NUTSO ??
I have thought of the same exact things. I think of it every single day.
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Posted 4/13/06 3:58 PM |
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Diane
Hope is Contagious....catch it
Member since 5/05 30683 total posts
Name: D
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Re: Have you REALLY thought about the labor process?
yes, after watching TLC's a Baby Story is scares the living daylights out of me.
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Posted 4/13/06 4:02 PM |
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Anniegrl
I'm two!
Member since 5/05 4320 total posts
Name: Ann
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Re: Have you REALLY thought about the labor process?
Posted by november12003
My new biggest fear is EPISIOTOMY God, I hope we don't have to go there.
DITTO!!!!! I have a doctor's appointment today and I'm going to make sure he knows how badly I want to try to avoid this
And ditto also on what nferrandi said!!!! The whole birthing process, as amazing as it is, totally grosses me out
ETA: a co-worker of mine just popped his head in my office to ask how much longer I have. Then he tells me that with their 2nd child, his wife was screaming her head off on the way to the hospital
Message edited 4/13/2006 4:57:21 PM.
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Posted 4/13/06 4:47 PM |
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Moehick
Ready for the sun!
Member since 5/05 30339 total posts
Name: Properly perfect™
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Re: Have you REALLY thought about the labor process?
It is all I can think about lately....now that the time for delivery draws near
Message edited 4/13/2006 6:03:59 PM.
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Posted 4/13/06 6:03 PM |
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computergirl
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Re: Have you REALLY thought about the labor process?
I thought about it a lot! Being a regular viewer of A Baby Story definitely didn't help....
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Posted 4/13/06 7:52 PM |
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Member since 5/05 6530 total posts
Name: Lisa
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Re: Have you REALLY thought about the labor process?
nope - I'm in denial about that part...
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Posted 4/13/06 8:05 PM |
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