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Have you REALLY thought about the labor process?

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Lichi
what what!?

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Lissette

Have you REALLY thought about the labor process?

I've been taking Birthing classes with DH, and after yesterday's session, I just keep thinking "wow, I can't believe WE (women) have to go through this!" I'm not afraid of labor/pain, but I can't say that I'm looking forward to the pain at all. I wish that I could just fast forward to the point where the baby pops out, and I'm in love! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/13/06 12:03 PM
 
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CJC25
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Name:
Jess

Re: Have you REALLY thought about the labor process?

It is all I think about...i want the baby here so bad, but not the labor part. I have panic attacks thinking about it. I know it will be one day of pain and in the end worth it. People do it over and over and ovr again so i use that to get through my attacks thinking if they can do it so can i.

Posted 4/13/06 12:08 PM
 

KittyCat
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Kathleen

Re: Have you REALLY thought about the labor process?

I have thought of the labor pain, where I am going to be when it starts, where DH will be, how will I get to hospital, all the pain, what if something goes wrong and I give myself anxiety then I try to talk myself out of it by thinking of all the POSITIVE Things about it and I relax a little.

Do I sound NUTSO ??

Posted 4/13/06 12:08 PM
 

Lichi
what what!?

Member since 5/05

4206 total posts

Name:
Lissette

Re: Have you REALLY thought about the labor process?

Posted by KittyCat

I have thought of the labor pain, where I am going to be when it starts, where DH will be, how will I get to hospital, all the pain, what if something goes wrong and I give myself anxiety then I try to talk myself out of it by thinking of all the POSITIVE Things about it and I relax a little.

Do I sound NUTSO ??

Nope, you sound like the rest of us pregos! Chat Icon

Posted 4/13/06 12:19 PM
 

nferrandi
too excited for words

Member since 10/05

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Name:
Nicole

Re: Have you REALLY thought about the labor process?

To be honest, and this probably sounds bad, but both DH and I think the whole labor process is pretty gross. I know I'm supposed to see it as "the miracle of life" but I can't help thinking of all the disgusting parts- the stuff that's going to leak from me, the stretching of my privates, the blood, etc... YUCK!!!!
I just want to go to the hospital, get my epidural, push when the DR. tells me to and then have my baby. I don't like to think about the details too much.

Posted 4/13/06 3:52 PM
 

november12003
Love my boys...

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Jenn

Re: Have you REALLY thought about the labor process?

My new biggest fear is EPISIOTOMY Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon God, I hope we don't have to go there.

Posted 4/13/06 3:55 PM
 

preciouslove
I love my DS!!!

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Blank

Re: Have you REALLY thought about the labor process?

Posted by KittyCat

I have thought of the labor pain, where I am going to be when it starts, where DH will be, how will I get to hospital, all the pain, what if something goes wrong and I give myself anxiety then I try to talk myself out of it by thinking of all the POSITIVE Things about it and I relax a little.

Do I sound NUTSO ??



I have thought of the same exact things. I think of it every single day.

Posted 4/13/06 3:58 PM
 

Diane
Hope is Contagious....catch it

Member since 5/05

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Name:
D

Re: Have you REALLY thought about the labor process?

yes, after watching TLC's a Baby Story is scares the living daylights out of me.

Posted 4/13/06 4:02 PM
 

Anniegrl
I'm two!

Member since 5/05

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Name:
Ann

Re: Have you REALLY thought about the labor process?

Posted by november12003

My new biggest fear is EPISIOTOMY Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon God, I hope we don't have to go there.



DITTO!!!!! I have a doctor's appointment today and I'm going to make sure he knows how badly I want to try to avoid this Chat Icon

And ditto also on what nferrandi said!!!! The whole birthing process, as amazing as it is, totally grosses me out Chat Icon

ETA: a co-worker of mine just popped his head in my office to ask how much longer I have. Then he tells me that with their 2nd child, his wife was screaming her head off on the way to the hospital Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Message edited 4/13/2006 4:57:21 PM.

Posted 4/13/06 4:47 PM
 

Moehick
Ready for the sun!

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Properly perfect™

Re: Have you REALLY thought about the labor process?

It is all I can think about lately....now that the time for delivery draws nearChat Icon

Message edited 4/13/2006 6:03:59 PM.

Posted 4/13/06 6:03 PM
 

computergirl
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Re: Have you REALLY thought about the labor process?

I thought about it a lot! Being a regular viewer of A Baby Story definitely didn't help....

Posted 4/13/06 7:52 PM
 

-Lisa-
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Member since 5/05

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Name:
Lisa

Re: Have you REALLY thought about the labor process?

nope - I'm in denial about that part...

Posted 4/13/06 8:05 PM
 
 

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