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Help for a homeless teenager

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lisab7
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Help for a homeless teenager

I have a friend at work who's daughter's boyfriend is now homeless. He went to DSS and they put him up in a shelter in Wyandanch. He is scared out of his mind. Does anyone know of any missions or agencies that can help this kid get temporary housing in a safe area. We are in Suffolk county.

Thanks so much.

Lisa

Posted 2/17/11 11:51 AM
 
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Re: Help for a homeless teenager

Where are his parents? they cannot just kick their child onto the street. never understood people that do thisChat Icon

Posted 2/17/11 11:54 AM
 

lisab7
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Re: Help for a homeless teenager

He's 18 and was living at Hope House in Pt Jeff. Not sure of the whole story regarding his parents. He had to leave Hope House because he turned 18. I don't understand it either.

Posted 2/17/11 11:55 AM
 

bicosi
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Re: Help for a homeless teenager

That breaks my heart :(

Posted 2/17/11 11:59 AM
 

MarathonKnitter
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Re: Help for a homeless teenager

wish we lived on long island. i would offer to take him in

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i will never understand these things

Posted 2/17/11 1:11 PM
 

Sora777
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Re: Help for a homeless teenager

I guess you never know the situation.
My nephews mom lived in a shelter out east. It was through DSS and she said it was very safe. They lived there for about a year till they got housing.

Posted 2/17/11 1:13 PM
 

skinny
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Re: Help for a homeless teenager

Usually Hope House won't discharge kids with nowhere to go. Can't he contact Father Frank and see if he can give him some places to call?

(I used to work for them.)

ETA: Here's a link to check out:
http://www.ocfs.state.ny.us/main/youth/rhydirectory.asp

Message edited 2/17/2011 1:17:40 PM.

Posted 2/17/11 1:15 PM
 

MeNBobs
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Re: Help for a homeless teenager

I hope someone is able to help Chat Icon

Posted 2/17/11 1:23 PM
 

Lisa
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Re: Help for a homeless teenager

this breaks my heart! Chat Icon

I do not have any suggestions for you but please let us know if there is anything we can do to make this child feel safe.Chat Icon

Posted 2/17/11 2:18 PM
 

PumpkinGirl
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Re: Help for a homeless teenager

I'm sorry to hear & don't know of anything to suggest Chat Icon

Is staying at his girlfriend's house temporarily an option (like on the couch or guest room - since I'm assuming she's a teenager too) until he finds somewhere safe?

Message edited 2/17/2011 2:24:12 PM.

Posted 2/17/11 2:23 PM
 

lisab7
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Re: Help for a homeless teenager

Unfortunately, he can't stay at the gf's house. My friend was going to make some calls when she got home from work today. Thank you for the good thoughts and links for services. Hopefully it all works out for him.

Posted 2/17/11 8:55 PM
 

MorningCuppaCoffee
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Re: Help for a homeless teenager

Don't they have any family friends or relatives he can stay with?

A basement or illegal garage apartment even?

Posted 2/17/11 10:16 PM
 

DancinBarefoot
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Re: Help for a homeless teenager

Posted by skinny

Usually Hope House won't discharge kids with nowhere to go. Can't he contact Father Frank and see if he can give him some places to call?

(I used to work for them.)

ETA: Here's a link to check out:
http://www.ocfs.state.ny.us/main/youth/rhydirectory.asp



He's 18, technically not a kid - and a DSS shelter isn't considered "nowhere to go" by any standard at all. People get discharged from the hospital into homeless shelters all the time.

Posted 2/17/11 10:18 PM
 

OnceUponATyme
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Re: Help for a homeless teenager

how bout Walkabout?
http://www.familyandchildrens.org/servicesweoffer.asp?colname=youth&articleprogramid=41

Posted 2/18/11 8:22 AM
 

carlowlou
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Re: Help for a homeless teenager

does he still go to high school? If so, have him see the guidance counselors there. They will help him.

Posted 2/18/11 8:23 AM
 

BargainMama
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Re: Help for a homeless teenager

I could be wrong, but I thought Hope House was for drug addicts. I have a friend whose son went there and was asked to leave after he relapsed. If he has a problem such as that, can he get into a halfway house? Might be better than a shelter

Posted 2/18/11 8:37 AM
 
 

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