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bean
I love my little man!!!!
Member since 7/05 1809 total posts
Name: Janine
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Help--I need your suggestions!
Ok, my friend is getting married in Aruba and I just got her invitation. We can't go because I can't get the time off from work and because of our little one on the way-we are trying to save our money any way we can.
So, my question is what should I give her? She came to my wedding and gave $250.00. I was thinking $150.00 is that too cheap?
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Posted 9/20/05 1:59 PM |
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Re: Help--I need your suggestions!
Quite honestly, I gave what I got for everyone wedding... I did not attend my cousins wedding, they gave me $200 at mine, I sent a card and $200 back! Good Luck!
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Posted 9/20/05 2:03 PM |
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AnnBrunoXO
2 Girls For Me!
Member since 5/05 4377 total posts
Name: MaMMa
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Re: Help--I need your suggestions!
I would give them the same amount that they gave you.
I always do, regardless of whether I can go to their party or not.
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Posted 9/20/05 2:11 PM |
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Jenziba
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Member since 5/05 6265 total posts
Name: Jennifer
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Re: Help--I need your suggestions!
I have to agree with the other girls...I'd give the same amount as what they gave me.
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Posted 9/20/05 2:29 PM |
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steph4777
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Member since 5/05 11726 total posts
Name: Stephanie
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Re: Help--I need your suggestions!
I don't agree with the whole give what they gave me. If you are not in a financial position to do so, then give what you can. If this person is a true friend then they will understand that you are saving up for a baby.
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Posted 9/20/05 2:53 PM |
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tiki03
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Re: Help--I need your suggestions!
I agree with Steph. You should give whatever you feel comfortable with.
Message edited 9/20/2005 3:09:15 PM.
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Posted 9/20/05 3:08 PM |
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monkeybride
My Everything
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Re: Help--I need your suggestions!
If you can afford to give what they gave you then I would do that especially because you won't be spending any money to travel to the wedding. If it's out of your budget though then give what you can afford.
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Posted 9/20/05 5:15 PM |
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MrsJ
I love my Katie Bug
Member since 5/05 11357 total posts
Name: Kathy
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Re: Help--I need your suggestions!
I would give the same they gave you, especially since you arent even attending their wedding.
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Posted 9/20/05 5:16 PM |
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MrsM
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Member since 5/05 421 total posts
Name: Amy
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Re: Help--I need your suggestions!
I have never been in that situation, but what about sending them a gift that falls between the $150 and $250? Sometimes you can find something really nice on their rgsitry...
Just a thought.
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Posted 9/20/05 5:45 PM |
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