Hi, I'm actually Nursemommy09

i deactivated my acct, and i am using my old one.
I was suppose to have a d&c wed, but last night i actually miscarried naturally, i was 9 weeks 6 days, on fri and we had no more HB, and baby stopped growing over 2 weeks ago. I go for a sono tomorrow, to confirm that everything came out.
How is everyone? I'm so sad, I'm so afraid to get pregnant again. how long did everyone wait before trying again?

Re: Hi, I'm actually Nursemommy09

i'm so sorry. i waited about a couple of months before trying again. it is very scary to get pregnant again. we just have to pray that everything will be ok this time around. if you want something so bad the risk is worth it.

best of luck!!!!

Hi, I'm actually Nursemommy09

Hey- I actually got your inbox message and tried to reply but it said you deleted the account.... Sorry I hadn't been on in a while because Sandy happened and we lost Internet and then I got super busy at work.

First of all I am so sorry for what you are going through. My situation was similar to yours... For me, the baby had stopped growing at 6 weeks but my forst sono was at 8. At first they thought I had my dates wrong but I knew there was no way I would be off by two weeks. I held onto every glimpse of hope but at 11 weeks I miscarried. I am also terrified to try again because I don't want to go through this again, but I know being a mom is all I want to do and I will do whatever it takes.

I am getting surgery to get an ovarian cyst removed in a couple weeks and then we are going to start trying again after that, so I will be on here a lot more often now that we are TTC again. It will be 5 months since the miscarriage. But my doctor said you can start as soon as you get your period again. She suggested to wait 2 cycles since the first one may be a little off. But I have also heard some women are super fertile after a MC. Good luck!!

Message edited 11/24/2012 9:53:00 PM.