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LA723
LIF Infant
Member since 7/06 171 total posts
Name: Leslie
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How long trying?
How long was everyone trying until a lightbulb went off that told you to move on to an RE? I'm just getting a little concerned.
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Posted 1/21/08 9:38 AM |
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Diane
Hope is Contagious....catch it
Member since 5/05 30683 total posts
Name: D
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Re: How long trying?
age has a lot to do with it...we were trying for almost a year before we were referred to a RE...I think the older you are they will send you to one after 6 months.
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Posted 1/21/08 10:09 AM |
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MrsRivera
2 under 2...whew!!
Member since 2/07 9876 total posts
Name: Beth
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Re: How long trying?
3 months for us, but we found out that I have PCOS in that 3rd month, so we went straight to the RE.
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Posted 1/21/08 10:18 AM |
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Goldi0218
My miracles!
Member since 12/05 23902 total posts
Name: Leslie
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Re: How long trying?
9 months
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Posted 1/21/08 10:20 AM |
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SweetTooth
I'm a tired mommy!
Member since 12/05 20105 total posts
Name: Lauren
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Re: How long trying?
I didn't see an RE until a year after I went off BCP. I should have seen one sooner.
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Posted 1/21/08 10:25 AM |
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MrsPornStar
Partners in crime
Member since 10/05 14656 total posts
Name: Mama
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Re: How long trying?
We went at 11 months. However, we knew from the start that we would have fertility issues.
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Posted 1/21/08 10:37 AM |
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Domino
Always My Miracle
Member since 9/05 9923 total posts
Name:
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Re: How long trying?
About 9 months ('m 36) shoulda went sooner
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Posted 1/21/08 10:39 AM |
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babyonthebrain
Brotherly Love!
Member since 1/08 6209 total posts
Name: Rafaela
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Re: How long trying?
We started in March but I wasn't very diligent until May finally in November I said "something's not right" so I went to see a specialist. I am so glad I did! BOTB
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Posted 1/21/08 10:41 AM |
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LA723
LIF Infant
Member since 7/06 171 total posts
Name: Leslie
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Re: How long trying?
I am 26 and DH is 36. I went off the pill in March, started officially trying in July. Unfortunately, my cycles never regulated. I'm all over the place, usually 50-60 days. Last month I had a 32 day cycle, but we are back to another long cycle this time around. I have been temping since October.
Thanks to a special FM, I spent all weekend thinking (thank you)
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Posted 1/21/08 10:49 AM |
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MrsRbk
<3 <3 <3 <3
Member since 1/06 19197 total posts
Name: Michelle
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Re: How long trying?
Well our age is a factor, but we knew almost immediately it was going to be challenging.
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Posted 1/21/08 10:54 AM |
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kelsept
LIF Adolescent
Member since 12/07 833 total posts
Name: Kelley
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Re: How long trying?
Leslie, you and i went off the pill at the same time and i started actively trying the same month as you..we didnt prevent for a month or two in there so i counted those bc we BD'd alot!!
I decided to go because like you, my periods were getting longer and i had a few questions for the doc about DH as his morphology was a little low.
Well, turns out i was the major prob!! DH loved that, no actually he didnt because i was sooo upset and ended up finding out i have endo. I lost a tube and now am working with one but here is my advice. I am a more extreme case i would say! I am in my 20's too and no one really took me seriously right away bc of my age. But, then decided to see my RE now and he was nice and honest and when i had another marathon cycle on the way he did a sono on me and then bloodwork and ended up helping me with O earlier. Now i am doing the clomid thing again but had to halt due to laproscopic surgery for my endo and tube.
I would say, go in because of the cycle issues. It is not normal to have them go that long after stopping the pill last March, i sold birth control for awhile-dont freak out either bc usually it is a treatable issue and you can end up pregnant bam! For me, i thought it was PCOS but think it is a combo of the endo with mine. Not really sure bc my hormones are all normal but the endo was a shock. I could recommend to you some good doctors-FM me if you have any questions. I have worked in medical sales for a while and have gotten alot of good feedback on the good docs to see! I hope I helped?!
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Posted 1/21/08 3:19 PM |
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babystuff1
LIF Toddler
Member since 8/07 420 total posts
Name: Twins for us!!!!
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Re: How long trying?
We tried for one year before going to an RE.. I did though talk to my gyno about three months before that to see what she could do, she put me on clomid and ran some tests.
Best of luck
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Posted 1/21/08 3:33 PM |
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juju
Welcome to the World!
Member since 5/05 6747 total posts
Name:
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Re: How long trying?
About ONe year for me. But, after my miscarriage, we couldn't try for two cycles bc of the methotrexate....so it was about 10 months. Going on 4 years this Feb.
Good Luck to you!
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Posted 1/21/08 5:28 PM |
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leighla
Support Cancer Research
Member since 5/05 16353 total posts
Name: Lauren
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Re: How long trying?
Posted by MrsRivera
3 months for us, but we found out that I have PCOS in that 3rd month, so we went straight to the RE.
Pretty much the same here. Trust your instincts.
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Posted 1/21/08 5:30 PM |
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dm24angel
Happiness
Member since 5/05 34581 total posts
Name: Donna
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Re: How long trying?
8 months but we timed it perfect for those 8 months and I just "sensed" in issue...as I had previopusly gotten Pg easily ( although they were losses)
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Posted 1/21/08 5:54 PM |
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meghanmetz
LIF Adolescent
Member since 5/05 525 total posts
Name: Meghan
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Re: How long trying?
12 months, but i was scared to go to a doctor. FInally went at 17 months (kinda dumb on my part).
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Posted 1/21/08 7:01 PM |
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CaseyGirl
Mommy to 3 Boys :)
Member since 5/05 19978 total posts
Name: Jen - counting my blessings...
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Re: How long trying?
On and off for 3years
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Posted 1/21/08 7:29 PM |
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ChilisWife
God Bless America
Member since 5/05 3572 total posts
Name: A.K.
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Re: How long trying?
18 months. I actually wanted to go sooner (at 12 months) since I was 33 years old.
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Posted 1/21/08 7:49 PM |
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leighdvm
My golden boys!
Member since 3/06 4419 total posts
Name: Michele
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Re: How long trying?
We tried for about 4 months. I am 36, DH is 37. I went to an RE to have tests run just to see if I had any issues. Good thing that I did, because my blood tests showed poor egg quallity and low reserve -- DH has low sperm count.
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Posted 1/22/08 1:21 PM |
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LaurenExp
Waiting patiently for baby sis
Member since 8/06 11613 total posts
Name: L-Diddy EDD 11/11/11 :)
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Re: How long trying?
9 months and this board
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Posted 1/22/08 1:28 PM |
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