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How much do you give for an engagement gift...with no party.

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munchkinbugs
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How much do you give for an engagement gift...with no party.

My girl friend got engaged and I just found out they are not having an engagement party. I still want to give her either money or money towards Liberty Travel for their HM.

How much do you think is appropriate??

Message edited 6/20/2007 7:05:13 PM.

Posted 6/20/07 7:04 PM
 
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munchkinbugs
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Re: How much do you give for an engagement gift...with no party.

Noone has any ideas??

Posted 6/20/07 8:13 PM
 

SweetestOfPeas
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Re: How much do you give for an engagement gift...with no party.

I wouldn't give money. I would do something more sentimental like stuff she will need while planning.

a wedding planner
a subscription to a bunch of wedding mags
etc...

Posted 6/20/07 8:20 PM
 

munchkinbugs
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Re: How much do you give for an engagement gift...with no party.

Posted by SweetestOfPeas

I wouldn't give money. I would do something more sentimental like stuff she will need while planning.

a wedding planner
a subscription to a bunch of wedding mags
etc...



Yeah...I already did that. I got her a planner and a couple of books that I enjoyed when I planned my wedding.

Posted 6/20/07 8:34 PM
 

JennZ
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Re: How much do you give for an engagement gift...with no party.

Can you just get her an Amex GC, she can put it towards something they need.

Posted 6/20/07 8:34 PM
 

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Re: How much do you give for an engagement gift...with no party.

We didn't have an engagement party and only one person (my aunt) gave us money. Others gave gifts.

My cousin gave the BEST gift -- several different wedding books in a gift bag: Chicken Soup for the Bride's Soul, Emily Post on Weddings, The Wedding Countdown Book (came with a counter!), and also a couple of chocolate bars. In the card, she wrote a really sweet message that ended with - "and there's chocolate for when you need it!"

I thought it was so thoughtful!

Posted 6/20/07 9:17 PM
 

Kara
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Re: How much do you give for an engagement gift...with no party.

Posted by JennZ

Can you just get her an Amex GC, she can put it towards something they need.



I think this is a better idea than just giving money. Otherwise, if they do a HM registry, you can always give money there.

Posted 6/20/07 9:19 PM
 

bikramaddict
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Re: How much do you give for an engagement gift...with no party.

i didn't have an engagement party and the gifts I got were all 'things' from my registry. Excluding family members, the gifts ranged from $50-$100. I got a few cash gifts, but they were from family.

Posted 6/20/07 10:24 PM
 

Blu-ize
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Re: How much do you give for an engagement gift...with no party.

I would give money. I didn't have an engagement party mostly because it cost too much money and I needed money.

Wow, that was 3xs I said money.

Ok, yes, money it is!

Posted 6/21/07 12:52 AM
 

evnme
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Re: How much do you give for an engagement gift...with no party.

Posted by RandJ0806

i didn't have an engagement party and the gifts I got were all 'things' from my registry. Excluding family members, the gifts ranged from $50-$100. I got a few cash gifts, but they were from family.



same here

Posted 6/21/07 12:55 AM
 
 

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