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rose825
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how would you feel
In July one of my BMs (who I see and speak to less and less through the years) confided in me that she was doing her first IUI. I immediately told her everything I went through, told her what to expect and that she could ask me anything anytime.
Well I hear a month later from another friend that she was PG.
She is now due in 4 weeks and she still hasnt told me she is PG. She doesnt come to group GTGs and didnt come to my DS party ( RSVPd no through an email).
Am I right to be POd?? nah... you dont have to tell me I'm right just proceed with all the  and and  . Thanks!
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Posted 3/26/07 10:20 AM  |
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Red
spring is in the air
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helen
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Re: how would you feel
I can't imagine a BM dropping you like that - here are a few and
was she distancing herself from you prior to the IUI? I'm not as close to my BMs as I was - we're all in different places (not location) now, but we still catch up from time to time
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| Posted 3/26/07 10:26 AM |
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joenick
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Re: how would you feel
Dumb b!tch! 
She's rude. Don't lose sleep over it.
We've seen this side of her coming on for many years already.
This is just kinda the straw that broke the camel's back for you. And you have every right to be annoyed.
But whatever...you still have me!
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| Posted 3/26/07 10:29 AM |
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rose825
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Re: how would you feel
Posted by joenick
Dumb b!tch!
She's rude. Don't lose sleep over it.
We've seen this side of her coming on for many years already.
This is just kinda the straw that broke the camel's back for you. And you have every right to be annoyed.
But whatever...you still have me!
and yes she has been distancing herself for some time. I just feel that with all I confided in her the least I could get was a freakin phone call. BUt I can PROMISE you I'll get a birth announcement
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| Posted 3/26/07 10:45 AM |
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Red
spring is in the air
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helen
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Re: how would you feel
Posted by rose825
BUt I can PROMISE you I'll get a birth announcement
of course - I'm surprised you didn't get an invitation for the shower
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| Posted 3/26/07 10:51 AM |
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imyself
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Re: how would you feel
 What a not nice person. You should have been one of the first people she told. You confided in her your problems to help her through hers. You are a true friend and she must have a warped point of view. Like you are were not going to find out she was pregnant. It's just wrong  Sorry she did this to you  .
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| Posted 3/26/07 10:55 AM |
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rose825
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Re: how would you feel
Posted by Red
Posted by rose825
BUt I can PROMISE you I'll get a birth announcement
of course - I'm surprised you didn't get an invitation for the shower
this is her 2nd child or i would have
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| Posted 3/26/07 10:55 AM |
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LaurenExp
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Re: how would you feel
First of all, 
Secondly, that's ballsy. Seriously. You hadn't talked to her in a while, she opened up to you about her scheduled IUI and you opened up to her about all the crap in your life. I can't understand how she can't show the respect of telling you herself that she's pg. I don't know if this is how you feel, but I would have felt that the conversation would have brought you closer as friends, so by rights she really should have told you.
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| Posted 3/26/07 10:57 AM |
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Gertyrae
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Re: how would you feel
You gotta love people! Apparently, she has just distanced herself completely from you and I would probably keep it that way. If she were truly still your friend, she would have told you...especially after you shared everything with her.
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| Posted 3/26/07 11:33 AM |
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CAT215
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Re: how would you feel
I would feel peed off and angry and to be honest it would hurt my feelings.
I'm sorrry Pauline you don't deserve that. Maybe it's time for a "Spring Clean" you don't need "freinds" like that around you
Or if you were feeling ballsy you could call her up and ask when she is going to tell you?
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| Posted 3/26/07 11:34 AM |
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jellybean78
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Re: how would you feel
She sounds like a byatch! You know what consider yourself lucky that she distanced herself from you...you don't need people like that in your life. But I agree I would be PO'ed too. That is just wrong. What is wrong with people
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| Posted 3/26/07 11:34 AM |
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dm24angel
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Re: how would you feel
yeah I would be beyond PO'D. You shared a great deal with her, you are close if she was in yoru wedding, and you havent heard about this major event in her life? I think its not about protecting you at this point....
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| Posted 3/26/07 12:37 PM |
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rose825
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Re: how would you feel
Posted by dm24angel
yeah I would be beyond PO'D. You shared a great deal with her, you are close if she was in yoru wedding, and you havent heard about this major event in her life? I think its not about protecting you at this point....
exactly- I gave her that benefit of the doubt at first (that she didnt know how to tell me) but she is due in 4 weeks. I think its past that now.
Message edited 3/26/2007 12:44:49 PM.
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| Posted 3/26/07 12:44 PM |
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michele31
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Re: how would you feel
Wow...this is awful.
I can't imagine that she thinks you would be so hurt that you would not be happy for her. This is about friendship, not IVF/IUI.
I am so sorry about this.
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| Posted 3/26/07 2:24 PM |
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calendargrl
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Re: how would you feel
I would be upset, I'm sorry she has not told you.
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| Posted 3/26/07 2:37 PM |
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Secret4Now
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In due time. No pun intended.
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Re: how would you feel
No baby gift for her!!!!!
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| Posted 3/26/07 3:05 PM |
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pedsnurse
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Re: how would you feel
I would Call he rup and say Oh i haven't talke dto you in so long and then would call her on it. That is so rude. I am sure you would be happy for her.
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| Posted 3/26/07 3:40 PM |
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