a while ago i posted about my uncle that was passing on... well he boune out of it sooo many times that it's horrible hearing how he is suffering. i told my mom she needs to tell him it's ok to go and she said no i will not. this past month has been real bad with all the times she had to run up to the hospital. so today she went up with her friend and she told him that it was ok, and her friend eurged her to say it's ok. well she did... i just hope that it helps him to move on. she runs ragged to take care of him, help me, and now my step dad is having a major surgery on friday. they have to ambutate half of his thigh bone and half of his leg, including the knee, then recontruct it. he will be in the hospital possible till the 22 in riverhead. my uncle is in brookhaven. so she will be running to 2 hospitals and here and christmas shopping, the stress is way tooo much for her. i am very worried about her emotionally and physcially. i wish i could help her with my uncle , i tried once, and had a server panic attack going into brookhaven. i told her i would sit with her while mystep dad is having his surgary. i just do not know what else i can do. if something happens to my step dad my mom will not be able to handle it. they are saying it is a major blood loss surgart to that they advised him to donate his own blood 2 times.... i just don't know what to do.
