I don't know what's going on.

On the advice of my dr. (which I'm now regretting), I did not use any OPKs or the CBEFM last month. We simply BD'd every other day from CD10-20. I did use Preseed because CM is very light, always.

The latest I have ever O'd was CD 20, but as long as I've been charting, that only happened once in a year - the first month I tried it. I'm now on CD33 (no idea how many dpo), and still no AF. It usually comes between CD28 and CD31. I've tested twice, both BFN, but have had AF (or pg)-like cramps a few times - which NEVER happens until I get AF. I've also been exhausted. At least 4 times in the last 2 weeks, I haven't made it to 8 p.m., and when I do, it's a struggle.

Now, I know people can get BFPs late, but is that true even if you O around the time you normally do? Do you think it's possible? Keep in mind that if I DID O really late, we're SOL anyway, because DH went back to working nights 2 weeks ago, and there's been nada in the BD department since CD20.

THanks for reading, and to everyone!

Re: I don't know what's going on.

bc your cycles are a little different I would wait maybe a couple more days and take another test. Also, the kind of test you used has to do with it to. The best test would be FRER. They can pick up low hCG hormone in your FMU. Digitals are out for now.

I would get a FRER and use FMU and POAS tomorrow am.

Good luck!!

Re: I don't know what's going on.

Thank you for replying. I DID use FRER, but it was digital, so I'm even more confused. I'll probably wait until Saturday and use a non-digital again.

Thanks again.