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juanvi
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i don't know why I'm so frustrated about this
My husband's office has this secretary that I never liked. I always had a way with seeing through people and I saw through her fake stupidity right away. So for months I would say to my husband, I just dont' trust that woman.
So recently my husband found out she was doing a couple things that didn't seem kosher at the office and getting away with it. So he and his other partners sat down and my husband mentioned what she has been doing.
Wel....turns out she's sleeping with one of the partners and I AM SO MAD ABOUT IT. I mean, this man has a beautiful sweet girlfriend who is expecting a ring any day. And he's sleeping with this pig. EWWW>>>UGH!
I felt like venting about it and wondered what you girls thought about it. I feel like I want to tell the partner's girlfriend soooo badly...but it's none of my business.
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JennZ
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Re: i don't know why I'm so frustrated about this
Does she know he has a GF, if so she is just as skanky as the guy. I wouldnt however say anything to the GF just not your place. They both sound like charmong people 
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| Posted 6/19/07 3:06 PM |
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Beth
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Re: i don't know why I'm so frustrated about this
why is she the wrong one? she doesn't owe his GF anything- she does
no one ever blames the guy- I always do!
I had too many friends get mad at the stranger- and not at their BF- it's his fault- not her's- even if you don't like her
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| Posted 6/19/07 3:09 PM |
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JennZ
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Re: i don't know why I'm so frustrated about this
Posted by Beth1210
why is she the wrong one? she doesn't owe his GF anything- she does
no one ever blames the guy- I always do!
I had too many friends get mad at the stranger- and not at their BF- it's his fault- not her's- even if you don't like her
Oh well if she knew he had a GF she is just as much a pig. He sounds like a charm too. (highly sarcastic). Oh I would kill my DH and blame him for letting it get that far in the first place.
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| Posted 6/19/07 3:13 PM |
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juanvi
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Re: i don't know why I'm so frustrated about this
yes she totally knows about the GF she goes to the office all the time. I pretty much know it's not my place to tell the GF but I would want to know if I were her. He's a pig and a 1/2 he's cheated on her repeatedly...i feel so badly for her. But for some reason...that secretary just makes it all even worse. it's just that i knew she was bad news for a while.
plus i think that a woman does ower their fellow women something called respect and she clearly has none for herself nor his GF both players are not innocent.
Message edited 6/19/2007 3:17:58 PM.
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Beth
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Re: i don't know why I'm so frustrated about this
Posted by JennZ
Posted by Beth1210
why is she the wrong one? she doesn't owe his GF anything- she does
no one ever blames the guy- I always do!
I had too many friends get mad at the stranger- and not at their BF- it's his fault- not her's- even if you don't like her
Oh well if she knew he had a GF she is just as much a pig. He sounds like a charm too. (highly sarcastic). Oh I would kill my DH and blame him for letting it get that far in the first place.
they are both wrong- but he is the one who owes his GF the respect
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| Posted 6/19/07 3:23 PM |
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JennZ
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Re: i don't know why I'm so frustrated about this
Posted by Beth1210
Posted by JennZ
Posted by Beth1210
why is she the wrong one? she doesn't owe his GF anything- she does
no one ever blames the guy- I always do!
I had too many friends get mad at the stranger- and not at their BF- it's his fault- not her's- even if you don't like her
Oh well if she knew he had a GF she is just as much a pig. He sounds like a charm too. (highly sarcastic). Oh I would kill my DH and blame him for letting it get that far in the first place.
they are both wrong- but he is the one who owes his GF the respect
Oh I agree with you on that. he should have gone to her BEFORE he cheated and ended it. This just makes him look like more of an a$$.
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| Posted 6/19/07 3:24 PM |
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Re: i don't know why I'm so frustrated about this
takes two to tango...
I would say nothing and have nothing to do with it.
It's not right, but everyone has to live their lives and live with themselves after.
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| Posted 6/19/07 3:33 PM |
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curliegirl
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Re: i don't know why I'm so frustrated about this
I would send an anonymous letter to the GF, they both deserve to be miserable, not the GF.
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| Posted 6/19/07 3:42 PM |
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juanvi
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Re: i don't know why I'm so frustrated about this
Posted by curliegirl
I would send an anonymous letter to the GF, they both deserve to be miserable, not the GF.
really? I REALLY want to but I think the GF would be miserable anyway. THe truth hurts!
And Beth how could you say that it's only the man that should respect her. He clearly doesn't. That secretary is malicious with what she's doing.
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| Posted 6/19/07 5:01 PM |
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Beth
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Re: i don't know why I'm so frustrated about this
And Beth how could you say that it's only the man that should respect her. He clearly doesn't. That secretary is malicious with what she's doing.
IMO- your husband, FH or boyfriend is the only one who owes you anything- they normally get away with it- while women get angry at the other woman
the other woman is NOT dating her- so she owes her nothing- personally I wouldn't sleep with a guy that has a girlfriend- but I hold the guy more accountable and it amazes me that more women don't
they are both sleezy- but again- she is not dating HIS girlfriend- he is more wrong then she is
why is the secrectary malicious- b/c you don't like her? or b/c she is forcing him to have sex with her??? He should know he has a girlfriend- he is a PIG
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| Posted 6/19/07 5:08 PM |
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juanvi
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Re: i don't know why I'm so frustrated about this
she's malicious b/c she's sleeping with someone that SHE KNOWS has a serious GF. AND I HATE HER AND she's mean to the other employees. I see your point, I really do. I just hope you see mine. (I mean, not that it really matters, but well, you know what i mean)
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| Posted 6/19/07 5:13 PM |
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Beth
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Re: i don't know why I'm so frustrated about this
Posted by juanvi
she's malicious b/c she's sleeping with someone that SHE KNOWS has a serious GF. AND I HATE HER AND she's mean to the other employees. I see your point, I really do. I just hope you see mine. (I mean, not that it really matters, but well, you know what i mean)
I understand where you are coming from- but I will still always find the cheater more wrong then the person he is cheating with
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| Posted 6/19/07 5:15 PM |
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SweetestOfPeas
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Re: i don't know why I'm so frustrated about this
HE is the bigger pig IMO!
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nyteacher13
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Re: i don't know why I'm so frustrated about this
Posted by juanvi
I feel like I want to tell the partner's girlfriend soooo badly...but it's none of my business.
ew what a manwhore!!!
If I were you, I would LOVE to tell the GF, too, but telling her may end up biting dh in the a$$ in the long run. I think it would be better to just keep out of it.
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Gertyrae
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Re: i don't know why I'm so frustrated about this
They are both pigs and losers. But, IMO I wouldn't say anything.
If he has done this before, as you say, the GF may know and choose to ignore. There are a lot of women who do this and if you say something, you are opening a whole new can of worms.
If it's really eating at you, wait a month or so and then send an anonymous letter to the GF.
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| Posted 6/19/07 10:40 PM |
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DaniJude
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Re: i don't know why I'm so frustrated about this
Posted by curliegirl
I would send an anonymous letter to the GF, they both deserve to be miserable, not the GF.
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| Posted 6/20/07 12:21 AM |
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Re: i don't know why I'm so frustrated about this
The cheater is the person who made a commitment to someone and then broke the promise. They are both skanks but he is hurting someone who he claims to care about. The other woman may not have anyone who gives a crap anyway.
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