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I got my first real inappropriate comment today...

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landj
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I got my first real inappropriate comment today...

I had mentioned the other day to some people that I had my Level II coming up in a few weeks and couldn't wait to find out the sex. One of those people came up to me today and felt compelled to tell me that researchers were conducting a study that possibly suggests a link between repeated exposure to sonograms and autism, and I shouldn't just get sonograms to get them, like to determine the sex of the baby (obviously bringing up what I had mentioned the other day). I mentioned that the Level II was not for entertainment purposes, was actually for medical purposes, and that finding out the sex was an added bonus for us. I also said that I had 6 sonograms already, all for specific medical reasons, and how was I supposed to feel about this information? I mean, really, how is this information supposed to make me feel good? No matter what I said, that ultrasounds/sonos have been around for 30 years, that there is no longitudinal study stating anything remotely close to that (especially in a human being), etc., this person had an argument for!
I couldn't believe this person did not let up. I just don't understand people that intentionally try to scare you and make you feel badly. I am just starting to show and I know there will be many more inappropriate comments to come. I just find it difficult to smile and walk away without saying something rude back Chat Icon .

Posted 9/7/06 9:26 PM
 
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sweetpea
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dont let it bother u - u should have told him that researchers are also conducting a study realizing that there are way to many a******* in the world!!!!!

Posted 9/7/06 9:29 PM
 

PrincessP
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Re: I got my first real inappropriate comment today...

say "lets agree to disagree" ...(BYE LOSER!)

Posted 9/7/06 9:32 PM
 

landj
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Re: I got my first real inappropriate comment today...

Thank you. The worst part was this person was a woman and works in the medical field! Oh, and has been pregnant before.

Posted 9/7/06 9:32 PM
 

sweetpea
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Re: I got my first real inappropriate comment today...

Posted by landj

Thank you. The worst part was this person was a woman and works in the medical field! Oh, and has been pregnant before.



ughhhhh u have to be kidding me!!!! i totally thought it would have been a man!!!! hello she should realize that its "not for fun"!!!! WHAT IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE!!!!??????

Posted 9/7/06 9:35 PM
 

Diane
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Re: I got my first real inappropriate comment today...

Why do people even speak???
Some people have some nerveChat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/7/06 9:41 PM
 

nferrandi
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Re: I got my first real inappropriate comment today...

That's disgusting. That woman should honestly be ashamed of herself. Chat Icon

Posted 9/7/06 9:46 PM
 

lvdolphins
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Posted 9/7/06 9:57 PM
 

FeliciaDP

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I simply have no words for these comments tonight! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/7/06 10:49 PM
 

CkGm
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Re: I got my first real inappropriate comment today...

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I simply have no words for these comments tonight! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



agree! What absolute morons!

Its a bunch of crap, all the nonsense people come up with!Chat Icon

Posted 9/7/06 11:09 PM
 

Dragonfly75
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Re: I got my first real inappropriate comment today...

What a jerk. How dare she try to scare you like that. If she's been pregnant she should what a Level II is and that it is not soley for the purpose of finding out the sex.

Posted 9/8/06 8:57 AM
 

pmpkn087
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Re: I got my first real inappropriate comment today...

I have come to learn that common sense is not so common anymore. If it was, she would have used hers to keep her mouth shutChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Everyone always has something to say.

Posted 9/8/06 9:26 AM
 

Stacey1403
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Re: I got my first real inappropriate comment today...

First off she is an idiot and secondly all the new studies that I have heard (I have researched it and spoke to my OBGYN since I get a sono every time) have never once mentioned Autism

Posted 9/8/06 9:32 AM
 
 

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