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dandr10199
Grace is growing up too fast!
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I guess hurt feelings are the norm this mother's day...UPDATED in last post on Mother's Day.
DH has been sick all day with bad allergies. Today was our daughter's birthday, her party (for family and close friends) is in 3 weeks. DH just told me a half hour ago that he has not gone out to even get me a card and that HE NEEDS to sleep in tomorrow b/c HE is sick! UMMMMM...W T H???? It is MOTHER"S DAY. UGH. Well, looks like I will be heading downstairs to hit my punching bag after this post.  
I am pizzed. I do not expect gifts. BUT I DO expect a card and to sleep in on mother's day...THAT is all I wanted (and a gift WOULD have been nice). I get that he is "sick" but he has allergies...NO FEVER. He een took a nap today. If it was father's day and I was sick you can bet you azz I would have su cked it up and did somethign nice for him and let him sleep in.
ARRRGGGGHHHHH!! We leave for his aunt's house at 1PM. We will see how this goes tomorrow before I really loose it....to be continued....
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dm24angel
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Re: I guess hurt feelings are the norm this mother's day...
After all you do and have been through I would be furious.
I love when My DH has allergies and says " Im Sick"..yes you feel awful but your not SICK.
My new thing to Dh has been to say " Man up" ...Harsh? Maybe? But Im tired of babying a 30 something MAN...when I dont get to act taht way ever.
I hope you end up witha nice day tommorow 
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dandr10199
Grace is growing up too fast!
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Re: I guess hurt feelings are the norm this mother's day...
Posted by dm24angel
After all you do and have been through I would be furious.
I love when My DH has allergies and says " Im Sick"..yes you feel awful but your not SICK.
My new thing to Dh has been to say " Man up" ...Harsh? Maybe? But Im tired of babying a 30 something MAN...when I dont get to act taht way ever.
I hope you end up witha nice day tommorow
OMG, I was thinking "man up" too. I mean I get sliced open, get my sternum cracked open and HE can't function b/c of allergies????????? I am furious, but I am trying to give him the benefit of the doubt. I know money is tight this year b/c of my med bills. I get it, I really do. I know that the Tory Burch sandals, Michale Kors bag, my house being fixed, etc. etc. are a Loooong way off. I get it. What I cannot wrap my brain around is NO CARD, NO SLEEPING IN, NO THOUGHTFULNESS, NO CARING or CONSIDERATION. I am fuming. If there is no card, no nothing tomorrow, you might hear about a woman in jail in Orange county who buried her "sick" DH in her backyard to put him out of his misery (I AM KIDDING  ).
Seriously, it will be a LOOOONNNNNGGGGGG time before I forget this one. And to think I was considering go to a RUSH concert for HIM. OMG. I seriously need to kick and punch the $hit out of the punching bag now. Yep, here's where he is going to regret marrying a woman who is part Sicilian. 
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KristinasMama
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dandr10199
Grace is growing up too fast!
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Re: I guess hurt feelings are the norm this mother's day...
ok, so I just spent the last 5 or so minutes punching the $hit out of the punching bag . I go into the bedroom all red faced, and sweaty and DH is like WHY were you punching the bag at almost midnight?
Girls, It took all I had not to scream. I just said "No reason. Do you think I should have a reason to hit the punching bag hard, REALLY hard??? (in my most sarcastic voice ever)"
DH than looked at me and said "I deserve that, I am an azz." Me: "Glad you said it instead of me. BTW... I AM sleeping in tomorrow, deal with it".
DH: "Yes, YOU are" and he kissed me.
So that's the end of it. He better get Grace in the car before I wake up and get a card or make me one. Hey, at least I get to sleep in tomorrow! Yiippe!!!
Let the games begin...
Dina: 1
DH: 0
Anyway, I will give the update tomorrow night. Thanks for the support, you girls are the BEST!
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KristinasMama
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Re: I guess hurt feelings are the norm this mother's day...
You've gotta love when the woman wins!!!!!
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GenLCSW
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Janice
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Re: I guess hurt feelings are the norm this mother's day...
enjoy that sleeping in!
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Re: I guess hurt feelings are the norm this mother's day...
I hope your sleeping in 
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HillW9608
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Re: I guess hurt feelings are the norm this mother's day...
Good for you!!!! 
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Re: I guess hurt feelings are the norm this mother's day...
I can SOOO relate, unfortunately. Dh has also been sick...
I got a "wife" card...but not a mother card. Ummmm...isn't it mothers day? He signed the kids name to the wife card. I Just don't get it...I bought a gift for his mother, cards from us and the kids, and for my mom and sister..the man is REALLLLY pi$$ing me off today.
On a happier note....I wish all of you a WONDERFUL Mothers Day!! Looks like if we want something done, we really DO nned to do it ourselves!
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Re: I guess hurt feelings are the norm this mother's day...
Posted by dandr10199
Let the games begin...
Dina: 1
DH: 0
I'm sorry, but this made me  !
Go you!!
DH is getting me a card right now
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Re: I guess hurt feelings are the norm this mother's day...
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Posted by dm24angel
After all you do and have been through I would be furious.
I love when My DH has allergies and says " Im Sick"..yes you feel awful but your not SICK.
My new thing to Dh has been to say " Man up" ...Harsh? Maybe? But Im tired of babying a 30 something MAN...when I dont get to act taht way ever.
I hope you end up witha nice day tommorow
OMG, I was thinking "man up" too. I mean I get sliced open, get my sternum cracked open and HE can't function b/c of allergies????????? I am furious, but I am trying to give him the benefit of the doubt. I know money is tight this year b/c of my med bills. I get it, I really do. I know that the Tory Burch sandals, Michale Kors bag, my house being fixed, etc. etc. are a Loooong way off. I get it. What I cannot wrap my brain around is NO CARD, NO SLEEPING IN, NO THOUGHTFULNESS, NO CARING or CONSIDERATION. I am fuming. If there is no card, no nothing tomorrow, you might hear about a woman in jail in Orange county who buried her "sick" DH in her backyard to put him out of his misery (I AM KIDDING ).
Seriously, it will be a LOOOONNNNNGGGGGG time before I forget this one. And to think I was considering go to a RUSH concert for HIM. OMG. I seriously need to kick and punch the $hit out of the punching bag now. Yep, here's where he is going to regret marrying a woman who is part Sicilian.
That really does s uck... I'm sorry - DH was sick so much when Cailen was born, it was very frustrating!!!
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dandr10199
Grace is growing up too fast!
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Re: I guess hurt feelings are the norm this mother's day...
Ladies I slept in until 10AM!!!! I woke up to blueberry pancakes, coffee and OJ on the kitchen table. Grace was up and her diaper was changed (NOT BY ME). WHOOO HOOO!!!
DH is out now getting "Mother's Day Stuff"  . I seriously just want a card. I will be truly happy with that after sleeping in and the breakfast he made.
My mom just got here and we leave for DH's Aunt's house at 1PM. So far so good.
Just goes to show...You all need to get a punching bag in your house. When you punch the $hit out of it, like a woman possessed DH will know he effed up. LOL!
HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY EVERYONE!!!!
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Janice
Sweet Jessie Quinn
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Re: I guess hurt feelings are the norm this mother's day...UPDATED in last post on Mother's Day.
enjoy your day!
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dandr10199
Grace is growing up too fast!
Member since 10/05 11561 total posts
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Dina
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Re: I guess hurt feelings are the norm this mother's day...UPDATED in last post on Mother's Day.
Posted by KateDevine
Posted by dandr10199
Let the games begin...
Dina: 1
DH: 0
I'm sorry, but this made me !
Go you!!
DH is getting me a card right now
Thanks. I tried to keep a sense of humor about it. I WAS fuming last night but a good 5-10 minutes on the punching bag and I was good. MAN, that thing is the BEST! I highly recommend it to ALL MOMS & WIVES!!!
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Re: I guess hurt feelings are the norm this mother's day...UPDATED in last post on Mother's Day.
Posted by dandr10199
Posted by dm24angel
After all you do and have been through I would be furious.
I love when My DH has allergies and says " Im Sick"..yes you feel awful but your not SICK.
My new thing to Dh has been to say " Man up" ...Harsh? Maybe? But Im tired of babying a 30 something MAN...when I dont get to act taht way ever.
I hope you end up witha nice day tommorow
OMG, I was thinking "man up" too. I mean I get sliced open, get my sternum cracked open and HE can't function b/c of allergies????????? I am furious, but I am trying to give him the benefit of the doubt. I know money is tight this year b/c of my med bills. I get it, I really do. I know that the Tory Burch sandals, Michale Kors bag, my house being fixed, etc. etc. are a Loooong way off. I get it. What I cannot wrap my brain around is NO CARD, NO SLEEPING IN, NO THOUGHTFULNESS, NO CARING or CONSIDERATION. I am fuming. If there is no card, no nothing tomorrow, you might hear about a woman in jail in Orange county who buried her "sick" DH in her backyard to put him out of his misery (I AM KIDDING ).
Seriously, it will be a LOOOONNNNNGGGGGG time before I forget this one. And to think I was considering go to a RUSH concert for HIM. OMG. I seriously need to kick and punch the $hit out of the punching bag now. Yep, here's where he is going to regret marrying a woman who is part Sicilian.
Hell hath no fury like a Sicilian Woman who is pizzed... I know because i'm sicilian too. He won't know what hit him...
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