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I guess this month is a bust- UPDATE

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Dani922
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I guess this month is a bust- UPDATE

The longest cycle I have ever had in my 11 years of fertility is about 35 days. The latest I've ever O'ed had been CD21 & the earliest is probably around CD16 or 17. Today is CD22. I was on vaction from Thursday until yesterday. I didn't start OPK testing until CD18 & I tested CD19 & 20 too. I never got a Chat Icon. It's possible I tested too late & missed the surge, but I'm skeptical since I didn't really notice much EWCM (although I really didn't check closely on vacation or the couple of days prior), just a bit of watery CM. My cervix has noe turned to hard & closed tight & there is no sign of any wet or EWCM of any kind. If I haven't O'ed yet, it's not happening for a while.

I'm done with OPKs because I don't think I'm going to O at all this month. That makes me nervous. My cycles have never been consistant, but they've NEVER been longer than 35 days & I've always ovulated. Now I have no idea what's going on or how long it will be before AF shows.

Another month down the tubes and this time we didn't even get to try. Chat Icon

UPDATE 7/16- Well, I'm fairly convinced now that I ovulated on maybe CD18. I've never gotten a +OPK on the day of O so it makes sense that I never got my Chat Icon since I didn't start testing until CD18. I think DH's um... leftovers were masking my EWCM a bit. I feel similar to the way I usually do after O & my CM & cervix are consitent with that too. We BDed on CD17 (twice Chat Icon ) & CD18 so I guess I have a very small shot. I'm not holding my breath. Oh well, at least it made the 2ww easier since I didn't realize I might be in it until 5 days had passed! Now I guess I just Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon .

Thanks for all of your support ladies!

Message edited 7/16/2008 4:28:02 PM.

Posted 7/15/08 2:24 PM
 
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maybeamommy
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Re: I guess this month is a bust

Dani, I'm so sorry!

I'm thinking you probably missed your O date though.

If you've O'd as early as CD 16 or 17, that would mean your +OPK could have been as early as CD 14 or 15.

If your longest cycle was 35 days, then you probably O'd around CD 20, which could mean a +OPK at CD 18.

With all of that said, since you gave your earliest and latest O dates as basically CD 16 and CD 20. You probably O'd somewhere between then while you weren't testing. I'd guess you would have gotten a +OPK between CD 14 and CD 17. I think those were crucial days for getting your +OPK.

Does that make sense?

Did you BD during that time period?

Posted 7/15/08 2:29 PM
 

diva7531
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Re: I guess this month is a bust

So sorry, I hated OPK's too, they never went positive for me!

Better luck next month!!!!!!



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Posted 7/15/08 2:47 PM
 

Dani922
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Danielle

Re: I guess this month is a bust

Posted by maybeamommy

Dani, I'm so sorry!

I'm thinking you probably missed your O date though.

If you've O'd as early as CD 16 or 17, that would mean your +OPK could have been as early as CD 14 or 15.

If your longest cycle was 35 days, then you probably O'd around CD 20, which could mean a +OPK at CD 18.

With all of that said, since you gave your earliest and latest O dates as basically CD 16 and CD 20. You probably O'd somewhere between then while you weren't testing. I'd guess you would have gotten a +OPK between CD 14 and CD 17. I think those were crucial days for getting your +OPK.

Does that make sense?

Did you BD during that time period?



I'm hoping that I O'ed earlier than I expected & I started testing too late for the +OPK. I thought I was okay to start testing later because I didn't see much EWCM. We BD'ed a few times throughout the month so it's still possible to have a very small chance if I O'ed already Chat Icon

Posted 7/15/08 3:10 PM
 

MrsS518
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Re: I guess this month is a bust

Dani, im so sorry this month isnt your month!!! best of luck for you next month!!

Posted 7/15/08 3:25 PM
 

Nikkibean
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Re: I guess this month is a bust

Sorry you're having such trouble with the OPK's. Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/15/08 4:08 PM
 

jam11308

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Re: I guess this month is a bust

I'm so sorry Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/15/08 4:55 PM
 

Dani922
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Danielle

Re: I guess this month is a bust- UPDATE

bump for update

Posted 7/16/08 5:00 PM
 

maybeamommy
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Re: I guess this month is a bust- UPDATE

You have a GREAT chance this month if that was your BD schedule!

I am keeping my fingers crossed for you Dani!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/16/08 5:03 PM
 

Teachergal
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Re: I guess this month is a bust- UPDATE

Good luck! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/16/08 5:18 PM
 

TCOMF09
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Re: I guess this month is a bust- UPDATE

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Posted 7/16/08 5:53 PM
 
 

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