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headoverheels
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i HATE house hunting

Message edited 9/1/2011 2:17:04 PM.

Posted 4/21/09 3:28 PM
 
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imthecindyofcindyandkevin
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Re: i HATE house hunting

We had the same problem, didn't want DD riding her bike with a double yellow line.

Don't worry your house is out there waiting and you'll find it soon!! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/21/09 3:31 PM
 

neener1211
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Re: i HATE house hunting

I chuckled out loud when I read this...see my post last July hating house hunting . We found our house a month later.

It'll be ok, you'll find it. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Are you willing to look further than where you are looking now?

Message edited 4/21/2009 3:34:56 PM.

Posted 4/21/09 3:33 PM
 

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Posted 4/21/09 3:34 PM
 

Ophelia
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remember, when Gulliver traveled....

Re: i HATE house hunting

don't hate it lb.

love it.

love that you are being discerning...that you are looking for the RIGHT thing and sticking to your guns.

love that people are inviting you into their home and showing you something they (most likely) love and put a lot of themselves into.

don't look at each house that doesn't quite fit as a disappointment but as a stepping stone, taking you closer to the one that does.

if you start to hate it, it won't be pleasurable. and it should be.

you are looking for your HOME. for your family and your life. enjoy the ride as much as the destination...even if some of the ride has popcorn ceilings Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/21/09 4:35 PM
 

theburbshereicome
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Re: i HATE house hunting

Chat Icon I remember feeling that way RIGHT before i found "her"...your house is out there! Its like finding a husband, you gotta kiss a lot of frogs :)

We went to at least 60 open houses till we found our house, it gets exahusting. Try taking a weekend or so off, with NO house talk, no showings etc.

Posted 4/21/09 4:57 PM
 

JldDolphin

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Re: i HATE house hunting

We looked at at least 75 houses before we found ours. Believe me we had to really see the potential in our house at the time. So keep looking, don't give up. Maybe widen your search some if you can. It's out there. Take a weekend off and don't talk about it or look online for anything for week. Your Chat Icon is out there, you just have to wait for the right one to pop up. GL! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/21/09 5:19 PM
 

Jenn627
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Re: i HATE house hunting

Posted by Ophelia
even if some of the ride has popcorn ceilings Chat Icon Chat Icon



I LOVE popcorn ceilings! Chat Icon Chat Icon


I agree that you should change your mentality and TRY to enjoy it... It really IS fun if you make it fun! Good luck - your home is out there!!!

Posted 4/21/09 5:39 PM
 

Sparkyandang
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Re: i HATE house hunting

TOTALLY on this band wagon.

I HATE it too. We've been outbid twice, and rejected for a few other offers and they were well within 10% of asking.

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Posted 4/21/09 7:03 PM
 

Sparkyandang
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Re: i HATE house hunting

Posted by JldDolphin

We looked at at least 75 houses before we found ours. Believe me we had to really see the potential in our house at the time. So keep looking, don't give up. Maybe widen your search some if you can. It's out there. Take a weekend off and don't talk about it or look online for anything for week. Your Chat Icon is out there, you just have to wait for the right one to pop up. GL! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



I agree with this too. We took off this past weekend and this weekend coming up and the following weekend because we are busy and we really need the break. It was fun in the beginning but not anymore.

Posted 4/21/09 7:04 PM
 

rkoenke
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Re: i HATE house hunting

i LOVED it, i still do. i would go to any open-house anywhere, i love to see people's layouts, decor, ideas... i even like to see the slobs. i walk around and say to myself "i can't believe people live like this."

We went to a couple foreclosures a few months back and my kids walked around yelling "MOMMY! THIS PLACE IS MESSY!" or "IT'S GROSS IN HERE!"
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i am glad that i am setting a good standard for my kids! at least i know that they wouldn't like to live like pigs!!
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Posted 4/21/09 7:26 PM
 

JennZ
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Re: i HATE house hunting

Im coming up to NY this week and Sat is my day with the RA. Im not looking forward to it. I think its more because I hate my RA. HOPEFULLY, I will find something.

Posted 4/21/09 8:19 PM
 

NASP09
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Posted 4/21/09 8:34 PM
 

rkoenke
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Re: i HATE house hunting

Posted by kbeana24

Posted by Sparkyandang

We've been outbid twice, and rejected for a few other offers and they were well within 10% of asking.

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Us too. We put a bid on one house that was 8% less than asking price and 4% less than a LARGER comp house sold for. We were told
"oooooooooooooh thats FAR too low"



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My new REA said that houses are really moving b/c of the first time home buyers stuff, plus the town of babylon down payment assistance.

Posted 4/21/09 8:36 PM
 

headoverheels
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LB

Re: i HATE house hunting

Message edited 9/1/2011 2:16:55 PM.

Posted 4/21/09 8:37 PM
 

ThreeCats
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Re: i HATE house hunting

Posted by headoverheels

thanks everyone!

fortunately i found a really great REA (with some help Chat Icon

i know my house is out there but i guess i am just being impatient Chat Icon



Posted by neener1211

Are you willing to look further than where you are looking now?



we actually expanded our search a bit - and then narrowed it again once we found the area we truly loved. there are a lot of houses out there, luckily. it's just finding the one that is right for us.

we are looking in e. northport, northport and kings park. if anyone knows of a great house for sale there let me know!! Chat Icon



my house is for sale in east northport!!!!!

Message edited 4/21/2009 9:01:36 PM.

Posted 4/21/09 9:00 PM
 

cindy104
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Cindy

Re: i HATE house hunting

geez we really hated it too. We looked for 2 years and at least 100 houses......and probably a lot more too...not fun at all. - well maybe for the first couple of months.
Don't get discouraged, you'll find something and when it's meant to be it will be!
Good luck!

Posted 4/21/09 9:08 PM
 

avamamma
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Re: i HATE house hunting

Posted by headoverheels

thanks everyone!

fortunately i found a really great REA (with some help Chat Icon

i know my house is out there but i guess i am just being impatient Chat Icon



Posted by neener1211

Are you willing to look further than where you are looking now?



we actually expanded our search a bit - and then narrowed it again once we found the area we truly loved. there are a lot of houses out there, luckily. it's just finding the one that is right for us.

we are looking in e. northport, northport and kings park. if anyone knows of a great house for sale there let me know!! Chat Icon



We are looking in Northport too, but we have a house to sell first.

What are you looking for, I would be glad to fm you what I find??

Posted 4/21/09 11:21 PM
 

OStewarts
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Re: i HATE house hunting

Posted by headoverheels

everything we like on MLSLI is on a main/busy road Chat Icon (we can't have that, we have a young DS)

it's a buyer's market right? so where is the house for us? Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



We feel the same way. It's a real PITA working all week and than looking at houses every weekend! However, we're getting really good at determining if we even want to see a house in the first place. We only go to certain ones now. We used to go to every single house that was listed in the towns that we're looking in. Chat Icon Exhausting!

Posted 4/21/09 11:30 PM
 

1stimemom
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Re: i HATE house hunting

Hon, FM me with your details, I will be happy to d=search for you. I have a RE licence, btwChat Icon

Posted 4/22/09 3:41 AM
 

kahlua716
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Re: i HATE house hunting

I feel the same way Chat Icon

Posted 4/22/09 7:42 AM
 

TheDivineMrsM
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Re: i HATE house hunting

It made me a little crazy too. It can be an annoying process, (and sometimes, almost scary when you see how some people live). But trust me, your house is out there. Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/22/09 8:31 AM
 

MrsUta
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Re: i HATE house hunting

just wait until neogating...Chat Icon

That is the real joy! jk

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Hang in there, it will happen...

Posted 4/22/09 8:37 AM
 

NoStressMom
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Re: i HATE house hunting

I'm with ya!! we put offers in on so many homes and of course those famous words come out Oh they got there asking price!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon

Or we put in an offer and then no counter offer WTH so frustrating and looking at all these home while almost 8 months pregnant is not that fun anymore. Ok I'm done venting!!

Posted 4/22/09 8:52 AM
 

jennarose023
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Re: i HATE house hunting

i feel your pain...we saw about 220 houses...no exaggeration before we found ours

Posted 4/22/09 9:49 AM
 
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