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Charly
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Member since 5/05 12578 total posts
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I hate when this happens
A very good friend of mine who is PG had her u/s done and found out she's having a boy (what they wanted!) She's telling me how she's finally starting to look PG and how the baby is moving so much. I truly am sooo happy and excited for them...but when I hung up I started to cry. I feel like she had everything so easy. She got PG on the first try, she wanted a boy and got a boy, etc.
I hate feeling "jealous" or "envy" whatever you want to call it. It makes me feel like I'm a bad person or not a good friend. Why do we have to feel this way on top of all the other emotions we have to deal with. I don't know why I'm so incredibly emotional lately. I'm generally not even this bad when I pms.
Thanks for letting me talk!!
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Posted 2/24/06 12:49 PM |
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icequeen4700
LIF Adolescent
Member since 5/05 505 total posts
Name: Dawn
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Re: I hate when this happens
it doesnt make us bad people because we want something so desperately that our emotions just take over. most of us have been here for a while and know what a struggle it is every month. i have never been so emotional in my life
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Posted 2/24/06 12:58 PM |
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andri
LIF Infant
Member since 11/05 241 total posts
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Re: I hate when this happens
Awww.. I know how you feel.. I'm not the jealous type but I want to be Preggo NOW! I can't even bring myself to lurk on the pregnancy board.
If just one more person tells me "relax,you want it too badly,it'll never happen unless you relax" I think I'll sock'em!
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Posted 2/24/06 1:00 PM |
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casey31
Mommy of 3!
Member since 5/05 2967 total posts
Name: Mommy to two boys and a girl
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Re: I hate when this happens
OMG- I've been feeling the same way- jealous, sad, angry- most of all scared! I want it now and I just have this bad feeling it will take a long time......
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Posted 2/24/06 1:03 PM |
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Boobobunny
Live in the Present
Member since 5/05 3572 total posts
Name: Dannielle
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Re: I hate when this happens
i think that its perfectly natural for women to feel this way...I hope youre time will come very soon...and you can start to rub it in our faces....
~~~~~Baby Dust~~~~~
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Posted 2/24/06 1:29 PM |
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LIBOUND
Texting king
Member since 10/05 5289 total posts
Name: Suzy
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Re: I hate when this happens
I know how you feel. My best friend of 30 years is now PG with her second after NOT trying for 6 years.
It's hard, buy I know I have to be there for her. I just hated when she told me "Don't worry....it will happen when God wants it to happen, not when you want it to". Gee, exactly what I wanted to hear (not). In the back of my mind, I feel like she doesn't want me to be PG at the same time.
Sorry I vented on your topic....I needed to get that out.
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Posted 2/24/06 1:42 PM |
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sylvester
LIF Infant
Member since 10/05 325 total posts
Name: Rosanna
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Re: I hate when this happens
Posted by andri
Awww.. I know how you feel.. I'm not the jealous type but I want to be Preggo NOW! I can't even bring myself to lurk on the pregnancy board.
If just one more person tells me "relax,you want it too badly,it'll never happen unless you relax" I think I'll sock'em! I hate when people tell me to relax. I get it all the time.
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Posted 2/24/06 4:40 PM |
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