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Blondie805
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I know it's dumb, but I feel bad
I have my friend's engagement party tonight and I was talking to one of our other friends before who is also going tonight. I found out that she and our other friend are in the wedding party. All four of us girls went to college together and have remained friends since then. When I got married 8/2005 and didn't have them in my wedding party because I had my sister, DH's 2 sisters, and 3 of my closest HS friends. I didn't want to have a huge wedding party , and I didn't want to make any of my college friends feel bad by having one or two in the party and the others not. So now I'm the only one of that group that's not in the wedding party. I just feel bad, because I guess that means that the bride to be feels closer to the other 2 girls than me. I didn't realize that, so now I'm kinda down about that.
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Re: I know it's dumb, but I feel bad
I don't think it's dumb at all. I would be pretty upset myself. Try not to let it getcha down 
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| Posted 1/27/07 1:56 PM |
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Nicole728
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Re: I know it's dumb, but I feel bad
maybe she is in a similar situation...doesn't want a big BP so just asked the ones she was closest too...don't worry about it
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| Posted 1/27/07 2:05 PM |
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alnem
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Re: I know it's dumb, but I feel bad
Posted by Nicole728
maybe she is in a similar situation...doesn't want a big BP so just asked the ones she was closest too...don't worry about it
that's what i was thinking. and i know it may sound dumb, but maybe she didnt ask you because you didnt ask her (even though you had a good reason). alot of girls feel like "if i'm in hers then she HAS to be in mine and if i'm not in hers then she's NOT going to be in mine".  ...dont be sad! you always have LIF!
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| Posted 1/27/07 2:15 PM |
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Blondie805
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Re: I know it's dumb, but I feel bad
Posted by alnem
Posted by Nicole728
maybe she is in a similar situation...doesn't want a big BP so just asked the ones she was closest too...don't worry about it
that's what i was thinking. and i know it may sound dumb, but maybe she didnt ask you because you didnt ask her (even though you had a good reason). alot of girls feel like "if i'm in hers then she HAS to be in mine and if i'm not in hers then she's NOT going to be in mine". ...dont be sad! you always have LIF!
Thanks. I know what you mean. That's kinda another reason I feel bad, because I was thinking maybe I made her/them feel bad when they weren't in my party. DOH, I need to stop this!
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| Posted 1/27/07 2:26 PM |
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Kate07
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Re: I know it's dumb, but I feel bad
She might just not be having you because you didn't have her. Don't feel bad. I'm sure it wasn't meant to be a persona thing.
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| Posted 1/27/07 2:49 PM |
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KateDevine
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Re: I know it's dumb, but I feel bad
My college friends are my best friends, but we didn't have each other in our weddings because of a host reasons.
But it is sucky that she just left you out, but it is probably because she wasn't in yours, that is why I wouldn't take it personally.
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| Posted 1/27/07 8:43 PM |
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nyteacher13
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Re: I know it's dumb, but I feel bad
I'd be upset, too... You're totally normal for feeling this way!!!
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