so, since we're going back to ny in june - i need help figuring out what i need to do before then while we still have our health insurance, union benefits, etc.

when do i ask for his medical records? my medical records? what should i get in order beforehand? how far in advance should i notify daycare?

what should i bring with us, what should i sell? we're moving from a 3 bedroom house to a 3 bedroom apt, but the bedrooms aren't comparable size - the new ones are much smaller so i'm thinking our second queen is out of the ? or should we move it and toss if later on if it doesn't work out? should we take the crib apart or move it whole? what about the toys/swing - take them apart or move them as is?

we're going to hold onto our house for a little while after seeing how soft the market has gotten, it's not worth selling it at this point. so, hopefully we'll be able to rent it out for our full mortgage payment or a little less than it...


thank you for any and all help and advice!!!