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I think a co-worker just made up my mind about quitting my job before/after I have the baby....(long vent)!

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Mommy2Boys
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I think a co-worker just made up my mind about quitting my job before/after I have the baby....(long vent)!

I have been having problems with this one girl for the past few weeks. I found out from my manager she has an attitude b/c she apparently wanted my position and didnt get it (and she has been with the company, I am brand spankin' new). Well we got printer paper delivered the other day in big boxes and it was sitting on the floor in the front of our office. I tried to kick the box to move it and it didn't move, that is how heavy they are. She looked at me and said "well, I used to drag them to the closet why can't you?" HELLO!!!!! WHAT GETS ME IS SHE KNOWS I AM PREGNANT and that is why she is giving me attitude, b/c she definetely feels she should have gotten the job b/c i will be going out on maternity leave obviously for a few months.

I called DH very upset, and I am not very sensitive to things like this, but I have bad anxiety which has been very bad lately being I am off my medicine b/c I am pregnant and I just dont need the bullsh*t. It is hard for me to come into work and sit here all day b/c my nerves are so bad.

The other day I posted about not knowing what I wanted to do about work after the baby, etc. I have always wanted to have my own business, especially since planning my wedding (which I loved to do) and to start off I wanted to start my own invitation and favor store. So DH wants me to quit and work on that. But that will take a while to get started. I already have my business license and everything, I just have to buy all the books, supplies, etc. and right now we are trying to focus on our new house.

I still can't believe she said that!!!

Posted 8/14/06 2:56 PM
 
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Re: I think a co-worker just made up my mind about quitting my job before/after I have the baby....(long vent)!

she is obviously jealous, just ignore her

Posted 8/14/06 2:58 PM
 

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Re: I think a co-worker just made up my mind about quitting my job before/after I have the baby....(long vent)!

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definately jealous!!!

Posted 8/14/06 3:06 PM
 

PrincessP
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Re: I think a co-worker just made up my mind about quitting my job before/after I have the baby....(long vent)!

Dont make decisions when you are angry. She sounds like a MORON!

Posted 8/14/06 3:06 PM
 

SuzyQ
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Re: I think a co-worker just made up my mind about quitting my job before/after I have the baby....(long vent)!

Posted by PrincessP

Dont make decisions when you are angry. She sounds like a MORON!



I agree and I wouldn't want to give her the satisfaction of getting MY job. Chat Icon

Posted 8/14/06 3:11 PM
 

lvdolphins
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Re: I think a co-worker just made up my mind about quitting my job before/after I have the baby....(long vent)!

She is jealous of you and a moron. Ignore her.Chat Icon

Posted 8/14/06 4:37 PM
 

MrsSchwags
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Re: I think a co-worker just made up my mind about quitting my job before/after I have the baby....(long vent)!

Posted by SuzyQ

Posted by PrincessP

Dont make decisions when you are angry. She sounds like a MORON!



I agree and I wouldn't want to give her the satisfaction of getting MY job. Chat Icon



completely agree here!!!

Posted 8/14/06 4:39 PM
 

stickydust
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Re: I think a co-worker just made up my mind about quitting my job before/after I have the baby....(long vent)!

Posted by MrsSchwags

Posted by SuzyQ

Posted by PrincessP

Dont make decisions when you are angry. She sounds like a MORON!



I agree and I wouldn't want to give her the satisfaction of getting MY job. Chat Icon



completely agree here!!!



I agree also

Posted 8/14/06 4:41 PM
 

CouponKT
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Re: I think a co-worker just made up my mind about quitting my job before/after I have the baby....(long vent)!

I would have said to her "a few months ago, that would not have been a problem, but could you help me out since my belly gets in the way...".

Make it light but make it know that you aren't going to get pushed over by her. I KNOW how heavy those boxes are cause I used to move them myself. Let her melt in her own jealousy and brush it off. Don't let it bother you - you have much better things ahead :)

Posted 8/14/06 4:43 PM
 
 

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