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fakenamettc
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I will be 8 weeks tomorrow and I am starting to get anxious again
This is around the time baby's heart stopped beating with my last pregnancy, due to chromosomal abnormality , we found out at almost 10.5 weeks.
The new OB has been monitoring me very closely this time , he is seeing me every 2 weeks, actually I saw him last Fri and he told me to come in again the following week so I went again this Tue, everything looked good , heartbeat was strong. Going back next week again , I'll be 9 weeks exactly and I'm already getting anxious.
I was very anxious in the begginning, but then I saw the heartbeat 2 weeks ago and it made me feel so good, all the anxiety was gone, but now as I'm turning 8 weeks it's creeping back  My OB keeps telling me I have nothing to worry about , but it's easier said than done.
Sorry if I sound weird , not even sure why I'm posting, I think I'm just looking to get it off my chest and share what I'm feeling. Can't really share with anyone else since no one knows yet and I don't want to worry DH , I know he is also scared and worried.
Thanks for letting me share .
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Posted 2/9/12 4:09 PM  |
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Re: I will be 8 weeks tomorrow and I am starting to get anxious again
I never experienced a loss so I can only imagine how hard it is to stay positive. But please please please stay postive, no negative thoughts. You are being monitored which is great. I know in my heart everything will be fine. Please update after the appt. No worries
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| Posted 2/9/12 4:12 PM |
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Cacarina
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Re: I will be 8 weeks tomorrow and I am starting to get anxious again
Stay positive!!!
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| Posted 2/9/12 4:27 PM |
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Googlybear
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Re: I will be 8 weeks tomorrow and I am starting to get anxious again
Your feelings are viable. Im not going to say relax, because as someone who has lossed, even though i passed the point i lost, i am always worried. My last appt was 4 weeks ago adn i am dying to hear the baby again. If you need, myself, and everyone else here are here to help. The only thing one can do is revel in the joy of the baby currently> I wish you well, adn if you need, you can always private message me.
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| Posted 2/9/12 4:27 PM |
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mooshyboo
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Re: I will be 8 weeks tomorrow and I am starting to get anxious again
Think positive thoughts!!! Your feelings are all so natural! Lots of
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| Posted 2/9/12 4:38 PM |
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BlessedMomma
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Re: I will be 8 weeks tomorrow and I am starting to get anxious again
I agree... I have experienced loss and Im almost 20 weeks and still get anxious sometimes... Its completely natural... Yes you have to first and foremost stay positive... When you have a negative thought you have to push it so far out of your head and then yell at yourself for having it! LOL I know it sounds ridiculous but DO IT! And every day when you wake up and EVERY night before you go to bed, you say to yourself everything is going to be ok this time. You have to keep saying it until you believe it in your heart!
I know its really hard but your going to have to work to stay positive! And dont feel silly for posting your feelings, thats what these boards are for! There will always be somewhere here who is or has had a similar experience and might be able to help.
FM me anytime if you want to talk!
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| Posted 2/9/12 4:47 PM |
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Re: I will be 8 weeks tomorrow and I am starting to get anxious again
I didn't suffer a loss, but I would be thinking about it just like you! It sounds like your Dr is really trying to put your mind at ease. Stay positive
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| Posted 2/9/12 4:49 PM |
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