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Michelle1110
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If I say no...

I can't go into details bc this is a public forum. But suffice it to say:
If I tell you there is no due date in response to your question TWICE in a span of thirty seconds, do not try to convince me I am pg, listing "evidence" and rumors.

I lost my cool and might have, perhaps, spoken very loudly and one might say not very nicely, and "said" that I just hD a miscarriage.

I can't.

Posted 11/19/13 9:46 PM
 
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mrsm-2011
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Theresa

Re: If I say no...

I'm sorry you are going through that Michelle.

Some people just suck!!!!!


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Message edited 11/19/2013 9:58:20 PM.

Posted 11/19/13 9:58 PM
 

2BirdsofaFeather
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If I say no...

i am sorry

Posted 11/19/13 10:04 PM
 

ANewDayHasCome
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Me

If I say no...

I yelled someone when they asked when I was due.....and was about to start ivf.

Posted 11/19/13 10:14 PM
 

jessnbrian
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I am so sorry love! It's so hard when dealing with people who are idiots - sometimes you just need to be blunt and forceful!

Posted 11/19/13 10:16 PM
 

Michelle1110
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If I say no...

I wish I could write everything this woman said but it's a co worker. She was relentless to the point of being mean.

DH was enraged and wanted me to tell boss. That's too extreme now that I've calmed down, but sheesh! No means no!!!!

Posted 11/19/13 10:18 PM
 

jessnbrian
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Jessica

If I say no...

I once had to tell a patient that I wasn't pregnant because the shirt I wore made me look 8 months preggo - needless to say I don't wear that shirt anymore (and this was loooooong before I was TTC)...
People are complete idiots

Posted 11/19/13 10:18 PM
 

Michelle1110
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Re: If I say no...

Posted by jessnbrian

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I am so sorry love! It's so hard when dealing with people who are idiots - sometimes you just need to be blunt and forceful!



I swear Jess. I should have said maybe it's bc I've had two mc in two months after infertility treatments for a year!

Balls.

Posted 11/19/13 10:19 PM
 

jessnbrian
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Re: If I say no...

Posted by Michelle1110

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I am so sorry love! It's so hard when dealing with people who are idiots - sometimes you just need to be blunt and forceful!



I swear Jess. I should have said maybe it's bc I've had two mc in two months after infertility treatments for a year!

Balls.



I just don't understand how people think it's any of their business... You all know how open I am, but that's to people I decide to tell, if you are going to snoop where you don't belong, then you are going to get rapped in the nose like the dog you are!

Posted 11/19/13 10:28 PM
 

Hope2009
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sorry Michelle, unfortunately people can be incredibly rude. Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/20/13 5:37 AM
 

PhyllisNJoe
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Re: If I say no...

I'm sorry Chat Icon

That woman is an asshole and I hope you made her feel like sh1t

Posted 11/20/13 7:54 AM
 

Irishgrl13
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Colleen

Re: If I say no...

People can be so ignorant at times.... Sorry for your frustration! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/20/13 8:09 AM
 

clotheshorse
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Re: If I say no...

My DH's friend told me in my first trimester the reason why I haven't started to show yet was bc & I quote, "you're not thin as it is & you will get even bigger as you progress." My DH expressed to him what a poor choice of words that was & he was offended. Really?

Meanwhile, the nurses said its because I'm tall & have a long torso.

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Posted 11/20/13 8:21 AM
 

APT910
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Ashley

Re: If I say no...

So sorry Michelle. A lot of people just don't understand what we go through. Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/20/13 9:52 AM
 

AKD
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You know how I feel about this already!!! Chat Icon People are just plain stupid. I'm so sorry Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/20/13 10:03 AM
 

MrsGoldie
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R

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I'm sorry Michelle Chat Icon

Posted 11/20/13 10:42 AM
 

moonmist09
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Posted 11/20/13 10:45 AM
 

babyfever24
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Posted 11/20/13 12:14 PM
 

TheDivaBrideandTeddyFrog
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Sabrina

If I say no...

That is SO hurtful and am so sorry you had to deal with that!

Posted 11/20/13 5:48 PM
 

babydreams21
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If I say no...

Uhh so sorry. People are the worst. I have someone at work who rudely asks me so any news very often. I say check back with me in 5 years. Seriously? Not everyone HAS to HAVE children. People don't ask my coworker who is 50, why did you never have kids. Its personal business. People seem to think this is fine to ask people who they aren't even friends with. UHHH

Posted 11/20/13 6:36 PM
 

EnV-McC
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What a *****. I'm so sorry hun. I'm glad you put her in her place, go ahead and be mean- she deserves it. Chat Icon

Posted 11/20/13 6:41 PM
 

kristen10
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Wow, that is awful. I'm so sorry this person said that to you Michelle! Chat Icon

Posted 11/20/13 7:42 PM
 
 

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