Re: If you had the power to "change" the people in your life for 2011...and assign them resolutions..

Hands down...My mother to stop smoking! It kills me when she smokes I have tried so many things to get her to stop to no avail

Re: If you had the power to "change" the people in your life for 2011...and assign them resolutions..

My Dh has to quit smoking and lose weight. He already stopped his other vice. (thank God)

Re: If you had the power to "change" the people in your life for 2011...and assign them resolutions..

my mother to stop worrying about me and dh and get herself (credit debt) straightened out

bil to grow up and get a job so he can survive on his own and not rely on me and dh

the rest of our families to have a happy and healthy year!

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I would like my DH to be more organized, mostly in terms of getting things done around the house.

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My so.So he can be honest with me..

Re: If you had the power to "change" the people in your life for 2011...and assign them resolutions..

ok here goes:

I wish my mom would stop being so manipulative.

I wish wish my dad and his brothers and sisters would stop taking life and family for granted. All nine of them!!!! just get along people. None of you are better then any other human being.

I wish my brother would settle down, and be happy with the family he has.

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My brother to figure out how to balance his love for music and the reality of being nearly 40 with a child. To get a secure job and keep his hobby just a hobby not try to make it an income

My father to realize the world doesn't need only him. The small town he's in will survive without him but he needs to move so he can be safer, closer to hospitals and (yes selfish) closer to his granddaughter.

everyone else.. nah..

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My brother to stop screwing around and pay attention in college so he can a career

My FH to stop smoking and get a better job

My sister to realize her husband is jackoff and he is NEVER going to change

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I wish my best friend would stop dating losers and see herself for the amazing person that she is and stop settling for any less than her.

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for my dad to stop smoking

for my sister to go on medication for her bipolar disorder.

for my mother to stop worrying about everyone so much

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I would have DH be romantic again, lose weight, manage his BP properly and spend more parenting time with DD.

I would make MIL respect me more and stop criticizing my every parenting choice and move in general and stop telling my DH what to do. And I would make her nice to me.

I would make STBX BIL stop putting my niece and nephew in the middle of his and SIL's divorce because it is killing them emotionally

I would make my parents take better care of their health.

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Mom to stop smoking.

Re: If you had the power to "change" the people in your life for 2011...and assign them resolutions..

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Posted by headoverheels

I would like for my DH to resolve to see a doctor about his horrific gas.

OMG

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I would like my sister#1 to find someone she is TRULY happy with

Sister #2 To understand that just because you went to college doesn't mean people bow to you

Sister #3 To get a scholarship to college so she can move far far away from my parents

Brother - To come home safely from Afghanistan and stop smoking.

Mother- To get I am not ready to speak to her and to give me my space.

Grandmother---To be admitted into the high security end of the pysch ward where she belongs.

DH--To take more vaca time.

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my dh to stop smoking
my mother to stop smoking and stop worrying about EVERYTHING
my sister to figure out what she wants to do career wise so she can actually graduate from college on time
my dad to make a better effort to talk to/see his children more often

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my husband to actually do something - ex. change jobs for the better, go to school and have a career or for him to take over all household responsibilities so i can have a second job with out having the house fall apart.

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DH's cousin to get motivated to exercise or change his diet. We saw him at christmas and he got so obese that I am now concerned for his health.

Also, for a friend of mine to stop seeing things in the world as a negative light and quit complaining

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DH: to stop smoking & care about this health.

Brother: Propose to his GF of 10 years already!!!

Sister and BIL: Start living in the real world.

Mom: Take a chance with a guy she has know for along time.