Im bored..so I have some q's...How long were you with ur SO b4 you..

"knew you were in love"?...

told ur SO that you loved them?...

slept with them?...

did you sleep with them b4 or after the L word was said?..

Re: Im bored..so I have some q's...How long were you with ur SO b4 you..

I knew I loved him before we started dating. We met 6 months before we started dating and became best friends.

We said the three words within the first week of dating.

About sleeping together we waited a little while - but exactly I don't remember.

Re: Im bored..so I have some q's...How long were you with ur SO b4 you..

"knew you were in love"?...You know, I don't really remember. But I had this weird gut feeling the night before our second date, while sitting in a laundromat no less, that he was "the one". It was a feeling, not a thought. And of course at this point I barely knew him...

told ur SO that you loved them?... Almost six months. We were both big chickens.

slept with them?... Almost 2 months

did you sleep with them b4 or after the L word was said? Before

Re: Im bored..so I have some q's...How long were you with ur SO b4 you..

Well for me being "in love" has several stages. In the early stages you think you are in love but it's really alot of lust, I think. So that happened very quickly for me...I'd say within a couple of months. Then as the relationship progresses it becomes more "real love"...like knowing he's "the one". That didn't happen until about about 1 year for me.

But the "L" word was spoken at about four months. Sleeping together, shortly after that.

Re: Im bored..so I have some q's...How long were you with ur SO b4 you..

Geezz....I'm gonna get flamed for this:

I slept with him after a week...yes, just 7 days and it probably would have been earlier had AF not been around!

I KNEW I loved him after just a few days....on our 3rd night of hanging out, he ASKED if he could kiss me.

We said after about a month I think....we would say that we felt it, but didn't want to say it for fear of ruining it!

Re: Im bored..so I have some q's...How long were you with ur SO b4 you..

I knew I loved him before I started dating him. I used to see him around school all the time (h.s. sweeties), and I once witnessed him sticking up for a younger, disabled student that his friends were picking on. He lost a few friends over that, but DEFINITELY gained my admiration. (funny, 'cause our first "official" date was his prom, and our first dance at the prom was savage garden's "i knew i loved you (before I met you)".)

The L work came out 28 days after first official date, and I first slept with him 4 days later.

still going, almost 5 1/2 yrs later

Re: Im bored..so I have some q's...How long were you with ur SO b4 you..

I knew right away that JT was going to be the person I married, however, I knew I really loved him about a week later.
We FINALLY said we loved each other about a month into the relationship. I think when you know, you know.
As for sleeping together. Let's just say we didn't waste any time

Re: Im bored..so I have some q's...How long were you with ur SO b4 you..

Knew almost from the first date that he was the one.

I waited almost 6 months to say the L word to him.

We waited 2 1/2 months to do the deed.

Re: Im bored..so I have some q's...How long were you with ur SO b4 you..

Kind of had this sneaky suspicion that love was in the air after 3 weeks, but we didn't say it until 7 months into the relationship. But we both knew it was there and there were many times when the 3 words almost slipped out. As for the deed, well, (cough cough), um, well, hee hee, let's just say nakedness happened in a shorter span of time. But I knew he wasn't a one night stand kind of guy.

Re: Im bored..so I have some q's...How long were you with ur SO b4 you..

I knew I was in love about 6 -7 months after meeting him...He drove us to Rhode Island to see Dave Matthews, stayed in a hotel and all and he HATES dave...so I fell in love with him for it.....

I told him probably before that, but meant it wholheartedly at that time.

The deed we did on ouyr 3rd date...although we had been talking on the phone everyday for almost 2 months before our 3rd date.

Slept with him before we said I love you....I dont think you need LOVE for sex...

Re: Im bored..so I have some q's...How long were you with ur SO b4 you..

14 years
14 years
12 years
before, but don't know how much I really felt it

We've been friends for 19 years.

Re: Im bored..so I have some q's...How long were you with ur SO b4 you..

"knew you were in love"?... Our first Date

told ur SO that you loved them?... 2 weeks later

slept with them?... see above question

did you sleep with them b4 or after the L word was said?.. same time

Re: Im bored..so I have some q's...How long were you with ur SO b4 you..

"knew you were in love"?... Before we were even dating... he had gone away on vacation with his family... and that week without him, was horrid..I missed him so much...I didnt even realize I had a thing for him until this day...

told ur SO that you loved them?... about a month into dating..

slept with them?... after about 2 months..

did you sleep with them b4 or after the L word was said?.. after

Re: Im bored..so I have some q's...How long were you with ur SO b4 you..

We were friends for 18 years so I already loved him in that respect

The love grew into something more

He grabbed me and kissed me New Years Eve (he had kissed me a few years before). Slept with him New Years Day

Both said ILY the same date in Oct and always celebrate that date

Re: Im bored..so I have some q's...How long were you with ur SO b4 you..

"knew you were in love"?... Maybe 3 months into relationship

told ur SO that you loved them?... After 4 months

slept with them?...On our third date, but we had been talking/emailing for a month before we even went out.

did you sleep with them b4 or after the L word was said?... before