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Shoppie
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I'm convinced I'm PG but have mixed thoughts
Had a D&C in june, got a very uneven AF in july and am now 32 CD past that and still no sign of AF. I tested last night and got a BFN. but I feel in my heart I'm PG and its only a matter of time till the test says so.the problem is is that I'm not excited. I'm actually annoyed at me and DH for not having the willpower to wait till we planned to - sept/oct. we're going to italy for 2 weeks at the end of sept. and I feel that my trip will be less enjoyable and more stressful now that PG is in the picture. DH disagrees and says it will still be a blast - how can it be if I have M/S? or I'm exhausted? I thought after the D&C that I would be thrilled for this all to be happening again, but now I'm not.
sorry to vent 
Will probably test again tomorrow - just fearing the results.
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Re: I'm convinced I'm PG but have mixed thoughts
Sorry you feel this way. I can understand being nervous, and thinking you won't be able to enjoy your trip. But try to stay positive, if you are preggo, then consider this your "babymoon", if you're not, then consider it your last trip before you start TTC again. Either way, have fun! You deserve it.
 
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| Posted 8/8/06 2:21 PM |
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LuvMy2Girls
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Re: I'm convinced I'm PG but have mixed thoughts
I had those feelings too after my m/c. I call it fearful excitement. That fearful excitement was almost regret, when I got that BFP. You kinda get yourself in a mindset, especially during that grieving time. Even after, we all have our coping mechanisms.
For me, I would let the test reveal a BFP before I go planning for future and think about ruining a trip.
Italy is a blast, you will have soo much fun whether you are pg or not.
If you are pg, it will be a babymoon, if not, have a bottle of wine for me
You def deserve to have a good trip
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| Posted 8/8/06 2:56 PM |
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Shoppie
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Re: I'm convinced I'm PG but have mixed thoughts
Thanks girls :)
I will probably test again the AM and report back
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| Posted 8/8/06 3:04 PM |
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LuvMy2Girls
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Re: I'm convinced I'm PG but have mixed thoughts
Posted by Shoppie
Thanks girls :)
I will probably test again the AM and report back
Ok let us know
Where are you going in Italy? I was there a couple years ago and hit several cities. I loved it!
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| Posted 8/8/06 3:36 PM |
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Shoppie
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Re: I'm convinced I'm PG but have mixed thoughts
we're flying into zurich, spending 1 or 2 days there and then its off to rome, florence and venice.
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| Posted 8/8/06 3:54 PM |
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agrech
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Re: I'm convinced I'm PG but have mixed thoughts
IMO no better place than Italy to start cravign all kinds of food.
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| Posted 8/8/06 4:29 PM |
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lolagranola
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Re: I'm convinced I'm PG but have mixed thoughts
I hope that things work out the way you want them to...
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| Posted 8/8/06 8:13 PM |
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LuvMy2Girls
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Re: I'm convinced I'm PG but have mixed thoughts
Posted by Shoppie
we're flying into zurich, spending 1 or 2 days there and then its off to rome, florence and venice.
Very nice!! We went to Lugano, Switzerland, then hit Florence, Venice, Rome, and Tuscany.
Have loads of fun! The food was sooo good everywhere we went. DH and I ate pizza and ice cream in every city. Hands down Rome had the best pizza, and a bakery in a small city on the outside of florence had the best ice cream!
I can't wait and I hope we can go back!
Message edited 8/8/2006 9:34:46 PM.
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| Posted 8/8/06 9:34 PM |
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Re: I'm convinced I'm PG but have mixed thoughts
Posted by lolagranola
I hope that things work out the way you want them to...
So do I...
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| Posted 8/8/06 11:22 PM |
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Shoppie
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Re: I'm convinced I'm PG but have mixed thoughts
Tested again yesterday at 5:00 and got a BFN. does it make a difference what time of the day to test? now I just want an answer, ANY ANSWER. this being in limbo is rediculous!
should I wait a few more days and test again? its now been 32 CD. could the d&c screwed up my cycles?
maybe I could just go to the dr and have them test. I just need answers! if i am, i just need to know.
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| Posted 8/9/06 9:03 AM |
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christy
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Re: I'm convinced I'm PG but have mixed thoughts
If you got several BFN maybe you aren't pg and your cycle is just messed up. Do you have any signs that you might be pg?
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| Posted 8/9/06 9:12 AM |
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LuvMy2Girls
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Re: I'm convinced I'm PG but have mixed thoughts
If def wouldn't hurt to call the dr and get it test just so you know for sure
Your cycle could def be off this month too.
I would do anything for that piece of mind
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| Posted 8/9/06 9:17 AM |
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Shoppie
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Re: I'm convinced I'm PG but have mixed thoughts
I've had a slight dulling headache for the past day or two.
thats about it.
waiting to hear back from doctor. will test again friday.
thanks!
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| Posted 8/9/06 11:32 AM |
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Shoppie
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Re: I'm convinced I'm PG but have mixed thoughts
doctor called back - 2 BFN's probably means I'm not PG and that my cycle may still be wacky after D&c. she recommedned waiting a week to test again if AF doens't show up. so I guess I can breathe for now 
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| Posted 8/9/06 12:15 PM |
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