I'm getting a little sad...

Everyone keeps saying to me, Oh I bet you can't wait until this PG is over... the heat must be killing you! Well, in all honesty, I'm not rushing it at all. I'm enjoying being PG. I'm sad because depending on our finances and my Endometriosis we don't know if I can have another baby. We both would like another baby... yes I said both... my DH actually said that he would love to have another baby, but doesn't see how we could afford it. He's been saying no all along to a 3rd so this was exciting for me to hear. He said I know you would love to have a little girl. I told him we don't know where we're going to be if and when another would come along, so let's not worry about that now! It was just soooooo nice to hear him say that to me! It really made me feel good! Anyway, I just wanted to say that no matter how achey, or swollen we get, try to enjoy being PG. I just love feeling my little guy. It's the best and most undescribable feeling! I'm going to miss it so much more than I did with Caiden! After Caiden I knew at some point we would have a 2nd baby. I just hope I get to experience PG one more time after this baby!

Don't get me wrong.... I can't wait to meet my little guy. There's just something about them being in your belly that's something only you get to experience by yourself, before you have to share!

Thanks for listening!

Message edited 8/10/2006 8:56:50 AM.

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I feel very much the same way you do with my pregnancy. People are always says things like "I bet you wish this was over." It took me so long to get pg with this little that I'm trying to enjoy it as much as I can. It truly is a miracle and we are so blessed that we can have healthy babies.
The flip side is I would like to have a 3rd but I too worry about money, daycare and college . My Dh reminds me every day that we're going to try right away for #3 but I'm trying to be realistic. He gets a little upset when I tell him it probably won't happen. It is so expensive.
So I'm trying to concentrate on the present and look forward to meeting our .

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I at least wish my DH would say that! At least then it would be up to me for the most part! I just hate that in order to get PG you need them, and if they're not on board with you, it's really hard to accept!

Good luck to you!

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i know how you feel....as i approach less than a month - its crazy - i feel like I am not ready too (since this is our first one!) but you don't have that at least! enjoy it and hey, if you need help painting or fixing or doing anything "off limits" you know I am your partner in crime!

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Enjoy every minute....But dont worry too much about the future. I know you were so worried about getting pg after your endo surgery and you got PG sooo fast afterwards. So I dont see any reason medically to worry about it. As far as finaces goes. Everyone struggles , and most can make it work.

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Thanks ladies!!!