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melena2007
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melena

In shock

I just found out i may be having triplets. How do i handle this.. I know its difenetly twins.. Oh my gosh just utter shock for me right now.. Some feed back ladies please....

Posted 11/8/07 3:58 PM
 
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FireIslandLove

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Re: In shock

Congratulations on your triple blessings!!! Chat Icon

Advice for pregnancy - stay off your feet and take it easy. It's a high risk pregnancy no matter how you feel.

Some days I feel like supermom and I say I can handle triplets no problem, some days I wonder how people handle only one its so hard. Regardless of how many babies you have you are going to have "those days" - get lots of help and Chat Icon for patience.

Good luck!!!!! Chat Icon

Posted 11/8/07 4:01 PM
 

Diane
Hope is Contagious....catch it

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D

Re: In shock

First off congrats!!!!!
When I found out I was having twins I was so happy, then in shock, and kept saying can I handle 2 babies at the same time. You will be bale to handle 3 at the times time. It will be very rough, but you will make it through.
If God didnt think you could handle it, he wouldnt have blessed you with these 3 miracles.
You have us for supportChat Icon

Posted 11/8/07 4:43 PM
 

Jillysmom
We made it to 8 years

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Jenn

Re: In shock

Just remember stress does not help the situation.. I was in total shock up untill I was about 20 weeks PG.. its alot to take in.. just take it easy. and relax and Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon and welcome to being a MoM

Posted 11/8/07 6:09 PM
 

IrishTracy
Believe!!

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Tracy

Re: In shock

WOW!! CONGRATULATIONS!!!Chat Icon What a blessing. Just take care of you. .

Posted 11/8/07 7:04 PM
 

melena2007
LIF Infant

Member since 10/07

236 total posts

Name:
melena

Re: In shock

Thanks ladies for the well wishes.. I have no kids now so this is what i call an instant family... wow!

Message edited 11/8/2007 7:09:15 PM.

Posted 11/8/07 7:07 PM
 

Tah-wee-ZAH
Kisses

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Re: In shock

WOW and Congrats Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

We have a close family friend who has triplets. They are now 4 years old.

It was difficult for her as she had a toddler when they were born. My MIL was one of the volunteers who went to her house in shifts and helped, actually my MIL used to spend most of the time playing with the oldest as some days she could get lost in the shuffle.

Like FireIslandLove said, it is a high risk pregnancy and I'm sure your doctor will have a separate conversation with you about what you will be allowed to do and not allowed to do or can/can't do while pg with triplets. There are also many issues like leaving work early because at some point they will tell you you have to stop working.

Does your Ob-Gyn specialize in multiples? Mine did. They are the #2 practice in the country for delivering triplets so you may have been referred to them. Actually, my doctor delivered a set of triplets while I was in the hospital recovering with my twins.

I would also join a M-O-M (mom of multiples) group. They will be very helpful with resources and tips.

If you need any help, advice, etc. I can contact my friend, mom of triplets. She was very helpful to me.

Good luck and congrats againChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/8/07 8:40 PM
 

MelissaMac
Life is Good

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Melissa

Re: In shock

Congratulations! You are so lucky to be
having triplets. You will be amazed when you see them for the first time.

There is a good book for your pregnancy. When your Expecting Triplets, Twin.. I think is by Barbara Luke.

As challenging as it is. We are so lucky and our children will always have an amazing bond/friendship.

Posted 11/8/07 9:54 PM
 

BigB
C & J are 10!

Member since 6/05

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Stacey

Re: In shock

What a wonderful surprise! Take a moment and enjoy this great news! As a NEW mom of twins being a mother to multiples is an amazing adventure!

Take care of yourself during the pregnancy! I had a friend who delivered triplets (over a year ago) Their life is hectic but they wouldn't change a thing!

Posted 11/9/07 7:09 AM
 

partyof6
b nice like u want ur kidz 2

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jeannine

Re: In shock

congrats!!!!!!!!!!
how far along are u? did u just get a beta or go for a sono yet?
don't worry! u do not get more then u can handle!

Posted 11/9/07 9:45 AM
 

melena2007
LIF Infant

Member since 10/07

236 total posts

Name:
melena

Re: In shock

thank you ladies for the kind words and advice.. It's all been a shock to me.. Getting used to this at the moment. It's still not definte with the three but defintely two..... Will keep you women posted... Chat Icon

Posted 11/9/07 11:43 AM
 

Tracey
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Tracey - brideinapril

Re: In shock

Wow!!! Congratulations on you "maybe" triple blessing!!!

That is wonderful! Like the others said you don't get more than you can handle. (although sometimes it feels like it is more than you can take!Chat Icon )

Keep us posted as we are all here for support!!!

Posted 11/9/07 2:58 PM
 

MEWF
LIF Adolescent

Member since 4/07

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M

Re: In shock

wow congrats!!!!

Posted 11/9/07 3:04 PM
 

Ali1
Mommy

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Re: In shock

WOW our first possible triplet mom! Congrats...I can't wait to hear how it goes in the next few weeks. Just remember breath in and breath out!

Posted 11/9/07 3:40 PM
 

halisa
adore

Member since 7/06

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lisa

Re: In shock

holy big news!!! how exciting!!

i agree with all the other posters, get as much rest as you can and take care of yourself. as things progress you will probably have a lot of questions and we will all be here for you!!

congratulations!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/9/07 9:28 PM
 

Michelle
My Little Yankee Fans

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Re: In shock

Congrats!!!!!

Posted 11/12/07 10:43 AM
 
 

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