interesting notion

I was having drinks with one of my friends this weekend and she asked me if I thought it was possible to love two people. She's engaged and completetly in love with her FH but she still has very strong feelings for her ex. They never had any big falling out or anything, it was more a timing kind of thing. She's completely looking ofrward to her wedding and her new life with her FH, but she still has these other feelings. I told her that I think it's ok so long as she doesn't want to act on it, but I'm curious what you girls think.

Re: interesting notion

I think you can be IN love with one of them and LOVE another. If you are IN love with 2 people, I dont think either of the relationships will wind up working out.

When I was a teenager, I was in love with 2 guys. Really and truly IN LOVE with both of them. Suffice it to say, I didnt wind up with either of them. Today, I am totally in love with my husband but I will always love my ex. We had such a connection and wound up being best friends but that is a complete difference imo.

Re: interesting notion

JMO if she has feelings for someone then she shouldn't be making wedding plans with someone else until she works out what her feelings are. It's always easier to call off a wedding before it happens rather than afterwards.

Message edited 1/30/2006 2:21:16 PM.