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Is this in bad taste...

Early in the year I took Noah to see a cranial osteopath, and even though I thought it helped with his head and his coliciness, the guy was just a total A-Hole and I didn't like him at all. For instance, I asked him exactly what it was that he was doing and he said, well it takes 7 years of school for you to understand. I thought...what a twat, but went back another time. So I paid him on the day, but got letters from his office saying that I hadn't paid (I transferred the money right into his account) So I was at the indoor playground the other day and he was there, he came over to chat with me and said "I don't want to embarass you, but you still haven't paid me yet" so I said, umm, I did on the day etc etc.....when he left, again I thought...TWAT. So I checked my statements from April and saw it clearly that I paid him...

So my question is this, I think it was in really bad taste to ask me for money in a social situation. I think he should have done something like called me the folllowing day on the phone to ask me for the money...so I sent him an email today and said that I paid him on the day, but I think that I should send him another email to tell him that is was inappropriate to mention it to me in a social situation etc...I don't want to be a sucker for not saying anything.

What would you mommies do?
Huh what would you do?????

Posted 10/22/06 7:37 AM

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I think it was totally rude of him to bring it up at a social setting and you should forward him a copy of the statement you have (with all your other info blocked out) stating that he was paid .... along with a letter saying something like "if there is ever a discrepancy again kindly contact me via phone rather then bringing it up at a PLAYGROUND!"

Posted 10/22/06 7:39 AM

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Very Very Very (did I stress the very enough) unprifessional!

You did the right thing by e-mailing his. You could also attach some kind of proof from your bank that you did pay him. What an Azzzzzz wipe!

Posted 10/22/06 7:47 AM

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That's horrible. Does he have a supervisor you could write a letter to and let them know about his attitude?

Posted 10/22/06 8:10 AM

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Posted by Melbernai

I think it was totally rude of him to bring it up at a social setting and you should forward him a copy of the statement you have (with all your other info blocked out) stating that he was paid .... along with a letter saying something like "if there is ever a discrepancy again kindly contact me via phone rather then bringing it up at a PLAYGROUND!"

I would do this too. Absolutely rude. To use your term, he's a total wanker.

Posted 10/22/06 8:16 AM

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Completly Agree! What a jerk for approaching you like that! Def. send him a copy of your statement! Uggghhh - Men! Chat Icon

Posted 10/22/06 8:35 AM

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What a jerk!

Posted 10/22/06 9:56 AM

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Posted by Melbernai

I think it was totally rude of him to bring it up at a social setting and you should forward him a copy of the statement you have (with all your other info blocked out) stating that he was paid .... along with a letter saying something like "if there is ever a discrepancy again kindly contact me via phone rather then bringing it up at a PLAYGROUND!"

I would do this too. Absolutely rude. To use your term, he's a total wanker.

I totally agree! i would absolutely say something!!!!

Posted 10/22/06 9:59 AM

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Posted by Melbernai

I think it was totally rude of him to bring it up at a social setting and you should forward him a copy of the statement you have (with all your other info blocked out) stating that he was paid .... along with a letter saying something like "if there is ever a discrepancy again kindly contact me via phone rather then bringing it up at a PLAYGROUND!"

I would do this too. Absolutely rude. To use your term, he's a total wanker.

I totally agree! i would absolutely say something!!!!

DEFINITE WANKER!!!!!!

Posted 10/22/06 10:03 AM

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What a complete & total eejit. I would mention this to the other Mommies as well. That way they can find a more proffesional person look at there children.

Posted 10/22/06 10:13 AM

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