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Redhead
You Live, You Learn
Member since 5/05 31871 total posts
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Jennifer
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Judgement
i know we are all judgemental in our own way
but how judgemental are you of your friends?
DO you think that you are harder on them than the average person (because you expect more) or are you more lenient with them (because you know them better than the average stranger)?
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Posted 11/15/06 6:29 PM  |
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karacg
Babygirl is 4!
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Kara®
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Re: Judgement
I don't think so much with my friends bu moreso with family members.
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| Posted 11/15/06 6:32 PM |
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Redhead
You Live, You Learn
Member since 5/05 31871 total posts
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Jennifer
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Re: Judgement
Posted by karacg
I don't think so much with my friends bu moreso with family members.
I agree...i def think i am most judgemental with my family
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| Posted 11/15/06 6:33 PM |
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Tany
Becoming a different woman
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Tania
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Re: Judgement
i try to really not be judgemental, although my family is extremely judgemental and it irks me so much.
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| Posted 11/15/06 6:34 PM |
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Jessica
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~Jess~
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Re: Judgement
I am not judgemental with my family(cousins, etc..). I just see them all as crazy. I LOVE THEM but I am the black sheep bc im independant, am not a crazy gf who checks her bfs email, voicemail, etc....
With my friends, yes I am. And that is why i dont have many. I dont mind having different lifestlyes but I do want to be around the people who share many of my values.
Message edited 11/15/2006 6:41:07 PM.
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| Posted 11/15/06 6:37 PM |
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luvsbob4603
To a healthy 2013
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Re: Judgement
I think I am more Judgemental on myself than My friends and family.But I will admit Sometimes I can be More Judgemental with MY family like My mom because I feel like she is that way with me.
Message edited 11/15/2006 6:46:34 PM.
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| Posted 11/15/06 6:44 PM |
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july06bride
I'm a mom!
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Nicole
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Re: Judgement
not as much with friends, but absolutely am with family...
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| Posted 11/15/06 7:54 PM |
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BikerGrl
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It's not the destination....it's the journey!
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Re: Judgement
I demand more of people I truly care about.....if I think they are not doing the right thing I speak my mind.....and in the end...those that are TRUE friends can take the critisism.....and we work it out.
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| Posted 11/15/06 8:22 PM |
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LittleBlueBug
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Re: Judgement
I try not to be judgemental...although it is hard. But I know what it's like to be judged, and no one's perfect, so I try my best not to be that way...especially to friends. I tend to be more judgemental of family because I do have higher expectations.
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| Posted 11/15/06 8:24 PM |
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nrthshgrl
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Re: Judgement
I think it depends on the what's going on in their lives. If I had to pick one, I'd say I'm harder on them because I expect more - but I'm definitely on the low maintenance end. I don't need to have my friends call me every day - or even every week for that matter. I know they're my friends, they know I'm theirs. We call/email when we can to catch up.
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| Posted 11/15/06 8:27 PM |
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dm24angel
Happiness
Member since 5/05 34581 total posts
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Donna
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Re: Judgement
I think Im more lenient with friends...tend to let them get away with stuff I wouldnt of others.....
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| Posted 11/15/06 9:10 PM |
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curliegirl
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Gina
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Re: Judgement
I am very judgemental, if not borderline snobbish, especially when it comes to my friends. I think because I think I know whats best for them....
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| Posted 11/15/06 9:12 PM |
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