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Just one reason why it's disrespectful to post here if you are not CF
Some of us here don't have children despite years of embrassing and expensive fertility treatments. So, if you are expecting or are a parent that has a sonogram or child's pic as your avatar, it can be extremely sad and hurtful to some. So when you say you post respectfully, you actually aren't, even if your words are.
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Posted 7/6/09 10:59 AM  |
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SweetestOfPeas
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Re: Just one reason why it's disrespectful to post here if you are not CF
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| Posted 7/6/09 11:01 AM |
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MetsGirl07
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Re: Just one reason why it's disrespectful to post here if you are not CF
couldn't agree more!!
you are a 100% right.. and it does hurt alot.. 
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| Posted 7/6/09 11:30 AM |
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anonttcer
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Re: Just one reason why it's disrespectful to post here if you are not CF
Very true.
Not to mention when somebody comes on spewing about how selfless it is to have a child... I can't imagine that feels good to someone who has tried, and sacraficed, and been as selfless as possible trying to have a child- but couldn't through no fault of their own!
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| Posted 7/6/09 12:07 PM |
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BunnyWife
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Re: Just one reason why it's disrespectful to post here if you are not CF
I completely agree. We are all here for different reasons. Either it's not our time for kids, we don't plan on having them or fertility issues have put us in this position. Please be respectful of everyones reasons for posting on this board
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| Posted 7/6/09 12:25 PM |
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ihilani
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Re: Just one reason why it's disrespectful to post here if you are not CF
ITA.
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| Posted 7/6/09 12:35 PM |
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IrishLasss334
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Re: Just one reason why it's disrespectful to post here if you are not CF
I'm in total agreement.
I need a thumb's up Icon.
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| Posted 7/6/09 12:51 PM |
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deedee1013
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Re: Just one reason why it's disrespectful to post here if you are not CF
Posted by BaseballWidow
Some of us here don't have children despite years of embrassing and expensive fertility treatments. So, if you are expecting or are a parent that has a sonogram or child's pic as your avatar, it can be extremely sad and hurtful to some. So when you say you post respectfully, you actually aren't, even if your words are.
And some people met their DH late in life and cannot have any biological children.....
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| Posted 7/6/09 3:04 PM |
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Kara
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Re: Just one reason why it's disrespectful to post here if you are not CF
Posted by BunnyWife
I completely agree. We are all here for different reasons. Either it's not our time for kids, we don't plan on having them or fertility issues have put us in this position. Please be respectful of everyones reasons for posting on this board
Well said.
And to those struggling with IF issues.
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| Posted 7/6/09 3:18 PM |
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luvsbob4603
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Re: Just one reason why it's disrespectful to post here if you are not CF
I 110% agree, I cant have children because of medical reason, I'm on a medicine that wouldn't be safe to have babies and i cant get off of it ever plus i got married late in life and Dh and I decided not to have any babies also. It hurts that i cant have them but as long as i have my dh i'm happy.
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| Posted 7/6/09 5:23 PM |
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Nifheim
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Re: Just one reason why it's disrespectful to post here if you are not CF
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| Posted 7/6/09 5:38 PM |
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MrsM-6-7-08
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Re: Just one reason why it's disrespectful to post here if you are not CF
As well as it being disrepectful, its highly annoying, its like people with kids just can't butt out, and let everyone without have a conversation amongst themselves.
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| Posted 7/6/09 10:24 PM |
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LINewbie
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Re: Just one reason why it's disrespectful to post here if you are not CF
Oh wow.. that is not even something I would have thought about!
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| Posted 7/7/09 11:01 PM |
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