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Just wanted to give you all...
lots of  .
I was reading the "how long has everyone been trying" thread, and it seems like there are many of you who have had not an easy time of it.
I have a feeling that within the next couple of months we'll have some big announcements, but in the mean time
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MrsERod
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Re: Just wanted to give you all...
Stacy, as always, you're so thoughtfull of others!
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| Posted 8/14/05 9:40 AM |
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Marcie
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Thank you for thinking of us!
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| Posted 8/14/05 10:09 AM |
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Diane
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Thanks, it means a lot
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| Posted 8/14/05 10:20 AM |
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MrsERod
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Re: Just wanted to give you all...
WOW! 180+ views since this thread was posted, and ONLY 2 say thank you? (marcie & diane. )
 
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| Posted 8/15/05 8:03 PM |
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dm24angel
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Re: Just wanted to give you all...
Thanks Stace
It takes a nice person to post this here, and its appreciated.
I would have said it sooner, but as you can see by my posts, I have been having a hard time of it lately, and sometimes the Im thinking of you threads make me wish someone didnt have to give me hugs and stuff. So I hope that no-one ever thinks the lack of thanks..like Christina so sweetly pointed out...was questionably...we all are grateful people care so much. Its actually that some of us, the ones who are TTC and dealing with the emotions of it, may have a hard time with thank yous.
I sometimes feel these threads fill me with pity on myself, although I know thats not true.
I thank you again for taking the time to think of others...I just wish I wasnt responding to a post on why I didnt thank you sooner. The sincerity was always there, I just didnt want to vocalize it, until I felt pressured to by someone who will never understand how very much your words and thoughts mean to us.
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| Posted 8/15/05 8:16 PM |
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Re: Just wanted to give you all...
I thank you as well. I havent been trying that long, but I do give a lot of ladies on here a lot of credit! They are strong and I  we get a lot of BFP's within the next few months.  
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| Posted 8/15/05 8:20 PM |
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MrsERod
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Re: Just wanted to give you all...
Posted by dm24angel
..like Christina so sweetly pointed out...
your welcome. 
Posted by dm24angel
until I felt pressured to by someone who will never understand how very much your words and thoughts mean to us.
Stacy knows EXACTLY how much her words and her friendship mean to me, and i've already told her so. 
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dm24angel
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Re: Just wanted to give you all...
Posted by MrsERod
Posted by dm24angel
..like Christina so sweetly pointed out...
your welcome.
Posted by dm24angel
until I felt pressured to by someone who will never understand how very much your words and thoughts mean to us.
Stacy knows EXACTLY how much her words and her friendship mean to me, and i've already told her so.
I meant, and not to fight with you, because its transparent thats what you would like...to someone who is struggling to TTC...an issue at this time in your life you are not facing. So you cannot ever begin to understand today how I feel nor others on here struggling with a heartache thats so huge that we cannot say a simple thank you for fear of the emotions that come with it....So While just like Stace, if you had said any kind words I would thank you, but I cannot understand why you are stirring the pot and rather then have the boards disrupted again, because I presonally have more on my plate then LIF squabbles ...I will leave it at that.
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| Posted 8/15/05 8:24 PM |
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leighla
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Re: Just wanted to give you all...
Once again a nice thread turns ugly...
Thank you Stacy.
I do appreciate your thoughts and well wishes. Don't believe I saw this post earlier until it was bumped to the top, once I saw it I did think it was very sweet of you.
Now I feel like it looks like I'm only saying "thanks" because I'm being bullied into it, which is unfortunate and incorrect, so please take it as sincere.
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| Posted 8/15/05 8:26 PM |
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MrsERod
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Re: Just wanted to give you all...
Posted by dm24angel
I meant, and not to fight with you, because its transparent thats what you would like...to someone who is struggling to TTC...an issue at this time in your life you are not facing. So you cannot ever begin to understand today how I feel nor others on here struggling with a heartache thats so huge that we cannot say a simple thank you for fear of the emotions that come with it....So While just like Stace, if you had said any kind words I would thank you, but I cannot understand why you are stirring the pot and rather then have the boards disrupted again, because I presonally have more on my plate then LIF squabbles ...I will leave it at that.
how do you know what struggles i'm going thru or not going thru? or assume that i can't even begin to understand how difficult ttc is??? just b/c i don't share personal issues on this site, doesn't mean i've gone thru, or already gone thru them myself. i really wondered how such a positive post, clearly in support of you guys, went unresponded to..thats all. i've always said that to keep a positive outlook on things is always the key. why wallow in misery, when you can smile at positive vibes? that's my point. think postive, and things just may turn around. and i have posted kind words on this board before, to many ttc'ers, and have always gotten a good response.
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| Posted 8/15/05 8:32 PM |
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Gertyrae
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Stacy -
I just wanted to thank you for the hugs and prayers. I haven't been on here so much the last few days cuz I am trying not to focus on TTC so much, it's getting too depressing. But I saw your post and wanted to thank you and I hope you realize that we aren't thanking you now as an afterthought. We really do appreciate your kind thoughts and I don't think that anyone who hasn't thanked you personally did it on purpose.
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| Posted 8/15/05 8:36 PM |
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dm24angel
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Re: Just wanted to give you all...
Posted by MrsERod
Posted by dm24angel
I meant, and not to fight with you, because its transparent thats what you would like...to someone who is struggling to TTC...an issue at this time in your life you are not facing. So you cannot ever begin to understand today how I feel nor others on here struggling with a heartache thats so huge that we cannot say a simple thank you for fear of the emotions that come with it....So While just like Stace, if you had said any kind words I would thank you, but I cannot understand why you are stirring the pot and rather then have the boards disrupted again, because I presonally have more on my plate then LIF squabbles ...I will leave it at that.
how do you know what struggles i'm going thru or not going thru? or assume that i can't even begin to understand how difficult ttc is??? just b/c i don't share personal issues on this site, doesn't mean i've gone thru, or already gone thru them myself. i really wondered how such a positive post, clearly in support of you guys, went unresponded to..thats all. i've always said that to keep a positive outlook on things is always the key. why wallow in misery, when you can smile at positive vibes? that's my point. think postive, and things just may turn around. and i have posted kind words on this board before, to many ttc'ers, and have always gotten a good response.
you have children no?? You have not by your own words struggled with this...you have told much of your life , and I have listened..
It is not for you to tell anyone to not wallow in misery...that is a very ignorant and hurtful thing to say. I do not think that your being supportive right now, so I expressed my concern at your rude post. Positive thinking cannot take away the fact that I have had cancer and can no longer concieve naturally now can it? Therefore I do not wish to think positively any longer and do not want it thrown in my face which is what you are doing. Supportive posts unfortunatly take a back door to the threads about procedures and tests....again, soemthing you dont understand, so please dont try to. If you have some positive thoughts, send them our way, it will be much more appreciated then things such as this....
Now look, I didnt ignore you as I had tried, and staceys post was just lessened tremendously , as was my capacity for understanding people who are so careless with their words as to risk hurting even one person carelessly.
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MrsERod
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Re: Just wanted to give you all...
Posted by dm24angel
you have children no?? You have not by your own words struggled with this...you have told much of your life , and I have listened..
It is not for you to tell anyone to not wallow in misery...that is a very ignorant and hurtful thing to say. I do not think that your being supportive right now, so I expressed my concern at your rude post. Positive thinking cannot take away the fact that I have had cancer and can no longer concieve naturally now can it? Therefore I do not wish to think positively any longer and do not want it thrown in my face which is what you are doing. Supportive posts unfortunatly take a back door to the threads about procedures and tests....again, soemthing you dont understand, so please dont try to. If you have some positive thoughts, send them our way, it will be much more appreciated then things such as this....
Now look, I didnt ignore you as I had tried, and staceys post was just lessened tremendously , as was my capacity for understanding people who are so careless with their words as to risk hurting even one person carelessly.
yes i have children. and i'm damn grateful for them. i'm not about to feel guilty for that.
did i have trouble ttc? YES! did i go thru tests, such as many of you have? YES! have i gone thru cancer? NO! BUT i have had surgery to remove a lump the dr's thought was cancer! I was very lucky, but went thru he11 not knowing what the outcome would be. thru it all, I remained positive. was it hard as he11? YES!!, but what doesn't kill you, only makes you stronger, no?
if you took my words, as being thrown in your face, then for that i apologize. but what i will not apologize for is saying one should think positive, and not wallow in misery. I wasn't telling YOU this directly, just making a point, or at least trying to. the fact that you do not wish to think positively any longer, is sad, and i hope that one day you realize, that after all is said and done, HOPE is all ANY of us have. we don't have control over everything in our lives, but what WE DO have control over is our outlook on life. sorry if i've offended anyone, that was not my intention, it just kills me that anyone, not just everyone here on ttc, but anyone in life, can look upon life without hope for things better.
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Posted by leighla
Once again a nice thread turns ugly...
Thank you Stacy.
I do appreciate your thoughts and well wishes. Don't believe I saw this post earlier until it was bumped to the top, once I saw it I did think it was very sweet of you.
Now I feel like it looks like I'm only saying "thanks" because I'm being bullied into it, which is unfortunate and incorrect, so please take it as sincere.
Lauren,
I couldn't have said it better.
Stacy, You know that all of your good thoughts and well wishes are GREATLY appreciated (since we have 'talked' a nuber of times).
I was away for the weekend and only online briefly this morning before my doctors appointment.
Thank you for thinking of us all, it's really sweet of you. It helps boost moral on these boards more than you know!
Kathy
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OK, well I didn't mean to cause any controversy, but it looks like I was correct in my prediction for big announcements!!
Woooohoooooo Deb!!!!!!!!!!!
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| Posted 8/22/05 1:56 PM |
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Marcie
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Thank you for thinking of us! Hopefully we have a couple more announcements!
Baby Dust to us all!!
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| Posted 8/22/05 2:01 PM |
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Re: Just wanted to give you all...
Posted by Scotty-CassidysMom
lots of .
I was reading the "how long has everyone been trying" thread, and it seems like there are many of you who have had not an easy time of it.
I have a feeling that within the next couple of months we'll have some big announcements, but in the mean time
Thank you --- I was hoping to answer this with a BFP after the weekend but....
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