Kate has been trying to get in touch with Owen and is distraught that the family doesn’t want her anywhere near him,” says a pal. “She is very frustrated.” Hudson and Wilson began an on-and-off romance after shooting “You, Me and Dupree.” The relationship fizzled despite several attempts, including a visit by Wilson to Hudson’s secluded Australian film set this year.

Wilson, who was hospitalized in Los Angeles after a drug overdose and suicide attempt, has since been battling depression. And some think hearing from his ex wouldn’t help. The insider added: “[Owen’s family members] don’t think Kate is good for him.”