kind of spinoff related to the other board and parenting

I see so many people on childless families board making comments like : this is our board and you can't(shouldn't ) post here or you wouldn't understand....
Where was it written that just bc you are married and a parent you can ONLY go and post on the parenting board and maybe relationship board,lol, OH and NFR board????????
I am a parent and I visit parenting board . But I also visit NFR, relationship, Storyboard, Pregnancy, celebrities, Fashion, FHF and son and so on, basically EVERY SINGLE BOARD ON LIF. Not only I visit/LURK but I post, express my opinion and give advice.

Is it a LIF law that you can't post on certain boards
This is a public forum after all

Message edited 3/20/2009 12:12:48 AM.

Re: kind of spinoff related to the other board and parenting

I think anyone can post ANYWHERE - but it's wise not to get offended if you get the "fury"... it doesn't bother me one iota if someone says "you don't belong on this board blahblahblah" - it's usually a moronic retort when the poster can't answer a question or can't think of something original/enlightening to say.

Message edited 3/20/2009 12:44:57 AM.

Re: kind of spinoff related to the other board and parenting

I don't know. I have no reason to look at that board and I don't see why others are. It's not like I'd look at a board about Chevys if I drove a Ford. Yes, back when I was 23 and getting married through 25 when I surprisingly got pregnant I fear children. At 25 my first born was the baby under 6 months old that I had ever held in my life. It was love at first sight but I didn't know that before and harbor no ill will to anyone who doesn't. Especially after going through secondary If. After my first I was able to see the other side of IF to a point but I already did have one child so my recurrent m/c hurt me to the core but I always had my son to look back on. I had the ability at one time.
So just like how people on parenting already in most cases have a child its very hard to remember life before one.
Someone always has it worse then you and someone always has it better and sometimes it flip flops.
But who knows maybe it is different for me because Dh and I have always been more "marriage centered" then "child centered" so maybe I can relate a bit better to a couple who is childfree.

Message edited 3/20/2009 12:22:57 AM.