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shellybean
Love my Baby Boy!
Member since 4/07 5191 total posts
Name: mich
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Kinda Upset
So I am very early preg but people at work knwo i had an ectopic a few months ago, and now i have been leaving for dr, bloodwk, etc...so i told some people...figuring if somehting goes wrong they will find out anyway....and a few people reactions were "Oh, Wow, I wont be happy for you YET"....is it me or is that really rude, I am trying to be positive but with all the negativity its hard....
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Posted 4/24/07 8:46 AM |
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Kissy331
My two miracles!
Member since 5/06 17826 total posts
Name: Kristen
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Re: Kinda Upset
I think that is a rude thing for someone to come out & say. I can understand someone's thinking that especially since they know what you have been through. Try to look beyond that though & be happy for yourself!
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Posted 4/24/07 8:56 AM |
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DancinBarefoot
06ers Rock!!
Member since 1/07 9534 total posts
Name: The One My Mother Gave Me ;-)
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Re: Kinda Upset
It is very rude, but some people just suffer from the open mouth insert foot syndrome and there is nothing the rest of us can do to help them.
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Posted 4/24/07 8:57 AM |
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lululu
LIF Adult
Member since 7/05 9511 total posts
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Re: Kinda Upset
People are so insensitive.......
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Posted 4/24/07 9:02 AM |
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MrsPornStar
Partners in crime
Member since 10/05 14656 total posts
Name: Mama
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Re: Kinda Upset
It is rude but try not to let it get to you.
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Posted 4/24/07 9:08 AM |
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shellybean
Love my Baby Boy!
Member since 4/07 5191 total posts
Name: mich
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Re: Kinda Upset
I know people are thinking it, and so am I, but i would NEVER say that!
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Posted 4/24/07 9:12 AM |
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hopin4baby
LIF Adolescent
Member since 4/07 759 total posts
Name: Allison
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Re: Kinda Upset
yes that was rude!! sometimes people just don't think before speaking!
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Posted 4/24/07 9:25 AM |
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julybride0706
LIF Adult
Member since 3/07 1376 total posts
Name: kaitlyn
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Re: Kinda Upset
some people just don't know how to be happy for others.
you should have said, " gee, thanks for the encouragment".
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Posted 4/24/07 9:51 AM |
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BellaRock
I am all the Me I will ever Be
Member since 5/06 9746 total posts
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Re: Kinda Upset
That is very rude. Some people just talk without every thinking about the other persons feelings in the convo.
Try not to let it get to you. What's most important is you and your health right now.
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Posted 4/24/07 9:53 AM |
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secretly-ttc
LIF Infant
Member since 1/07 121 total posts
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Re: Kinda Upset
That was very rude. Sorry they said that to you.
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Posted 4/24/07 9:56 AM |
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shellybean
Love my Baby Boy!
Member since 4/07 5191 total posts
Name: mich
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Re: Kinda Upset
thanks ladies
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Posted 4/24/07 10:09 AM |
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