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Kinda Upset

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shellybean
Love my Baby Boy!

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Kinda Upset

So I am very early preg but people at work knwo i had an ectopic a few months ago, and now i have been leaving for dr, bloodwk, etc...so i told some people...figuring if somehting goes wrong they will find out anyway....and a few people reactions were "Oh, Wow, I wont be happy for you YET"....is it me or is that really rude, I am trying to be positive but with all the negativity its hard....

Posted 4/24/07 8:46 AM
 
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Kissy331
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Re: Kinda Upset

I think that is a rude thing for someone to come out & say. I can understand someone's thinking that especially since they know what you have been through. Try to look beyond that though & be happy for yourself!

Posted 4/24/07 8:56 AM
 

DancinBarefoot
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Re: Kinda Upset

It is very rude, but some people just suffer from the open mouth insert foot syndrome and there is nothing the rest of us can do to help them.

Posted 4/24/07 8:57 AM
 

lululu
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Re: Kinda Upset

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People are so insensitive.......

Posted 4/24/07 9:02 AM
 

MrsPornStar
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Re: Kinda Upset

It is rude but try not to let it get to you. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/24/07 9:08 AM
 

shellybean
Love my Baby Boy!

Member since 4/07

5191 total posts

Name:
mich

Re: Kinda Upset

I know people are thinking it, and so am I, but i would NEVER say that!

Posted 4/24/07 9:12 AM
 

hopin4baby
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Name:
Allison

Re: Kinda Upset

yes that was rude!! sometimes people just don't think before speaking!

Posted 4/24/07 9:25 AM
 

julybride0706
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Member since 3/07

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Name:
kaitlyn

Re: Kinda Upset

some people just don't know how to be happy for others.

you should have said, " gee, thanks for the encouragment".

Posted 4/24/07 9:51 AM
 

BellaRock
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She who shall remain nameless

Re: Kinda Upset

That is very rude. Some people just talk without every thinking about the other persons feelings in the convo.

Try not to let it get to you. What's most important is you and your health right now. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/24/07 9:53 AM
 

secretly-ttc
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Re: Kinda Upset

That was very rude. Sorry they said that to you. Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/24/07 9:56 AM
 

shellybean
Love my Baby Boy!

Member since 4/07

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Name:
mich

Re: Kinda Upset

thanks ladies

Posted 4/24/07 10:09 AM
 
 

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