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Sandra
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L O S T

our adoption paperwork we sent on Saturday is lost in the mail, somewhere between Medford and Mineola! I just can't believe this, and no one has an answer for me--i am upset...i did all the photocopying on Saturday, organized all the photos and mailed it in this really pretty envelope, label, and alllll that paperwork and it now LOST....

I don't want to take this as a bad sign. Is it? I hope not! I hope this is not what is to come.

Susan, make sure you certifiy, return receipt requested, do everything or fed ex it...

Posted 11/9/05 3:52 PM
 
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Susan
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Re: L O S T

I was just on my way to the post office. I'm happy I checked LIF in my normally obsessive way before I went. I will definitely certify it. Thankfully you have photocopies of everything so you don't have to re-do it. imagine?? Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Definitely don't take it as a sign. Have you contacted the post office? I personally think it's taking a longer time than usual. What day did you mail it again? Usually when things get 'lost' they wind up getting 'found' but just take longer to get to their destination. Good luck; I'm so sorry this happened to you. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/9/05 3:59 PM
 

Sandra
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Sandra

Re: L O S T

i mailed it on saturday and i am thinking allllll those photos!!!!!! the wedding photos....

thank you----watch-- yours will get there before mine will.....


I told Scott that if it does not appear by tomorrow I won't want to go away b/c I am going to want to see WHERE it appears, and Friday there is NO mail!!!!! I'll just photo copy it and drive it there on Friday!

I am getting upset....Chat Icon

Posted 11/9/05 4:03 PM
 

Susan
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Re: L O S T

It probably just hasn't arrived yet. What time on Saturday did you mail it? If it was after 5pm (or whenever last p/u was), it wouldn't have gone anywhere until Monday, and then you should give it at least three days to get there. I'll bet you they get it tomorrow. I would try not to obsess over it. I know, easier said than done. Go away and try to relax. In the grand scheme of this long process, two days is not going to make a difference in when you get your baby. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/9/05 4:15 PM
 

Susan
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Do you have copies of the pictures you sent? You're lucky you got married recently so there's your formal shots. Joe & I had the hardest time collecting recent pictures.

Posted 11/9/05 4:17 PM
 

Sandra
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Sandra

Re: L O S T

I was at the post office at 10a.m.

geezers!

we'll see what tomorrow brings!

Posted 11/9/05 4:31 PM
 

KarenK122
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Re: L O S T

That is awful!! I hope you find it.

That was one of my biggest fears throughout the whole process, someone losing my information. I literally hand delivered every single piece of information that needed to be handed in. I did not let it lose my sight until I sent the final package to the China office and that went priority fed ex and I was tracking that package like crazy.

I'm glad you had copies of everything!

Posted 11/9/05 5:43 PM
 

Susan
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You guys got me so nervous I wound up not going to the post office. I still have my envelope stamped and addressed sitting on my counter. I think I will fed-ex or hand-deliver instead. For some reason, the thought of going there in person makes me nervous. Why I don't know.

Good luck, Sandra. I wish this process was going smoother for you. Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/9/05 5:48 PM
 

michele31
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Re: L O S T

I hope your paperwork is found soon!! How upsetting.

Posted 11/9/05 11:03 PM
 

KarenK122
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Re: L O S T

Posted by Susan

You guys got me so nervous I wound up not going to the post office. I still have my envelope stamped and addressed sitting on my counter. I think I will fed-ex or hand-deliver instead. For some reason, the thought of going there in person makes me nervous. Why I don't know.

Good luck, Sandra. I wish this process was going smoother for you. Chat Icon Chat Icon



Definately don't be nervous! From my experience with my agency, I'm so glad that I stopped by to drop things off. They get to know you and help you out with a ton of different things that pop up during your paperchase. When it was getting down to the end, I was calling a few times a day, every day as well as stopping by on my way home from work. They probably thought I was a PITA but it made me feel alot more calmer

Chat Icon and hey, that's what we're paying them for! Chat Icon

Posted 11/9/05 11:49 PM
 

Sandra
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Sandra

Re: L O S T

Well, I have off tomorrow from work, and I'll make copies of all my copies, and drive there if it is not received today. But then the photos will take a while to gather again, and make more copies of them. This is one reason why I wanted a local agency, so things would be able to be delievered to them if necessary.

Well, I'll keep you posted!


Thank you!

Posted 11/10/05 8:51 AM
 

FranM
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Oh Sandra Im so sorry your stressed. Im sure its just late. Luckily you made copies of everything. We worked with a local agency and droped everything off in person. Once you start working with the INS paperwork and original documents are required you may want to consider that. We needed certified copies of birth & marriage certs as well as police clearance etc etc. I requested two originals/certified copies of everything just in case something was misplaced along the way -(and to get a jump start on paperwork for #2)Chat Icon

Posted 11/10/05 9:02 AM
 

Sandra
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Sandra

Re: L O S T

As an update for today, thursday, they did not receive it in today's mail.....

bizarre!

Posted 11/10/05 11:32 AM
 

Susan
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I'm so sorry, Sandra. Chat Icon That's really discouraging, depressing, and frustrating. I sent mine via certified today. Maybe you should resend the photocopies today. Chat Icon

Try to enjoy yourself this weekend. I really hope they find it soon.

Posted 11/10/05 9:24 PM
 

Susan
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Susan

Re: L O S T

Posted by KarenK122

Posted by Susan

You guys got me so nervous I wound up not going to the post office. I still have my envelope stamped and addressed sitting on my counter. I think I will fed-ex or hand-deliver instead. For some reason, the thought of going there in person makes me nervous. Why I don't know.

Good luck, Sandra. I wish this process was going smoother for you. Chat Icon Chat Icon



Definately don't be nervous! From my experience with my agency, I'm so glad that I stopped by to drop things off. They get to know you and help you out with a ton of different things that pop up during your paperchase. When it was getting down to the end, I was calling a few times a day, every day as well as stopping by on my way home from work. They probably thought I was a PITA but it made me feel alot more calmer

Chat Icon and hey, that's what we're paying them for! Chat Icon



True, and I am curious to see the place and actually meet the people. I haven't even talked to anyone there. I only email them.

Posted 11/10/05 9:25 PM
 
 
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