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CowgirlChick97
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Brianna
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Ladies...Question about dress
Message edited 5/26/2007 10:24:54 AM.
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Posted 2/22/06 6:17 PM  |
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Marcie
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Re: Ladies...
Honestly I would give her the option.
She could be uncomfortable and she might not be.
I would leave it up to her. Tell her that you are not asking her to back out, but you didn't want her to be on the spot since she had already made a commitment to you.
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| Posted 2/22/06 6:22 PM |
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BaroqueMama
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Re: Ladies...
Personally, no, I would not be in a wedding at that point. However, I wouldn't mention anything to her unless she says something to you. You never know what her perspective is and I'm sure you wouldn't want to hurt her feelings.
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| Posted 2/22/06 6:22 PM |
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Shelly
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Re: Ladies...
I would tell her that you completely want her in your wedding, but if she is uncomfortable or having doubts- you totally understand and won't take it personally. But I would leave it up to her.
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| Posted 2/22/06 6:37 PM |
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Re: Ladies...
I think its her call, and I wouldn't imply that you want her to back out (which is how I interpreted your post).
I probably would try my best to be in my sisters wedding, but it would all depend on how the pregnancy goes.
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| Posted 2/22/06 6:50 PM |
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dm24angel
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Re: Ladies...
I would give her the option so she knows its ok. If that were me, I would probably want to back out.
Its nice you thought of her.
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| Posted 2/22/06 6:57 PM |
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LuvMy2Girls
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Re: Ladies...
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Message edited 9/29/2007 9:17:39 PM.
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| Posted 2/22/06 7:30 PM |
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MrsJ
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Kathy
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Re: Ladies...
I personally wouldnt want to be in a wedding 4 wks before my due date. Give her the option of backing out and tell her you're totally OK with it and I want to do what she thinks is best for her.
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| Posted 2/22/06 8:31 PM |
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Kate07
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Re: Ladies...
If you asked her to be in the wedding I wouldn't reneg on the offer. I would just kindly say "We don't want you to feel obligated...."
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nrthshgrl
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Re: Ladies...
I opted out of my bf's wedding because I knew I'd be 7month pregnant there. I was willing to do it if she really wanted me to do it, but i wasn't crazy about being in a bm's dress in August at the Cape.
I did do a reading of an excerpt of the Velveteen Rabbit which I guess was appropriate.
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| Posted 2/22/06 8:50 PM |
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05mommy09
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Re: Ladies...
I would give her the option.... BUT if I was her... I would decline...
Again- let her make the decision though!
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| Posted 2/22/06 9:05 PM |
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jessbaby
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Re: Ladies...
I'm going to be 8 months pregnant in my brothers wedding in August and it doesn't bother them at all. I would leave it up to her.
Message edited 2/22/2006 10:05:15 PM.
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| Posted 2/22/06 10:05 PM |
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CowgirlChick97
Nike. Just do it.
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Re: Ladies...
Message edited 5/26/2007 10:25:04 AM.
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| Posted 2/22/06 10:27 PM |
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monkeybride
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Re: Ladies...
I wouldn't bring it up unless she does because she might take it that you don't want her to be in the wedding.
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| Posted 2/22/06 10:30 PM |
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CunningOne
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Re: Ladies...
Posted by monkeybride
I wouldn't bring it up unless she does because she might take it that you don't want her to be in the wedding.
I was thinking the same thing. She may feel obligated to be in it though and not want to say anything so its a tough call. If she brings it up, then is your chance to let her know how you feel.
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| Posted 2/22/06 11:09 PM |
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pharmcat2000
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Re: Ladies...
If you've already asked her to be in it, you can't really now ask her to drop out, but you can certainly give her that as an option. One of my bridesmaids was due 6 weeks after my wedding, and I gave her the option of dropping out but told her that I would give her something special to do to include her. She opted to stay in, but I think she was miserable even though it was in Dec. instead of Aug. She also left early.
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| Posted 2/23/06 12:33 AM |
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jersee3380
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Re: Ladies...
Posted by Shellyesq
I would tell her that you completely want her in your wedding, but if she is uncomfortable or having doubts- you totally understand and won't take it personally. But I would leave it up to her.
i agree
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