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JldDolphin
Member since 1/07 6929 total posts
Name: Jen
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Lost My Dad on Thanksgiving
I just lost my step Dad on Thanksgiving day. When I got the call, I couldn't believe what my mom was telling me. The even harder part was telling my step-sisters (that I'm very close with and don't really ever call my step-sisters). They were so sad. I can't get what they said out of my head. I keep replaying it in my head over and over. He died of cancer after about of year of fighting it. We knew it was going to be much longer, but right on a holiday made it harder for everyone. My Mom is ok, but I think she is being strong in front of the rest of us. I'm worried about her. It's hard when you are the one taking care of the person who is sick. She doesn't know what to do with herself now. Wakes up in the middle of the night to look to see if he is ok or not to find him not there. It breaks my heart.
Thanks for listening!
Jen
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Posted 11/28/07 6:26 PM |
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ddunne2
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Member since 7/05 4189 total posts
Name: Doreen
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Re: Lost My Dad on Thanksgiving
So sorry to hear about your dad. I know exactly what you are feeling. My dad was diagnosed with cancer and passed away 6 weeks later at the age of 61. My mom is so lost. It has only been three months and it is very very hard. Hang in there and know that each day that comes makes it a little easier to deal with.
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Posted 11/28/07 6:59 PM |
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ETAB
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Member since 7/07 2052 total posts
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Re: Lost My Dad on Thanksgiving
I am so sorry for your loss
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Posted 11/29/07 11:32 AM |
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anjerandunder
Positive thoughts worked!!!
Member since 6/06 1909 total posts
Name: J
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Re: Lost My Dad on Thanksgiving
i'm so sorry for your loss
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Posted 11/29/07 3:01 PM |
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JldDolphin
Member since 1/07 6929 total posts
Name: Jen
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Re: Lost My Dad on Thanksgiving
Thank you everyone! It's nice to be able to vent. And your right with each day it gets easier at some point. Thanks!
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Posted 11/29/07 5:17 PM |
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Geraldine
Lovin Life........
Member since 5/07 2388 total posts
Name: Geraldine
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Re: Lost My Dad on Thanksgiving
I'm so sorry for your loss
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Posted 11/30/07 9:23 AM |
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Diane
Hope is Contagious....catch it
Member since 5/05 30683 total posts
Name: D
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Re: Lost My Dad on Thanksgiving
I am so sorry for your loss
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Posted 11/30/07 1:02 PM |
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Kelly9904
Mommy to 2 amazing little boys
Member since 5/05 9306 total posts
Name: Kelly
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Re: Lost My Dad on Thanksgiving
Message edited 1/30/2009 10:47:09 AM.
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Posted 11/30/07 8:43 PM |
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LI-Joy
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Re: Lost My Dad on Thanksgiving
I'm so sorry. My deepest sympathy.
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Posted 12/1/07 5:11 AM |
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Phyl
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Name: The Mystical Azzhorse! ™
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Posted 12/1/07 9:39 PM |
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Marcie
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Member since 5/05 27789 total posts
Name: LOVE being a Mommy!
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Re: Lost My Dad on Thanksgiving
I am so sorry for your loss
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Posted 12/2/07 1:59 PM |
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Lisa
I'm a PANK!!!
Member since 5/05 22334 total posts
Name: Professional Aunts No Kids
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Re: Lost My Dad on Thanksgiving
I am so sorry for your loss!
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Posted 12/3/07 8:51 AM |
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Ambersmom
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Member since 5/05 7740 total posts
Name: Sharon
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Re: Lost My Dad on Thanksgiving
I'm so sorry
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Posted 12/4/07 3:12 PM |
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kahlua716
3 Girls for Me!
Member since 8/07 12475 total posts
Name: Keri
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Re: Lost My Dad on Thanksgiving
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Posted 12/4/07 3:49 PM |
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MsSissy
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Re: Lost My Dad on Thanksgiving
I'm so sorry
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Posted 12/4/07 3:50 PM |
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CallaLily
Thank you, Saint Gerard!
Member since 10/07 4937 total posts
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Re: Lost My Dad on Thanksgiving
I'm so sorry for your loss
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Posted 12/5/07 10:15 PM |
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JodiBabe
Married for 9 yrs!!!!!!
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Name: Jodi
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Re: Lost My Dad on Thanksgiving
I am so sorry for your loss! The holiday makes it so much harder.
My stepdad passed away last year 9 days before Christmas. It was very difficult.
It is almost a year later & my Mom is doing ok as I'm sure your mom will. It just takes time.
Feel free to FM me if you want.
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Posted 12/5/07 11:16 PM |
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Bellaocchi
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Re: Lost My Dad on Thanksgiving
I am very sorry for your loss.
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Posted 12/21/07 10:00 PM |
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mka06
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Member since 8/06 1079 total posts
Name: Melis
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Re: Lost My Dad on Thanksgiving
i am so sorry for your loss!
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Posted 1/3/08 10:15 AM |
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