I am in the unique and often stressfull situation of having 3 Moms, biological mom, step-mom who raised me, and MIL. All three have offered to help from the minute I get home from the hospital with Chat Icon . The thing is I am a very independent person and the very thought of these women, all of whom can be difficult in there own way, trying to help me is stressing me out already. I told both of my Moms that I would like to see how I feel when I get home. I know my MIL will just show up no matter what I say, she does that now, so I'm letting DH handle that one. DH has expressed wanting to be alone just the 3 of us and that he'd take care of me. Anyone else in this situation or has been and can offer some advice? My mom already told me this weekend that I need to make a choice which Mom I want helping out...P.S. both my mom and step-mom do not get along.