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My friend is pregnant and wasn't TTC

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monkeybride
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My friend is pregnant and wasn't TTC

I can't help but feel a little jealous. She has a 1 year old and this is a total shock and she's not happy at all. I feel really jealous because I am still not even ovulating. Chat Icon
OK just had to get that out. I know my time will come for #2, I'm just ready now. Chat Icon

Posted 11/2/07 12:46 PM
 
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Mommyof3
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Member since 6/07

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Traci

Re: My friend is pregnant and wasn't TTC

I just wanted to let you know it will happen for you, all in due time. There is a perfect time for everything. Stay positive and lots of Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon that your time will be here soon enough.

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Message edited 11/2/2007 12:57:31 PM.

Posted 11/2/07 12:57 PM
 

MrsRbk
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Michelle

Re: My friend is pregnant and wasn't TTC

Posted by Mommyof3

I just wanted to let you know it will happen for you, all in due time. There is a perfect time for everything. Stay positive and lots of Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon that your time will be here soon enough.

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I know you are trying to help and be supportive. But by saying there's a perfect time for everything especially if you are having a hard time conceiving is not exactly what someone wants to hear. It's along the same lines as "if you just relax it will happen"

I'm not trying to be mean, and I hope you don't take offense, but just giving it from a different perspective from someone that's been trying to get pregnant for 14 months. There is no perfect timing to deal with IF issues.

Posted 11/2/07 1:10 PM
 

MrsMessina
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Re: My friend is pregnant and wasn't TTC

Chat Icon We've all been in your position, and we know how tough that is. Hang in there, and keep being positive.

Posted 11/2/07 1:13 PM
 

maybeamommy
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Re: My friend is pregnant and wasn't TTC

I think that how you are feeling is completely understandable. It seems so unfair that something you want so much is so difficult to attain -- but others who don't even want it, get it so easily.

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Posted 11/2/07 2:03 PM
 

MrsRivera
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Member since 2/07

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Beth

Re: My friend is pregnant and wasn't TTC

I know what you mean. All of my friends are getting pregnant, and most were only TTC for a month or two. It s u c k s.

Posted 11/2/07 5:39 PM
 

lemonlime

Member since 1/07

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Jennifer

Re: My friend is pregnant and wasn't TTC

I know exactly how you feel. it is so hard when you are trying and maybe have been for some time and then you hear of people who had accidents. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/2/07 5:41 PM
 

Chai77
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Re: My friend is pregnant and wasn't TTC

I can totally relate. Something similar just happen with a friend of mine too. I'm so jealous that it just happens so easily for some people and sad that it's taking me so long. Chat Icon but hopefully, we'll all get our wish soon. Chat Icon

Posted 11/2/07 5:56 PM
 

HarleyGirlFLA
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Member since 5/05

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Name:
Mel

Re: My friend is pregnant and wasn't TTC

I know how you feel. The last few days have not been easy for me with all the announcements I've been hearing of those around me.

I know exactly how you feel. it is so hard when you are trying and maybe have been for some time and then you hear of people who had accidents.



I totally agree. And in my case I had a miscarriage and all I keep hearing about is the "oops"

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Posted 11/2/07 6:58 PM
 

hopin4baby
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Member since 4/07

759 total posts

Name:
Allison

Re: My friend is pregnant and wasn't TTC

I know how you feel. It is so hard to hear about friends getting pregnant when you are having infertility issues. I know the pain of hearing about BFPs - especially unplanned when I can't even ovulate.
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Posted 11/2/07 8:29 PM
 

princess99
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Member since 5/05

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ME

Re: My friend is pregnant and wasn't TTC

My 2 SIL are pregnant, I know how you feel. I keep telling myself it will happen, but it is hard. It is a really stinky feeling. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Message edited 11/3/2007 8:04:24 AM.

Posted 11/3/07 8:03 AM
 
 

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