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My mother cut DS' hair!!!!

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jambalady
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My mother cut DS' hair!!!!

after I specifically told her not to do it at least a dozen times.

I, HIS MOTHER, get to decide when DS gets his first haircut!!!!

I could kill her!!

DH and I LOVED his hair. It was so beautiful and his "trademark".

And she knew what she did was wrong because she had this sheepish look on her face when I came to pick him up like the cat that swallowed the bird.

She called and apologized later that night and said she would never do it again but the damage is done.

Oh, and I bought his a superman costume for halloween. He had thick black hair that we were going to slick back and curl in the front just like Superman.

Posted 10/2/08 9:43 AM
 
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DanaRenee
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Re: My mother cut DS' hair!!!!

OMG I would be LIVID so LIVID. Oh just the thought of that has me burning up Chat Icon THE NERVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted 10/2/08 9:44 AM
 

Ang-Rich
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You specifically told her not to do it...there is no excuse for her decision then.

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Posted 10/2/08 9:46 AM
 

Eireann
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Re: My mother cut DS' hair!!!!

Ah yes...my MIL cut my DD's hair when she was around 18-20 mos. She was crafty about it, but I just knew it looked different. Once DD could talk a bit clearer, she actually TOLD me "Grandma J.." cut her hair. I brought it up and to THIS day, she still makes excuses ("Oh, I think she was remembering when I brushed her hair.." etc. etc.) and denies it!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon

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Posted 10/2/08 9:47 AM
 

MrsMaz
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Re: My mother cut DS' hair!!!!

If my mother ever had the nerve to do something like that she would not be allowed to see him for quite a while. Unbelievable just how many rights grandmas seem to think they have nowadays.
I'm sorry you had to have that happen. I'd be fuming too.

Posted 10/2/08 9:47 AM
 

monkeybride
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Re: My mother cut DS' hair!!!!

OMG I would be FURIOUS! What is it with mother's sometimes. Chat Icon Chat Icon That sounds like something my mother would take upon herself to do.

Posted 10/2/08 9:48 AM
 

Mrs. Patticakes
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Re: My mother cut DS' hair!!!!

What absolute nerve!!!! Chat Icon

I'm so sorry...I definitely don't believe in silent treatments but this warrants one! Chat Icon

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Posted 10/2/08 9:49 AM
 

mtnmama

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Message edited 12/10/2009 2:48:38 PM.

Posted 10/2/08 9:50 AM
 

CrankyPants
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Re: My mother cut DS' hair!!!!

That's terrible Chat Icon

But, as for your mother-at least she called to apologize. I hope that means that she is not making any excuses for what she did and really regrets it. If she really seems contrite, I would forgive. If she didn't, I would br really ticked.

Posted 10/2/08 10:09 AM
 

KristinasMama
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Re: My mother cut DS' hair!!!!

Posted by Mrs. Patticakes

What absolute nerve!!!! Chat Icon

I'm so sorry...I definitely don't believe in silent treatments but this warrants one! Chat Icon

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ITA... I would be so upset - I think that I would be afraid to say anything at all!

Posted 10/2/08 10:11 AM
 

DmarieK
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Re: My mother cut DS' hair!!!!

Whaaaaat???? OMG...I would be beyond pizzed. I would be mad even if you didn't tell her not to.

Posted 10/2/08 10:15 AM
 

jea128
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Re: My mother cut DS' hair!!!!

The same exact thing happened to me. I spedicifically told my mom not to cut DD's bangs as I am trying to grow them out. I come home one night from work and they are short (and uneven at that!)

My mom got an earful from me that night!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/2/08 10:17 AM
 

DancinBarefoot
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Re: My mother cut DS' hair!!!!

If my mother did that, it would be the last time in a looooong time that she set eyes on her granddaughter. I'm pizzed for you!! Chat Icon

Posted 10/2/08 10:18 AM
 

nferrandi
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Re: My mother cut DS' hair!!!!

I would be BEYOND mad! Luca also has trademark long hair, and even my DH knew better then to have it cut before I gave the go ahead.

Posted 10/2/08 10:19 AM
 

littlejoy06
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Re: My mother cut DS' hair!!!!

Chat Icon I would be SO MAD!!! It's not like he's had haircuts before and you should have been with him for the first one.

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Posted 10/2/08 10:21 AM
 

sunflowerjesss
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I would be so furious too!! That's so disrespectful of your mother. She really should have left well enough alone.

Posted 10/2/08 10:30 AM
 

1stimemom
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Re: My mother cut DS' hair!!!!

OMG I am furious for you!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/2/08 10:31 AM
 

Goobster
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Re: My mother cut DS' hair!!!!

I would go ballistic. SO NOT her place to make that decision. I would probably not speak to my MIL/MOM for a long time after that.Chat Icon

Posted 10/2/08 10:33 AM
 

MsMBV
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Re: My mother cut DS' hair!!!!

Posted by DanaRenee

OMG I would be LIVID so LIVID. Oh just the thought of that has me burning up Chat Icon THE NERVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Same here. I am FUMING for you. That is some nerve. Who the hell does she think she is?Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/2/08 10:34 AM
 

MsMBV
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Re: My mother cut DS' hair!!!!

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I would probably not speak to my MIL/MOM for a long time after that.Chat Icon

I would pull leverage and not let her see her grandchild. Yes I am like that.Chat Icon

Posted 10/2/08 10:35 AM
 

lvdolphins
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Re: My mother cut DS' hair!!!!

OMGosh that is very nervy!
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I'm so sorry that happened! Even if it was my OWN mom I'd be pizzed!

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Posted 10/2/08 1:14 PM
 

Janice
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Re: My mother cut DS' hair!!!!

Chat Icon I am so sorry

Posted 10/2/08 1:28 PM
 

waterspout4
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Re: My mother cut DS' hair!!!!

I am so mad for you that I can't even type what I want to say. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/2/08 2:01 PM
 

twicethefun
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Re: My mother cut DS' hair!!!!

I would definately make a statement about this so that she respects your wishes in the future. Imagine how you would have reacted if your mil did this.

Posted 10/2/08 5:16 PM
 
 

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