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New 2nd Time TTCer - with total TMI question about DTD during TTC

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KellyNYC
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New 2nd Time TTCer - with total TMI question about DTD during TTC

Hi All! I'm jumping on the TTC bandwagon for the 2nd time...currently have an 18 m/o DD.

Clearly I'm out of practice but now that we've started actively TTC I'm forgetting some of more *ahem* physical techniques.

Can you share with me your tips and tricks? Are we supposed to stay horizontal for a while after? How long? Is showering a few minutes after a no-no? Any special positions? Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

I'm embarrassed typing this but I know you ladies have all the answers.

TIA!! Chat Icon

Posted 1/6/11 10:50 PM
 
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prunepie
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jennifer

Re: New 2nd Time TTCer - with total TMI question about DTD during TTC

um all i knwo is when i ttc i am told not to take hot baths.... could overheat body and impede spermies etc....so if its a reallllllllllllly hot shower i would hesitate. other than that.... some stay in bed for a while...some do jumping jack after lol whatever works! :P

Posted 1/6/11 11:14 PM
 

Irishgrl1017
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Colleen

Re: New 2nd Time TTCer - with total TMI question about DTD during TTC

Whatever worked for u the first time...do that again!Chat Icon

Everyone has their own way of doing it...I have heard a lot that use the OPK's and Chat Icon 2 days before and three days after....Chat Icon to you!

Posted 1/7/11 6:18 AM
 

Bearcat
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E

Re: New 2nd Time TTCer - with total TMI question about DTD during TTC

i prob wouldn't shower a few minutes after because all the ... stuff... could "fall out" for lack of a better description.

good luck to you!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/7/11 6:38 AM
 

DeniseMarie
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Re: New 2nd Time TTCer - with total TMI question about DTD during TTC

We Chat Icon last night and I just stayed in bed for the rest of the night. I didn't want to stand up, lol

Posted 1/7/11 7:15 AM
 

CatNYC123
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Cathy

Re: New 2nd Time TTCer - with total TMI question about DTD during TTC

Posted by DeniseMarie

We Chat Icon last night and I just stayed in bed for the rest of the night. I didn't want to stand up, lol



me too.. it may not make a difference but in my mind, Im like... you guys are not going anywhere lol

Posted 1/7/11 7:38 AM
 

cmonbabay2011
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Re: New 2nd Time TTCer - with total TMI question about DTD during TTC

When I got pregnant last month, it was the only month we dtd with a pillow underneath me. And there that pillow remained til the following morning (we stayed in bed). I really don't know if the pillow helped or whatnot, but we were finally able to conceive. Hth and gl!!

Posted 1/7/11 7:41 AM
 

Kaitlyn747
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Kaitlyn

Re: New 2nd Time TTCer - with total TMI question about DTD during TTC

when we Chat Icon I have taken advice from this board:

1. I did OPK.
2. Chat Icon 1dpo and 3dpo. (should have done all 3 days and every other leading up to Chat Icon
3. We just had fun DTD. When my DH was done I shoved pillows under my butt and laid there with my leggs up for about 20-25 min.
4. My DH also "finished" me. I have learned that id a woman has the BIG O its better for the spermies to get in. Also....having a BIG O (I have learned) changes the PH and is less hospitable for female spermies. I am more interested in letting those suckers swim swim swim!

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Posted 1/7/11 10:44 AM
 

AngnShaun
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Re: New 2nd Time TTCer - with total TMI question about DTD during TTC

well everything ive read says that regardless if you stand up immediately, lift your legs, or just stay laying down... sperm is falling out no matter what... sperm dies, some swim the wrong way, etc... so i wouldnt worry about it...

i wouldnt change your habits as far as sex positions go either.

other things that help, mucinex or robitussin for producing more ewcm, rasberry leaf tea to help support the femal system...

Posted 1/7/11 10:46 AM
 

gina409
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Re: New 2nd Time TTCer - with total TMI question about DTD during TTC

Posted by AngnShaun

well everything ive read says that regardless if you stand up immediately, lift your legs, or just stay laying down... sperm is falling out no matter what... sperm dies, some swim the wrong way, etc... so i wouldnt worry about it...

i wouldnt change your habits as far as sex positions go either.

other things that help, mucinex or robitussin for producing more ewcm, rasberry leaf tea to help support the femal system...



ita..i would not worry so much bout positions etc but rather find out when u o so u can bd around that time

but hey pillow under but works for some some lay down after..none of it can hurt best of luck!Chat Icon

Posted 1/7/11 12:18 PM
 
 
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