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Now my turn to let this get to me!

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BA2008
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Beth -Ann

Now my turn to let this get to me!

OK, i'm on another board. There were 8 of us doing IVF at the same time. 6 got BFP's (one with triplets, and 2 with twins right now). I have to admit I was happy I wasn't the only failed IVF. Today the one with the failed IVF got a BFP naturally. I'm happy for her. But, here it is again, left out feeling.

I'm not having a good week am I. I need to turn this around somehow.

Posted 5/14/08 9:17 AM
 
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Posted 5/14/08 9:23 AM
 

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Sooooo frustrating. I'm so sorry. It will come for you!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/14/08 9:25 AM
 

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Posted 5/14/08 9:26 AM
 

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Posted 5/14/08 9:27 AM
 

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Posted 5/14/08 9:31 AM
 

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Sorry you're having a rough time. It totally $ucks and you have every right to be upset. Chat Icon

Posted 5/14/08 9:51 AM
 

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Posted 5/14/08 9:55 AM
 

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I'm sorry, hang in there!! You're doing what you can to make it happen- so just keep going! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/14/08 9:56 AM
 

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Re: Now my turn to let this get to me!

Posted by BA2008

OK, i'm on another board. There were 8 of us doing IVF at the same time. 6 got BFP's (one with triplets, and 2 with twins right now). I have to admit I was happy I wasn't the only failed IVF. Today the one with the failed IVF got a BFP naturally. I'm happy for her. But, here it is again, left out feeling.

I'm not having a good week am I. I need to turn this around somehow.



This was my response to your last post about putting your life on hold! I feel so bad as well.. I am so sorry you went through that...


ie: "Oh I know someone who tried for years and years, Finally they adopted and guess what She Got Pregnant!!! " Blah blah blah.

If I hear that story one more time I am going to scream!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

My Dh said to me just the other day.. Did you ever notice that all these things happen to everyone but us!! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/14/08 10:01 AM
 

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I'm right there with you....Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/14/08 10:23 AM
 

DRMom
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Re: Now my turn to let this get to me!

Posted by dilb712

Posted by BA2008

OK, i'm on another board. There were 8 of us doing IVF at the same time. 6 got BFP's (one with triplets, and 2 with twins right now). I have to admit I was happy I wasn't the only failed IVF. Today the one with the failed IVF got a BFP naturally. I'm happy for her. But, here it is again, left out feeling.

I'm not having a good week am I. I need to turn this around somehow.



This was my response to your last post about putting your life on hold! I feel so bad as well.. I am so sorry you went through that...


ie: "Oh I know someone who tried for years and years, Finally they adopted and guess what She Got Pregnant!!! " Blah blah blah.

If I hear that story one more time I am going to scream!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

My Dh said to me just the other day.. Did you ever notice that all these things happen to everyone but us!! Chat Icon Chat Icon



I hope no one minds me posting my experience. I went through everything you are going through. i was pregnant with my sister-lost that, my best friend-lost that, watched everyone around me get pregnant and have their 1st and even 2nd child. After all these losses I had a tube removed and then couldn't get pregnant AT ALL. If I can tell you the times I thought: this won't happen for me, I am never going to have my own child, etc.

Well now it did work and you know what? I am still a nervous wreck. I don't feel like its real and I am so used to being disappointed that I can't believe its finally happened.

I KNOW how hard it is and I guess the only thing I can say is be as positive as you can and visualize your IVF working. People have shrunk cancer tumours with visualization-I hve to believe it can help make one little baby. Check out anjionline's visualization meditations for the IVF cycle. I would send you mine but my last track is scratched. If you want it anyway let me know and i'll mail it to you. The last track is week 2 of the 2ww.

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Message edited 5/14/2008 10:29:40 AM.

Posted 5/14/08 10:24 AM
 

BA2008
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Beth -Ann

Re: Now my turn to let this get to me!

Melijane - thanks for the offer. I do have that and I have been using it. Though I have to be honest every time I do it I fall into an amazing sleep trance. I get out of it and I'm not sure I remember if I did the whole thing or if I actually fell asleep.

Thanks all for your words of encouragement and understanding. I hope this down feeling I'm having is due to estrogen patch I have on. I'm afraid to do another google and have 4 hours go by.

Posted 5/14/08 10:44 AM
 

DRMom
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Re: Now my turn to let this get to me!

Posted by BA2008

Melijane - thanks for the offer. I do have that and I have been using it. Though I have to be honest every time I do it I fall into an amazing sleep trance. I get out of it and I'm not sure I remember if I did the whole thing or if I actually fell asleep.

Thanks all for your words of encouragement and understanding. I hope this down feeling I'm having is due to estrogen patch I have on. I'm afraid to do another google and have 4 hours go by.



That happens to me too. I have to believe it works a little better that way because it is affecting your subconscious? best of luck this cycle. I hope this is it for you!!Chat Icon

Posted 5/14/08 11:26 AM
 

sweetbabydreams
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Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon we will make it through this!! I know how hard it is to see all the BFP but this shows us that there is hope!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/14/08 11:37 AM
 

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Posted 5/14/08 11:51 AM
 

Jen2999
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Re: Now my turn to let this get to me!

Posted by BA2008

Melijane - thanks for the offer. I do have that and I have been using it. Though I have to be honest every time I do it I fall into an amazing sleep trance. I get out of it and I'm not sure I remember if I did the whole thing or if I actually fell asleep.

Thanks all for your words of encouragement and understanding. I hope this down feeling I'm having is due to estrogen patch I have on. I'm afraid to do another google and have 4 hours go by.



Chat Icon I just wanted to say that those patches made me CRAZY... I was SO emotional and felt so depressed while on them!

It is so hard to watch everyone else get what they want while you are waiting. Hang in there...

Posted 5/14/08 1:08 PM
 

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Posted 5/14/08 1:41 PM
 

BA2008
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Beth -Ann

Re: Now my turn to let this get to me!

Posted by Jen2999

Chat Icon I just wanted to say that those patches made me CRAZY... I was SO emotional and felt so depressed while on them!



Thank you for saying that. I've not been myself the last fews days (as you can tell with my posts). I don't know anyone else on the patch. I'm not crazy...er than normal. Yeah! And they told me to leave the patch on till it falls off. It's on there good.

Posted 5/14/08 4:26 PM
 

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Posted 5/14/08 6:58 PM
 

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Posted 5/15/08 8:23 PM
 

karenk71
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Posted 5/15/08 9:42 PM
 
 

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