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Ok so my MIL stopped by just now and put me on the spot about the RD...

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AJsMommy122
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Maxine

Ok so my MIL stopped by just now and put me on the spot about the RD...

I tried going by my husbands wishes and telling her there is no way my DH can go with the hours he works. Yesterday he fell asleep in the driveway he was so tired Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

So she said well he can at least come for dinner... I was like it doesn't start till 9 your LUCKY if you have dinner by 10:30 ( b/c there's the appetizer, pasta, and salad first) and he is in bed by 10.

She kept on pushing it OVER AND OVER saying well your not gunna go??
I said why would I? I don't feel comfortable going without my husband plus Im not in the bridal party so there is no reason for me to be there.

She said well your family so you should go.
I wanted to say if family was so important my DH would have been asked to be in the BP.

But I bit my tongue and just said "No its too late for the baby ( she knew that was a lie b/c hes up late every night anyway), and I don't want to go without DH.

So then she started to ask about the wedding.
"Well you ARE going to the wedding right" I gave her an unenthusiastic yes.
And she asked if my DH was working the day of the wedding. I said yes he dosen't want to take off a full day so hes leaving early.
She asked me what time and I said I don't know your going to have to ask him.

I could tell she was really annoyed we wont be attending the RD and nervous about us even attending the wedding.

Oh well you made your bed now lay in it Chat Icon

Message edited 8/24/2005 5:13:57 PM.

Posted 8/24/05 5:12 PM
 
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steph4777
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Re: Ok so my MIL stopped by just now and put me on the spot about the RD...

Well tough...She'll get over it!

Posted 8/24/05 5:17 PM
 

AJsMommy122
Stop 2 smell the roses

Member since 5/05

2048 total posts

Name:
Maxine

Re: Ok so my MIL stopped by just now and put me on the spot about the RD...

Bump for Sandra!

Posted 8/25/05 10:37 PM
 

BabyAvocado
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Re: Ok so my MIL stopped by just now and put me on the spot about the RD...

Good for you guys!!! You did the right thing by standing your ground on this one. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/25/05 10:40 PM
 

Luvlylady
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Alexandria

Re: Ok so my MIL stopped by just now and put me on the spot about the RD...

I hope everything works out for you guysChat Icon
Where is the Wedding?

Posted 8/25/05 10:41 PM
 

neenie

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Re: Ok so my MIL stopped by just now and put me on the spot about the RD...

Posted by Luvlylady

I hope everything works out for you guysChat Icon



ditto

Posted 8/25/05 10:42 PM
 

MrsERod
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Re: Ok so my MIL stopped by just now and put me on the spot about the RD...

seriously!! she'll get over it!!! glad you stood your ground!! Chat Icon

Posted 8/25/05 10:42 PM
 

Tah-wee-ZAH
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Re: Ok so my MIL stopped by just now and put me on the spot about the RD...

Posted by Luvlylady

I hope everything works out for you guysChat Icon
Where is the Wedding?




Are you brining any Visine?Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon or Afrin or whatever the heck it was?Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/25/05 10:46 PM
 

Scotty-CassidysMom
and Dylan too!

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Stacy

Re: Ok so my MIL stopped by just now and put me on the spot about the RD...

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Good for you!!!

Posted 8/26/05 7:06 AM
 

baghag
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Re: Ok so my MIL stopped by just now and put me on the spot about the RD...

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Posted 8/26/05 8:32 AM
 

LadyMaravilla
Fall Is Here

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Sonia

Re: Ok so my MIL stopped by just now and put me on the spot about the RD...

Are you brining any Visine?Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon or Afrin or whatever the heck it was?Chat Icon Chat Icon


Buwahhhhhhh....Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I'm sure she has has stash in the car. YOU never know when it may come in handy!Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/26/05 9:17 AM
 
 

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