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Okay, so we are officially TTC now... but...

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an9elic
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Okay, so we are officially TTC now... but...

I am so nervous now! I do not know where to start! My cycles are pretty irregular.. so a gyno appt is definitely a must! But I am scared... I hate going to the doctor as it is.. but the gyno is the scariest to me by far.. lol.. I know I'm a wimp.. But help me girls!! Now that DH and I talked and both agreed it is time to seriously try I am scared shitttless! And I already have a child! How pathetic.. lol Chat Icon

Posted 7/13/08 10:51 PM
 
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Angel321
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Re: Okay, so we are officially TTC now... but...

what do you need to know? my famous claim is that i know nothing - but i'm a good internet researcher...

Posted 7/13/08 10:59 PM
 

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Re: Okay, so we are officially TTC now... but...

congrats btw - sorry i forgot to mention that!!!

you have been missed

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Posted 7/13/08 11:01 PM
 

an9elic
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Re: Okay, so we are officially TTC now... but...

aww thanks so much jess! ummmm i need someone to come with me to the gyno and hold my hand i think... lmao.. jk but i would like it if you guys all told me its a piece of cake and i will preggers in no time! haha Chat Icon

Posted 7/13/08 11:06 PM
 

maybeamommy
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Re: Okay, so we are officially TTC now... but...

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aww thanks so much jess! ummmm i need someone to come with me to the gyno and hold my hand i think... lmao.. jk but i would like it if you guys all told me its a piece of cake and i will preggers in no time! haha Chat Icon



For some people it is!

Let's hope you are one of them.

You know we're here if you have any questions!

And just FYI - I didn't even go to my gyno until we had been trying for maybe 8 months...

Posted 7/13/08 11:09 PM
 

Angel321
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Re: Okay, so we are officially TTC now... but...

Posted by k-bam

aww thanks so much jess! ummmm i need someone to come with me to the gyno and hold my hand i think... lmao.. jk but i would like it if you guys all told me its a piece of cake and i will preggers in no time! haha Chat Icon



tell me when your appt is and i'll be there. Please keep in mind - i'll be up by you and not down there playing catcher with the doc - if you don't mind :)

i'll tell you it's a piece of cake - but i think you know better....and i'd be flat out lieing. i'm in the middle of a nervous breakdown personally...

Posted 7/13/08 11:09 PM
 

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Re: Okay, so we are officially TTC now... but...

Posted by maybeamommy

Posted by k-bam

aww thanks so much jess! ummmm i need someone to come with me to the gyno and hold my hand i think... lmao.. jk but i would like it if you guys all told me its a piece of cake and i will preggers in no time! haha Chat Icon



For some people it is!

Let's hope you are one of them.

You know we're here if you have any questions!

And just FYI - I didn't even go to my gyno until we had been trying for maybe 8 months...



i actually went to my gyno - to kinda alert her that we were ttc. She ran some blood tests on me to make sure that i had some tests done (measles, mumps, etc) and I had - so i was given the all clear.

i'm actually wondering how long we wait before going to the doc for dave..to have his.....swimmers checked...

Posted 7/13/08 11:10 PM
 

maybeamommy
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Re: Okay, so we are officially TTC now... but...

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Posted by maybeamommy

Posted by k-bam

aww thanks so much jess! ummmm i need someone to come with me to the gyno and hold my hand i think... lmao.. jk but i would like it if you guys all told me its a piece of cake and i will preggers in no time! haha Chat Icon



For some people it is!

Let's hope you are one of them.

You know we're here if you have any questions!

And just FYI - I didn't even go to my gyno until we had been trying for maybe 8 months...



i actually went to my gyno - to kinda alert her that we were ttc. She ran some blood tests on me to make sure that i had some tests done (measles, mumps, etc) and I had - so i was given the all clear.

i'm actually wondering how long we wait before going to the doc for dave..to have his.....swimmers checked...



You can do that at anytime. We waited until 6 months I think. DH had it done by our regular PCP.

Posted 7/13/08 11:12 PM
 

snowflake08
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Re: Okay, so we are officially TTC now... but...

kristen
the best thin for you to do is chart

Posted 7/13/08 11:14 PM
 

an9elic
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Re: Okay, so we are officially TTC now... but...

LOL Jess youre so cute! I am only thinking I should go see my gyn because my cycles are irregular and I havent been to a gyn since my follow up appointments after having DD almost 5 yrs ago.. Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/13/08 11:15 PM
 

an9elic
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Re: Okay, so we are officially TTC now... but...

Posted by snowflake08

kristen
the best thin for you to do is chart



yeah laura, i want to chart actually.. i will need lots of help though, i am chart-tarded... Chat Icon

Posted 7/13/08 11:16 PM
 

maybeamommy
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Re: Okay, so we are officially TTC now... but...

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Posted by snowflake08

kristen
the best thin for you to do is chart



yeah laura, i want to chart actually.. i will need lots of help though, i am chart-tarded... Chat Icon



Do you have the dates of your most recent AFs? Maybe the 6 most recent?

That would be a good starting point. You can enter those into FF or mymonthlycycles.com and get a picture of when you ovulate and when to expect AF which can help you determine when to BD.

ETA: Honestly, I wouldn't start with charting right away. I think the OPKs are better to start off with. Don't get me wrong, I love charting now, but it's definitely an added hassle/stress to do every single day at the same time. I am glad I wasn't doing this the first 9 months!

Message edited 7/13/2008 11:19:03 PM.

Posted 7/13/08 11:17 PM
 

Angel321
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Re: Okay, so we are officially TTC now... but...

Posted by k-bam

Posted by snowflake08

kristen
the best thin for you to do is chart



yeah laura, i want to chart actually.. i will need lots of help though, i am chart-tarded... Chat Icon



let's start a chart-tarded club...seriously. i just referred to myself as a spazmoidal spaz...

Posted 7/13/08 11:21 PM
 

an9elic
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kristen

Re: Okay, so we are officially TTC now... but...

okay but can i be the president of the club?! Chat Icon

Posted 7/13/08 11:31 PM
 

maybeamommy
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Re: Okay, so we are officially TTC now... but...

Posted by k-bam

okay but can i be the president of the club?! Chat Icon



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You girls are TOO funny!

It's really very easy! FF does all the work for you.

All you have to do is wake up at the same time each day, take your temp, and enter the info into FF.

It does everything else! It will tell you when you O'd, when to expect AF, and will give you your coverline temp, etc. I swear it's not that hard!

Posted 7/13/08 11:33 PM
 

Angel321
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Re: Okay, so we are officially TTC now... but...

Posted by k-bam

okay but can i be the president of the club?! Chat Icon



as long as i can be VP - prez would be way too much pressure for me right now...i'm far too unbalanced....

Posted 7/13/08 11:36 PM
 

an9elic
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Re: Okay, so we are officially TTC now... but...

hmmmm well, my periods are so irregular, i feel like FF is going to have a message pop up on my screen when i put my info in that says something like "WTFFF IS WRONG WITH YOU?!" Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon i get my period every few months.. sometimes more than just a few.. Chat Icon

Posted 7/13/08 11:36 PM
 

Angel321
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Re: Okay, so we are officially TTC now... but...

Posted by k-bam

hmmmm well, my periods are so irregular, i feel like FF is going to have a message pop up on my screen when i put my info in that says something like "WTFFF IS WRONG WITH YOU?!" Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon i get my period every few months.. sometimes more than just a few.. Chat Icon



a VERY good friend of mine on LIW has the SAME THING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I think in her case it's stress related....i wish she would log on here...i'll mention to her that you and she are similar....maybe that'll be the push she needs!!!

Posted 7/13/08 11:39 PM
 

an9elic
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Re: Okay, so we are officially TTC now... but...

yes tell her to join me please! i need to feel like im not such an alien. lollll oh and check out my new headline! hahahaaaa

Posted 7/13/08 11:41 PM
 

Angel321
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Re: Okay, so we are officially TTC now... but...

Posted by k-bam

yes tell her to join me please! i need to feel like im not such an alien. lollll oh and check out my new headline! hahahaaaa



awesome - i have faith one day i'll be able to change mine - 1,000 posts, here i come!!!

Posted 7/13/08 11:42 PM
 

an9elic
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kristen

Re: Okay, so we are officially TTC now... but...

Posted by davenjess

Posted by k-bam

yes tell her to join me please! i need to feel like im not such an alien. lollll oh and check out my new headline! hahahaaaa



awesome - i have faith one day i'll be able to change mine - 1,000 posts, here i come!!!



you will! you can DOOO it! hey you can always put it in your name for now... vice prez of chart-tarded! lmaoooo

Posted 7/13/08 11:44 PM
 

Angel321
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Re: Okay, so we are officially TTC now... but...

duuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuun....:)

Posted 7/13/08 11:45 PM
 

an9elic
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Re: Okay, so we are officially TTC now... but...

sweet!! Chat Icon

Posted 7/13/08 11:48 PM
 

snowflake08
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Re: Okay, so we are officially TTC now... but...

Posted by k-bam

Posted by snowflake08

kristen
the best thin for you to do is chart



yeah laura, i want to chart actually.. i will need lots of help though, i am chart-tarded... Chat Icon

ill help u
dont worry

you cant start until AF arrives, well, you can but its better to start fresh

Posted 7/13/08 11:58 PM
 

an9elic
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kristen

Re: Okay, so we are officially TTC now... but...

yeah true.. so I am just waiting around for her I guess... I had some spotting for a few days last month, but no real period since 4/20... so who knows Chat Icon

Posted 7/14/08 12:01 AM
 
 

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