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Opinions needed- Am I Cheating?

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PattyK
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Opinions needed- Am I Cheating?

Ok, here is the deal, DH & I are having my sister and my cousin & her 3 kids over for Christmas dinner. Am I cheating if I order dinner instead of cooking it? I saw the Stop & Shop circular had a dinner that serves 6-8 people for $59.99. The price includes a spiral ham (that serves 6-8), mashed potatoes, butternut squash, a sweet potatoe casserole, soup, an apple or pumpkin pie and 12 dinner rolls. I know that we would be spending more money than that if we bought the ingredients individually.

Posted 12/4/08 9:53 AM
 
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saraH
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Re: Opinions needed- Am I Cheating?

hell no, not cheating. go for it!!

Posted 12/4/08 9:54 AM
 

heathergirl
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Re: Opinions needed- Am I Cheating?

It's up to you. MIL gets T-giving and Christmas catered when we see her in Florida, so it doesn't bother me as long as its good Chat Icon

Posted 12/4/08 9:55 AM
 

Tulips915
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Re: Opinions needed- Am I Cheating?

No way! Especially if it makes your life easier.

Just remember to hide the evidence Chat Icon

Posted 12/4/08 9:55 AM
 

GoldenRod
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Re: Opinions needed- Am I Cheating?

Christmas dinner (or any meal, for that matter), is about friends and family, it's not about who cooked the food. What good is having a family dinner if you are working your a$$ off all day in the kitchen, and can't enjoy the company? I think THAT is cheating the family out of your company.


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Posted 12/4/08 9:56 AM
 

Lisa
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Re: Opinions needed- Am I Cheating?

sounds like a GREAT deal to me!! Go for it!!

Posted 12/4/08 10:02 AM
 

MarisaK
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Re: Opinions needed- Am I Cheating?

It's totally cheating - I hate catering a holiday -
But that's me. -

Posted 12/4/08 10:17 AM
 

SnickNNick
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Re: Opinions needed- Am I Cheating?

Posted by MarisaK

It's totally cheating - I hate catering a holiday -
But that's me. -



I have to agree, sorry. I would never cater a holiday....part of the fun of it is the cooking!

Posted 12/4/08 10:22 AM
 

melbalalala
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Re: Opinions needed- Am I Cheating?

Posted by SnickNNick

Posted by MarisaK

It's totally cheating - I hate catering a holiday -
But that's me. -



I have to agree, sorry. I would never cater a holiday....part of the fun of it is the cooking!



I agree.. DH's family did that deal for a few years from the grocery store and most of the people were miserable because it was just gross.

This year I decided to spend Tgiving with them and did all the cooking so I wouldn't be subject to it.

Message edited 12/4/2008 11:27:07 AM.

Posted 12/4/08 11:26 AM
 

Blu-ize
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Re: Opinions needed- Am I Cheating?

I think it's cheating but maybe you could get parts of it and make parts of it.

They wouldn't advertise it and prepare for it if people didn't do it.

I say if you're tight on time and money, go for it.
I just re-read your post.

4 adults and 3 kids? Yes, I would definitely do it.

Message edited 12/4/2008 12:22:02 PM.

Posted 12/4/08 12:20 PM
 

Christine
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Re: Opinions needed- Am I Cheating?

I don't think it's cheating but I wouldn't spend $60 on a meal that's pretty easy to prepare.

Posted 12/4/08 12:49 PM
 

RadioLau
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Re: Opinions needed- Am I Cheating?

LOL. I thought this post was going to be quite different. I think whatever is best for you is what you should do.

Posted 12/4/08 12:49 PM
 

nicknmb
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Re: Opinions needed- Am I Cheating?

Go for it! That sounds great!!!

Posted 12/4/08 1:39 PM
 

ArmyOfBabies
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Re: Opinions needed- Am I Cheating?

Do it!!!! I might come over and eat some pie, lol!

Posted 12/4/08 1:47 PM
 

PattyK
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Re: Opinions needed- Am I Cheating?

Posted by ArmyOfBabies

Do it!!!! I might come over and eat some pie, lol!



Your more than welcome to come on over!!

Posted 12/4/08 5:56 PM
 

justme4u
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Re: Opinions needed- Am I Cheating?

I have never catered dinner for a holiday, but after the Thanksgiving i had, it sounds like a great idea! I cooked and shopped and prepared for days, and i was exhausted the whole day after. I say go for it!

Posted 12/4/08 6:45 PM
 

PattyK
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Patricia

Re: Opinions needed- Am I Cheating?

We are going to do it, it is going to be much easier. Last year I cooked and DH & I spent most of the time in the kitchen and not that much time with our family.

Posted 12/4/08 8:50 PM
 
 

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