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over a year later , i FINALLY might be getting some answers.

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MetsGirl07
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Name:
Deanna

over a year later , i FINALLY might be getting some answers.

I tried to get so many answers about my first loss at 16Weeks. my OB was just awful, and i wasn't getting anywhere with him.
and he told me that there was no records to get from the hospital.. so i just had to deal with the unkown.

SO, i finally met a new OB the other day and he asked if i had records from the hospital , and i told him the story.. well he said NO WAY.. they HAVE to have records, and everything that happened, etc.
so today i sent out the release form, and i am so anxious to get them.. maybe i can FINALLY have some closure, and some answers Chat Icon Chat Icon


it just saddens me that all this time, i had nothing to go on.. my OB called it a fluke, and just was so horrible to me. Chat Icon

Posted 7/16/09 10:48 AM
 

tj2008
LIF Adult

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Posted 7/16/09 10:51 AM
 

Daisy32
Mommy

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Re: over a year later , i FINALLY might be getting some answers.

I wanna punch that first OB in the freakin face!!!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

I'm so glad this new doctor is helping get you some answers. Its not fair that you've had no closure all this time. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/16/09 11:07 AM
 

foreverinmyheart
LIF Adolescent

Member since 1/09

776 total posts

Name:
Audrey

Re: over a year later , i FINALLY might be getting some answers.

I am glad that your new OB is finally going to get some answers for you. That is terrible how your other OB treated you....what a shame! Chat Icon

Posted 7/16/09 11:12 AM
 

kristin597
Mama!

Member since 8/08

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Name:
Kristin

Re: over a year later , i FINALLY might be getting some answers.

Hope you get some answers finally!

Posted 7/16/09 11:24 AM
 

zoe282
We have our miracle!

Member since 8/08

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Name:
Jen

Re: over a year later , i FINALLY might be getting some answers.

Wow I really hope you get your answers! you deserve it!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/16/09 11:39 AM
 

Blu-ize
Plan B is Now Plan A

Member since 7/05

32475 total posts

Name:
Susan

Re: over a year later , i FINALLY might be getting some answers.

I'm so sorry you went through that.

It sounds like you are in good hands now.Chat Icon

Posted 7/16/09 12:10 PM
 

IrishLasss334
I'll be there soon!

Member since 1/08

6549 total posts

Name:
Patty

Re: over a year later , i FINALLY might be getting some answers.

Deanna, I hope you find the peace you are looking for. Chat Icon

Posted 7/16/09 12:25 PM
 

mrsmck
Be a big girl!

Member since 5/05

4898 total posts

Name:
Donna

Re: over a year later , i FINALLY might be getting some answers.

I hope you get some answers soon!
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Posted 7/16/09 12:46 PM
 

MetsGirl07
LIF O2 Vendor

Member since 12/07

16202 total posts

Name:
Deanna

Re: over a year later , i FINALLY might be getting some answers.

thank you all so much for your kind words!
this is all just bittersweet for me i guess.. even if i don't find the answers i was looking for.. at least i tried, and i will for sure have more closure, instead of wondering why, and how, all the time.

Posted 7/16/09 12:53 PM
 

Babyaholic
Thankful

Member since 6/09

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Name:
D

Re: over a year later , i FINALLY might be getting some answers.

I hope you get the answers you deserve!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/16/09 2:11 PM
 

QueSeraSera
Sugar & Spice

Member since 7/08

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Name:
Liz

Re: over a year later , i FINALLY might be getting some answers.

I hope you get some answers- it seems hard to believe that a loss that late was a "fluke". At the very least, it will give your new doc the info he needs to make sure it never happens again....

Posted 7/16/09 2:12 PM
 

yankinmanc
Happy Days!

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Re: over a year later , i FINALLY might be getting some answers.

That sucks, doctors sometime have such bad bedside manner. However, on the flip side, I was very happy to find out that my late loss at 19 weeks was just a fluke, it was a better result than finding out something serious was wrong.

I hope you get your answers.

Posted 7/16/09 5:04 PM
 

InfertileMyrtle
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Member since 7/09

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Posted 7/17/09 9:49 PM
 

munchkinfacemama
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Michelle

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Posted 7/19/09 11:26 AM
 

WNA01
my 2 boys

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Re: over a year later , i FINALLY might be getting some answers.

i cant believe that dr said it was a "fluke" at 16 weeks and didnt investigate it further. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon That just annoyes the crap out of me.
Thank goodness u found a dr who seems to be on top of things.
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Posted 7/21/09 7:11 AM
 

jennarose023
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Name:
Jenna

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Posted 7/21/09 8:07 AM
 

LemonHead
Sour Girl

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Re: over a year later , i FINALLY might be getting some answers.

Thinking of you Deanna Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/21/09 1:39 PM
 

mommy2B3
2 boys 2 girls!!!!

Member since 7/08

3324 total posts

Name:
M

Re: over a year later , i FINALLY might be getting some answers.

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I hope your new OB will be able to give you the answers you need for closure.. and pray you and your DH be blessed with a DC soon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/22/09 11:26 AM
 
 

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