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lipglossjunky73
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Re: parents drinking while kids trick or treat!

Not one parent offered us a beer while TOTing... I go to the wrong neighborhoods... Chat Icon

Posted 11/1/09 6:22 PM
 
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Re: parents drinking while kids trick or treat!

Posted by lipglossjunky73

Not one parent offered us a beer while TOTing... I go to the wrong neighborhoods... Chat Icon



Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon same here!!

Posted 11/1/09 6:23 PM
 

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Re: parents drinking while kids trick or treat!

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I would think they were pansies... DH & I smoke pot & blow lines while we ToT...Chat Icon




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Posted 11/1/09 6:29 PM
 

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Re: parents drinking while kids trick or treat!

Posted by HeathKernandez

I would think they were pansies... DH & I smoke pot & blow lines while we ToT...Chat Icon



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Posted 11/1/09 6:33 PM
 

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Re: parents drinking while kids trick or treat!

Is Brad drinking and ToTing????

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Posted 11/1/09 6:54 PM
 

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Re: parents drinking while kids trick or treat!

Posted by dee7772

Posted by Kate

I had a beer while trick or treating today. What's the big deal?



I had one too while out with the kids and a bunch of adults - we didn't get trashed - just had a beer:)



Ditto to this. We went to a friends house and there were a bunch of us TOT and the street was like Mardi Gras and everyone was having a blast but no one was trashed we had a beer or 2 and that was it. JMO but I didn't think it was a big deal.

Posted 11/1/09 6:55 PM
 

aliwnec10
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Re: parents drinking while kids trick or treat!

Posted by Michelle1123

Posted by aliwnec10

you mean like this? Chat Icon

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Wow people need to lighten up! Live a little! Stop being so uptight. Worry about yourselves and your own kids versus what others are doing. Chat Icon

ETA: this from the girl that can be uptight herself sometimes. Chat Icon



OMG I cant believe you let your DH hold your child while having a BEER?!?!?!?! Chat Icon

Chat Icon Thats a great picture!



I won't tell you what he does for a living then! I don't want to make anyone more angry then they already are! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/1/09 6:55 PM
 

ddunne2
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Re: parents drinking while kids trick or treat!

It is completely common here in OH. Its kinda like our own Mardi Gras! I see no issue with it as long as parents are being responsible. Pulling a wagon with beer instead of kids is a pretty familiar site here.

Judge away for those that choose to, but lighten up is all I say!

Posted 11/1/09 6:57 PM
 

stephaniea
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Re: parents drinking while kids trick or treat!

We did it too. Had a beer in a cup while out. Didn't get drunk or anything.

Posted 11/1/09 6:57 PM
 

hazeleyes33
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Re: parents drinking while kids trick or treat!

I saw the same thing last year and thought it was digusting because one father was loud and visably VERY drunk.
This is TOT for KIDS. You can't control yourself for an hour NOT to drink until you get home?
Isn't it also illegal to drink in the street?
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Posted 11/1/09 7:03 PM
 

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Re: parents drinking while kids trick or treat!

I have to say...I'm surprised at how common this is.
I never saw it growing up or when I took my DD TOT'ing when she was younger. I didn't notice any parents drinking yesterday, but I also wasn't looking for it. I will next year though just out of curiosity. Chat Icon
Now I'm curious to know if any of my friends do it.
NOT to judge them....just being nosey.
I don't get why you would.
That doesn't mean I think anyone is a bad parent...it's just an opinion.
Somehow having an opinion = judging on LIF. Not sure why that isChat Icon

Message edited 11/1/2009 7:09:39 PM.

Posted 11/1/09 7:06 PM
 

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Re: parents drinking while kids trick or treat!

I would never think to do it, but it wouldn't bother me at all- unless of course people were getting sloshed all over the place. Chat Icon

Posted 11/1/09 7:19 PM
 

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Re: parents drinking while kids trick or treat!

Posted by HeathKernandez

I would think they were pansies... DH & I smoke pot & blow lines while we ToT...Chat Icon



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Posted 11/1/09 7:31 PM
 

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Re: parents drinking while kids trick or treat!

this is a funny but pretty typical thread..lif is a hoot Chat Icon
Anyway, im totally a LUSH when not pregnant..but i dont drink around my children, unless we're at a party or event, and even then if i have ONE glass of wine, that would be it..and like i said, im a lush lol
Its personally not my thing, and im surprised with the group i hang out with that none of them either would even think of drinking while TOTing...

To change the path of this thread alil..what do you think about when parents drink at little league/football/soccer games etc??

Ive seen this happen ALOT in my town..hence why i hate it here Chat Icon

Posted 11/1/09 7:33 PM
 

mamasita27
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Re: parents drinking while kids trick or treat!

ok people , i'm the OP and so I just want to sum up my side because this is getting so out of hand. I really did not intend to attack anyone. I'm not saying people are bad parents for drinking while trick or treating. I honestly was just really shocked by it because I never thought to do it. I'm not really uptight (not that I need to defend myself to anyone). I'm having my second beer of the evening and drink wine very regularly with DD at home. I just truly was surprised that this is a common practice. I would never had thought of it. To each his own. I'm sorry if my original post offended people, I didn't think it would cause so much controversy because I thought most people would be as shocked as me, but I was wrong...so I apologize. I don't normally create such drama on here. Other posters are right, there are bigger things to worry about in life! I know all of us here love our children to no end and are wonderful parents :)

Message edited 11/1/2009 7:46:53 PM.

Posted 11/1/09 7:40 PM
 

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Re: parents drinking while kids trick or treat!

Posted by mom2aidan

Is Brad drinking and ToTing????




Brad's outfit is much more disturbing than the fact that he might be drinking. Chat Icon

this thread is cracking me up. People actually feel the need to say how much they drink, just not while TOTing. Only on LIF.
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Posted 11/1/09 7:47 PM
 

4PsInaPod
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Re: parents drinking while kids trick or treat!

what a great idea! Chat Icon I'd love to have a pumpkin ale while trick or treating......pumpkin ale is one of the reasons I love the fall so much Chat Icon Chat Icon

(Mel, we're doing this next year!)

I'm sorry but I don't see any harm. I see it being a major issues if they are TRASHED b/c no one should be trashed around their kids but 1 or 2 beers.....who cares!!!!

Posted 11/1/09 8:14 PM
 

eddiesmommy
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Re: parents drinking while kids trick or treat!

Posted by DPerotti

what a great idea! Chat Icon I'd love to have a pumpkin ale while trick or treating......pumpkin ale is one of the reasons I love the fall so much Chat Icon Chat Icon

(Mel, we're doing this next year!)

I'm sorry but I don't see any harm. I see it being a major issues if they are TRASHED b/c no one should be trashed around their kids but 1 or 2 beers.....who cares!!!!



Im game, pumpkin ale and trick or treating with the kids!

Posted 11/1/09 8:21 PM
 

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Re: parents drinking while kids trick or treat!

Posted by dpli

Posted by mom2aidan

Is Brad drinking and ToTing????




Brad's outfit is much more disturbing than the fact that he might be drinking. Chat Icon

this thread is cracking me up. People actually feel the need to say how much they drink, just not while TOTing. Only on LIF.
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no way!!! Brad is AWESOME for that costume!!!

Posted 11/1/09 8:22 PM
 

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Re: parents drinking while kids trick or treat!

Posted by mom2aidan

Is Brad drinking and ToTing????




Is Brad supposed to be DJ Lance from Yo Gabba Gabba?

Posted 11/1/09 8:22 PM
 

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Re: parents drinking while kids trick or treat!

A few years ago we were in Oakdale/Sayville area with friends & they did this. This year when we joined the same friend but their kids have grown out of the Trick or Treating phase, but when we went for a walk we saw the new batch of parents out walking with coolers in wagons.

Posted 11/1/09 8:25 PM
 

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Re: parents drinking while kids trick or treat!

My Dh's uncle made this hayride out of his trailer... took all the adults and kids around the neighborhpood ToTing.. we all had beer, wine som even had a coctail. Not one kid was lost, hurt, harmed at all. Everyone had a great time... then went back for a big get together.....It was fun!

There was even a local SC police officer who drove past and said have a good time!!
No harm when you arent acting like barbarians... its a drink!

To each is own! Like PP Live and let live!!

HAPPY HALLOWEEN!!!!!!

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Posted 11/1/09 8:50 PM
 

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Re: parents drinking while kids trick or treat!

I never even heard of drinking while TOT before. Never even thought about it. Maybe because i live in the city- but it never even occurred to me. We TOT in our buildings and went to a big street fair where the neighbors gave out candy and had shows- it was great. But even there, I didn't see any parents drinking.

Maybe because I am now a lightweight, but I wouldn't trick or treat with my 3 year old while drinking. One glass of wine and I feel something. I would be too scared that my reflexes would be too slow in case DD darted out or something.

Posted 11/1/09 9:18 PM
 

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Re: parents drinking while kids trick or treat!

Posted by mamasita27

I'm having my second beer of the evening and drink wine very regularly with DD at home.



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Posted 11/1/09 9:27 PM
 

CaseyGirl
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Re: parents drinking while kids trick or treat!

The thought to do something like that while trick or treating has never crossed my mind. Personally I think, why can't you just enjoy the time out with your kids?

Now, if I was sitting on my steps handing out candy I may have a drink in a cup (though not likely lol). But when walking around? That strikes me as odd. Never heard that before.

Posted 11/1/09 9:56 PM
 
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