PeePee Accidents with my 4 year old..

My DH and I are at our wits end with my stubborn DD (4yrs old)

I swear over the last couple of months she has had an accident at least every other day! She has been trained since just before her 3rd bday and I think she has had more accidents as a 4 year old than a 3 year old.

I really think she is just too darn busy and stubborn to stop whatever activity she is doing to go. It is like she just doesnt want to miss anything!

She will even go up to her room get new pants and underwear and put her wet ones in the laundry basket in the bathroom!

Then when we ask why, she says she didnt know (which I know it HAS to be a lie)

We are sooooo frustrated. My 3 yr old son NEWLY potty trained hardly any accidents and my older 4 yr old daughter does! I dont get it! I thought boys were supposed to be harder!

We just got an email from her teacher that she had an accident at school today! I guess I am surprised with her track record lately that this was her first!

Any suggestions on how to stop this!

Re: PeePee Accidents with my 4 year old..

another one today! Only it was "#2" Thank god not a lot!

UGH!! I really don't know what to do!

Anyone have any suggestions!?!?!

I am taking my frustrations out on her..but I am sure that is not good..I hope I am not making it worse!

Re: PeePee Accidents with my 4 year old..

No suggestions same issue here My ds is almost 3.5 and had a poop accident at school today. He told me it was a really big poop I was so annoyed The frustration is bc you know they CAN do it they just dont!