POLL Would you call those who didn't RSVP or just assume they are not coming?

My DH says not to call but I say it could be that they forgot or didn't get the invite.

First I'm going to give several more days post RSVP date but I'm curious what you would do.

Would you call them?

Re: POLL Would you call those who didn't RSVP or just assume they are not coming?

DH and I are dealing with this now waiting on a few that did not RSVP
I would definately call those people if the RSVP date has passed.
THey may have forgotten to call or lost the invite.

Re: POLL Would you call those who didn't RSVP or just assume they are not coming?

DH said that maybe not calling is their answer of not coming.

I just have to say for anybody that does this they have absolutely no class.

Re: POLL Would you call those who didn't RSVP or just assume they are not coming?

For what? For a wedding or a shower I call..Its ride and You need to know.

For a smaller party, nah I take it as a no.

Re: POLL Would you call those who didn't RSVP or just assume they are not coming?

Re: POLL Would you call those who didn't RSVP or just assume they are not coming?

It would depend on who it was. If it were a close family or friend who, usually, doesn't forget things like this, I would call. However, in general, I would not. If you don't have the common courtesy to pick up a phone and let me know "yes or no", I can't be bothered with you. If you show up and I don't have a place for you, I'll let you know why. I can't stand rude people!