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Post-partum sex question...please level with me

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MrsRivera
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Post-partum sex question...please level with me

How bad would it be to...um...not wait the full 6 weeks before DTD? Chat Icon

I'll be honest...I feel great since my c-section, I'm due to have back surgery in 2 weeks and after that, we'll be off-limits for 8 weeks...

We're dying over here!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/5/09 9:25 PM
 
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DmarieK
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Re: Post-partum sex question...please level with me

If I would have had a section I probably wouldn't have waited.

I waited until I got the doctors ok...I way so scared of doing any permanent damage after what I went throughChat Icon

Posted 1/5/09 9:27 PM
 

KateDevine
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Re: Post-partum sex question...please level with me

Yeah. I didn't wait 6 weeks. I think we waited 3 (maybe?)

I was on pelvic rest from 20 weeks on, we were dyingChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/5/09 9:29 PM
 

mamallama
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Re: Post-partum sex question...please level with me

We waited 3 weeks Chat Icon

Posted 1/5/09 9:31 PM
 

Kelly04
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Re: Post-partum sex question...please level with me

I think we waited only 4 or 5 weeks after my section....it was ok for us....I think as long as you feel well go for it....or maybe call your Dr. in the morning and just double check.

Posted 1/5/09 9:32 PM
 

NewlyMrs
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Re: Post-partum sex question...please level with me

we waited and even long after we got the ok, it still was not "comfortable" If you are BFing, you tend to be dry, so if I was you....invest in some his & hers lub.Chat Icon

Posted 1/5/09 9:37 PM
 

MrsRivera
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Re: Post-partum sex question...please level with me

Ok, I feel a little better reading some of these responses! Chat Icon

It'll be 4 weeks on Friday...I'm thinking we may attempt it... Chat Icon

Posted 1/5/09 9:38 PM
 

JChia
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Re: Post-partum sex question...please level with me

Tip: Use lots of KY!

Posted 1/5/09 9:41 PM
 

Elbee
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Re: Post-partum sex question...please level with me

We didn't wait long at all after my C-section - maybe 3 weeks, maybe even less Chat Icon The doctor just told me, no missionary - she didn't want DH leaning on my stiches, so she said just try other positions i we were comfortable with that.

Posted 1/5/09 10:30 PM
 

ABCiverson
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Re: Post-partum sex question...please level with me

After my first baby we waited 3 months (I had an epistomy) and it really hurt.

After my second baby I didn't tear or get cut and we only waited 11 days and it didn't hurt at all!

Posted 1/5/09 10:33 PM
 

Diana1215
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Re: Post-partum sex question...please level with me

After my c-section we waited 4 weeks!

Posted 1/5/09 10:33 PM
 

Kelly9904
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Re: Post-partum sex question...please level with me

I had a scheduled c/s and was given the all clear at my 4 week appt.

Afterall nothing was affected down there so go for it.

Posted 1/5/09 10:34 PM
 

michele31
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Re: Post-partum sex question...please level with me

Personally, I would call the doctor. The last thing you need is to have any additional problems when you are having back surgery soo soon.

Posted 1/5/09 11:51 PM
 

mamabear
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Re: Post-partum sex question...please level with me

I had a vaginal birth and only waited 3.5 weeks. When I was leaving the hospital, I asked the doctor who discharged me what the real rules were. He said that there is no medical reason to avoid sex after 2 weeks. He said it was a comfort issue and that before 4 weeks it probably wouldn't be comfortable, but that most women are comfortable by 6 weeks. It was a little uncomfortable in some positions at first at 3.5 weeks, but it was still great :)

Posted 1/6/09 12:50 AM
 

JenandMikey
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Re: Post-partum sex question...please level with me

Posted by DmarieK


I waited until I got the doctors ok...I way so scared of doing any permanent damage after what I went throughChat Icon



ditto ....i had a c and waited...torture but i felt right doing it

Posted 1/6/09 6:29 AM
 

Janice
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Re: Post-partum sex question...please level with me

did you have a c-section? we only had to wait 4 weeks with my c-section

Posted 1/6/09 7:43 AM
 
 

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