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MrsRivera
2 under 2...whew!!
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Name: Beth
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Post-partum sex question...please level with me
How bad would it be to...um...not wait the full 6 weeks before DTD?
I'll be honest...I feel great since my c-section, I'm due to have back surgery in 2 weeks and after that, we'll be off-limits for 8 weeks...
We're dying over here!!!
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Posted 1/5/09 9:25 PM |
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DmarieK
My loves!!
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Re: Post-partum sex question...please level with me
If I would have had a section I probably wouldn't have waited.
I waited until I got the doctors ok...I way so scared of doing any permanent damage after what I went through
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Posted 1/5/09 9:27 PM |
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KateDevine
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Re: Post-partum sex question...please level with me
Yeah. I didn't wait 6 weeks. I think we waited 3 (maybe?)
I was on pelvic rest from 20 weeks on, we were dying
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Posted 1/5/09 9:29 PM |
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mamallama
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Re: Post-partum sex question...please level with me
We waited 3 weeks
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Posted 1/5/09 9:31 PM |
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Kelly04
LIF Adolescent
Member since 8/05 841 total posts
Name: Kelly
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Re: Post-partum sex question...please level with me
I think we waited only 4 or 5 weeks after my section....it was ok for us....I think as long as you feel well go for it....or maybe call your Dr. in the morning and just double check.
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Posted 1/5/09 9:32 PM |
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NewlyMrs
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Member since 10/06 14432 total posts
Name: Jennifer
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Re: Post-partum sex question...please level with me
we waited and even long after we got the ok, it still was not "comfortable" If you are BFing, you tend to be dry, so if I was you....invest in some his & hers lub.
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Posted 1/5/09 9:37 PM |
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MrsRivera
2 under 2...whew!!
Member since 2/07 9876 total posts
Name: Beth
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Re: Post-partum sex question...please level with me
Ok, I feel a little better reading some of these responses!
It'll be 4 weeks on Friday...I'm thinking we may attempt it...
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Posted 1/5/09 9:38 PM |
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JChia
Mom of 2 Princesses
Member since 9/07 2540 total posts
Name: Jen
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Re: Post-partum sex question...please level with me
Tip: Use lots of KY!
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Posted 1/5/09 9:41 PM |
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Elbee
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Name: Me
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Re: Post-partum sex question...please level with me
We didn't wait long at all after my C-section - maybe 3 weeks, maybe even less The doctor just told me, no missionary - she didn't want DH leaning on my stiches, so she said just try other positions i we were comfortable with that.
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Posted 1/5/09 10:30 PM |
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ABCiverson
<3 my family
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Name: Amanda
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Re: Post-partum sex question...please level with me
After my first baby we waited 3 months (I had an epistomy) and it really hurt.
After my second baby I didn't tear or get cut and we only waited 11 days and it didn't hurt at all!
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Posted 1/5/09 10:33 PM |
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Diana1215
Living on a prayer!!!
Member since 10/05 29450 total posts
Name: Diana
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Re: Post-partum sex question...please level with me
After my c-section we waited 4 weeks!
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Posted 1/5/09 10:33 PM |
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Kelly9904
Mommy to 2 amazing little boys
Member since 5/05 9306 total posts
Name: Kelly
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Re: Post-partum sex question...please level with me
I had a scheduled c/s and was given the all clear at my 4 week appt.
Afterall nothing was affected down there so go for it.
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Posted 1/5/09 10:34 PM |
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michele31
LIF Adult
Member since 5/05 3372 total posts
Name: Michele
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Re: Post-partum sex question...please level with me
Personally, I would call the doctor. The last thing you need is to have any additional problems when you are having back surgery soo soon.
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Posted 1/5/09 11:51 PM |
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mamabear
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Re: Post-partum sex question...please level with me
I had a vaginal birth and only waited 3.5 weeks. When I was leaving the hospital, I asked the doctor who discharged me what the real rules were. He said that there is no medical reason to avoid sex after 2 weeks. He said it was a comfort issue and that before 4 weeks it probably wouldn't be comfortable, but that most women are comfortable by 6 weeks. It was a little uncomfortable in some positions at first at 3.5 weeks, but it was still great :)
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Posted 1/6/09 12:50 AM |
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JenandMikey
life is good =)
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Re: Post-partum sex question...please level with me
Posted by DmarieK
I waited until I got the doctors ok...I way so scared of doing any permanent damage after what I went through
ditto ....i had a c and waited...torture but i felt right doing it
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Posted 1/6/09 6:29 AM |
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Janice
Sweet Jessie Quinn
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Name: Janice
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Re: Post-partum sex question...please level with me
did you have a c-section? we only had to wait 4 weeks with my c-section
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Posted 1/6/09 7:43 AM |
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